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Hello everyone Im back on Collarme after being out of circulation for awhile Live in Taunton and work in New bedford Thinking of moving to NH so if u live near there dont be shy. Now looking for a great sub between the ages of 35 and 45. MUST Be a non-smoker I have really bad allergies! No switches please right now I am open to the possibility of an LTR but Not Obsessed with it. friends would be great aswell, maybe even someone to play regularly and who knows, full time ownership would be a possibility. Hopefully with a sense of humor and half a brain would be great if it isnt asking too much!: )
6/15/2011 1:22:20 AM

wow, cant believe its been such a long time since I wrote here lol.  A lot of things have changed since I have been on good old CollarMe.  I lost the option to renew my lease, not for anything I did wrong lol, the place I rented was being remodelled by its owner so I decided to try a change of scenery.  BIG MISTAKE, the commute to work practically killed me everyday! I mean I love to drive but come on, it was way too much to handle.  So now my lease is running out again and I decided that I am moveing back to where i was before, the realty place I rented from before has a place I like opening up at the end of July... already remodeled, lol so hopfully Ill be happy there awhile, so I will definitely be coming back.  My dog is excited about it too, he isnt too happy where we're living now, lol.  I was dating someone on and off for a few months until about Easter but now we're pretty much just friends.  anyway thats it.

 

hope everying is having a great summer, and btw anyone who is going to becky z's birthday party in 2 weeks let me know because I will need a place to stay during the weekend, gonna help set up & dont want to be driving back and forth like a crazy person. her place is filled up with friends from Michigan so I dont wanna sleep on the floor, I am to old for that stuff lol!  thanks !

9/27/2010 10:21:02 PM
hi everyone.  finally lost 4 more pounds. I might have to give up for ahwile, I dont seem to be losing any more weight at the moment.  on my mind right now is a friend who recently lost their partner due to the other person persuing a VANILLA lifestyle now.  But I don't think that a person ever really does end their fetishes, they just put off their fetishes for awhile People never really get "over" their interest in BDSM.  or do they? I would be interested in hearing what other people have to say about that.
8/19/2010 9:25:07 PM
just so that everyone understands, the person I was seeing and I decided to ends things last month. We both like each other as friends and are gonna stay friends. But he is really more interested in bdsm as a form of play and not as a life style. So even though we had plenty in common, we did not have enough of the same interests in the same kind of relationship. but, like i said, we are still hanging out sometimes as friends. Tomorrow we're going to see Lewis Black because we got tickets months ago. So anyway I am single again. I have been dating a little bit but mostly trying to keep things simple and light!
7/24/2010 3:31:40 AM
25 random Things About Me 1 I have spent the last 3 years with the love of my life! my german shepherd, Moo. who I adopted from the pound just 2days before he was going to be put down. 2 my best friend asked me to go to yoga with her because she said it would 'center' me and make me feel like a new person, she was so sure I was gonna love it. the whole time I kept Worrying about the wedgie that was Really Bothering Me! so yeah, didnt work for me lol. 3 I dont like organized exercising. I would rather go jogging than be stuck in a room full of people being told how to move. 4 My first 'real' date wasnt until i Was about 19 yrs old. I was a cheer leader in HS and had a lot of friends but for some reason boys never asked me out. spent a lot of weekends and home crying and thinking something was wrong w/ me. later i found out that 90% of people do the same thing. so i guess im normal after all:) 5 the coolest thing that ever happened to me was a Few years ago when I got pink flowers tattoed on my foot by Kat Von D! 6 I am a very girly girl, but I also love sports. also I think you can be in charge but also be feminine and sweet at the same time. Not all submissives Realize That you can be strong and still womanly, they think you need to be some sort of mean hard bitch. thats just not me. 7 I dont have kids but I am addicted to spending time with my 2 nephews. kids are cool and its fun to see the world The way they do. 8 i wore a pair of purple sun glasses all through my college graduation ceremony. that was like 15 years ago I thought I looked so cool. now I look at pictures of it and think, Who is that dork! lol 9 The no. 1 place I have ever wanted to go to was Paris but I never did because I felt like it was something that I should do with someone else who would appreciate it too Ive decided to go in 2012 no matter what, now I just need someone to go with:) 10 cigarette smoke gives me horrible allergies but I like an occasional glass of wine. I can drink the same glass for hours. 11 I dont get why people who want female led relationships are so strange. Because I consider myself pretty normal. 12 My favorite food is macaroni and cheese 13 originally I am from Texas but my sister married a guy from Mass and I came out for a visit and basicaly never left. 14 I had a major crush in the world on my neighbor, he was the schools biggest nerd. No One ever knew that when I was growing up The crush went on for years too I remember thinking how cute he was even when my friends would make fun of him. 15 in fact Now that i am Older, I realize that I always had crushes on the quiet shy type of boys, and since they Never asked me Out, thats probably why I didnt go out to much. If I could go back in time i would ask them instead 16 My biggest childhood phobia were those scary native island people on Gilligans Island I used to have nightmares about them, unfortunately that was my sisters favorite show and I would scream at the top of my lungs when it was on. To this day I cringe a lil bit when I am flipping the channels and I see it. 17 once I refused to date someone because he showed up to my house wearing a popped collar and he wouldnt fix it the right way before we left. he was vanilla. But I Still expect a man to dress to please Me. 18 I miss my mom sometimes 19 The coolest job I ever had was as a security guard in college 20 no matter how hard i Try, sometimes I have a Bad Hair Day and when I do, I slap a baseball cap over the whole thing, and wear it to work regardless of what the ladies in my office thinks. Go Rangers! 21 my favorite color is Purple. 22 I have a scar on the back Of my head from falling off a horse when I was 12, it was a pretty bad injury at the time but fortunatly my hair covers it. 23 Cold weather makes me feel a little bit sad, and I always need to go someplace sunny and warm in the winter time to have a break from it. 24 I love visiting new places and travelling. 25 although I consider myself very confident, my one weakness is throwing bad parties. The first time I threw a party was a disaster. It was my 10th birthday and I was so proud to choose everything I wanted, the food, the music, games, everything. But My dad stunk up the bathroom and my friends still tease me over this. Throwing parties is like a curse for me, lol.
5/22/2010 11:07:54 AM
Ive been seeing someone for a couple months now and things are going pretty well

Today asked me if I would be willing to take on a switch for a relationship for whatever reason.

guess the answer is maybe but while I may be OK with having certain things I am not about to 'serve' and follow orders

Also most of my friends are female so be ready to have to suffer through a ton of chick flicks lol.
3/22/2010 10:53:22 AM
if there is anything I cant stand its pushy submissives. All bullies should get off collarme!
3/3/2010 7:22:55 PM
it has taken me 3 months to lose 12 pounds hard work but feels so nice to update the weight number on my profile!!! LOL!
2/28/2010 4:10:38 PM
Let it be a lesson to you if you treat a domme like shit because she isnt what you are looking for... then you run the risk of her telling her friends to watch out for you... and you will also lose out on any chance with those dommes too.... so being an asshole is going to keep you from getting the relationship that you dream about.
2/13/2010 6:36:17 PM
Had a lunch date that didnt quite work out today it was fun but the age difference pretty much meant we didnt have anything in common really guess it's just me and the remote control tonight lol So if your serious about a ltr,please do try to be single and between 35 and 45 or at least pretty close! thx
2/4/2010 12:33:26 PM
Well, have recently ended things with a sub that didnt quite work out after a few weeks nice guy, but we just didnt have too many of the same kinks, lol. I wish him luck!

continue to search for the one... much easier said than done. please be single and ready for vanilla and Ds relationship also please be ready to show me a face/body pic Even better would be one clothed and one naked pic just to see how good my future sub is at following my orders.
12/3/2009 12:06:38 PM
Well Ive had several fun dates and met some nice people, but so far nothing has stuck, nice to meet new people though. this weekend my good friend Mistress B in waltham(Im sure some of u know who i mean)'s sub dave is having a 35th birthday bash Beth has asked me and some other dommes to be part of some mystery scene with dave, I cant wait. Anyone who is going, get in touch maybe we can meet up for drinks or dinner before hand.
10/15/2009 9:47:28 AM
I just got msged by a 20something who called me a MILF. I am not a MILF I dont have any kids, but thanks! way to make a girl feel young LOL! Btw, guys on here who become disrespectful when someone isn't interested in you! Get off the site, youre not really sub!
1/26/2009 3:06:50 AM
So I have met a couple of really great subs here, and also a few that, well, didnt quite workout in real time. Its ok though, I am hopeful.:) going to the Fetish Flea in a couple of weeks, with a few domme friends of mine, and Im too excited. Have even bought a new leather corset for the occasion being with my girlfriends in a kink friendly atmosphere will be so great.. its one thing to go to a club or party, but able to go out in the broad daylight decked out in my gear will be a nice change. But, it would also be great to bring a sub friend Anyone who's interested, can let me know.
7/23/2008 7:03:55 AM
this is a real message I got from someone after wanting to take a couple of days before I responded.... "Are you always so rude?  Good riddance, bitch.  And don't bother replying now-- I will just delete the message.  Idiot." First of all, I have gotten a lot of messages, so sometimes I need a little extra time to respond.  Most have been patient and very nice about that.  Secondly A guy who claims to want a female led relationship, yet calls a dominant female BITCH and insults her intelligence, yeah that's not sub at all, just a game player As per rules here I wont say who the person is. But all Mistress are welcome to email me for details. Come on Collarme, send me a better quality of person!!! lol
6/5/2008 11:26:05 PM
Hello everyone I seem to be having some trouble w. the collarme message system,which does not always allow my send button to actualy work when I click on it . but It could just be my browser. if you see me online, plz send me a chat request. OR if Im not on CM, send me an alternate way to contact you, like an IM or email address thx
imkate
 
 Age: 25
 St. Thomas, Virgin Islands