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Pan Female Dominant, 42,  Huntsville, Alabama
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I am a real time Domme who has both Sensual and Sadistic sides to Her personality. Where I fall on the spectrum depends on who I'm with and the mood that I'm in on any given day. I have been learning about and exploring the lifestyle for 12 years. First and foremost, I am looking to meet people and make friends. I am a no nonsense kind of person who is straightforward. That is not to be confused with being loud, obnoxious, or rude.

By the same token, do not mistake my soft voice and kindness for weakness. Sometimes a look is enough. I currently serve as leadership for Loving Ties That Bind, a Femdom Group in North Alabama. I enjoy power exchange, training, and mentoring others in the lifestyle.

I have a great, but wicked and twisted sense of humor. I find that it's important for me to be compatible with people on multiple levels outside of the lifestyle in order to make a good connection. The lifestyle is part of me, but it is not all there is to me. I am a trained musician, an amateur gourmet, a world traveler, and appreciate good food, good friends, and good conversation.

I am not seeking submissives at this time. I have a wonderful boy, Buc, who wears My collar of consideration. He has proven himself worthy to wear My collar and bear My name time and time again.










 Dominant Female








Actively Seeking:



 Fine Dining (Expert)


 Musical Theater

 Travel (Expert)

 Camping (Expert)

 Horseback Riding


 Blindfolding you

 You worshiping my body

 You worshiping my breasts

 Disciplining you with a cane

 Local BDSM Community

 Penetrating your rear

 You massaging me (Expert)

 You kissing my feet (Expert)

 Hair Pulling

 Going to munches

 Training you to be completely
obedient to me and only me

 Complete control of your orgasms



 Karaoke (Expert)

 Singing (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Eighties Music




 Art Galleries



 Renaissance Faires



 Tying you up

 Keeping you permanently locked in tamper evident chastity

 Collaring you



 Disciplining your private parts

 You being my domestic servant

 You at the end of my leash

 Mental Bondage

 You servicing me with your mouth

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Play

 Spanking you

 Dominating you with a strap-on

 Tickling you while you're bound

 Wax Play

 Board Games

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 Science Fiction





 Classical Music

 Electronica / EDM



 Nineties Music

 Pop Music


 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes


 Bar Hopping

 Going to the Opera


 Country Music

 Curious About:


 Martial Arts



 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Modern Primitivism (Beginner)


 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Shibari (Beginner)

 Suspension Bondage

 Alternative Medicine




 Horror Movies



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Journal Entries:
6/9/2009 8:34:47 AM
Buc and I are heading to Atlanta this weekend for SELF and we can't wait!  Look forward to seeing everyone there!

4/12/2009 2:11:16 PM
I realized it had been a LONG time since I had posted anything so I decided it was time for an update!  I am NOT looking for a submissive, as I have a wonderful boy, Buc, who takes great care of Me!  For those of you who are still looking, I wish you well in your search!  If you're located in the North Alabama area and would like more info on the local lifestyle, feel free to contact Me. 

10/26/2008 1:25:57 PM
Thanks to everyone who made it out to the Halloween party last night!  It was great seeing old friends and getting to know new ones.  It was a very special night as My boy Buc formally and publicly petitioned for his collar.  I have accepted and he will be given a collar of consideration in November.   

10/14/2008 5:50:34 AM

To those who made DomCon Atlanta what it was, THANK YOU! It was a weekend of personal growth and was not always easy, but I am so glad I I just need to catch up on sleep!

I look forward to the coming weeks as there is going to be a lot going on.  To the friends who are coming from out of town for the weekend that I haven't seen in months, I can't wait to see you!  The Halloween party is going to be AWESOME!

November holds many things...My birthday, giving a collar of consideration to My boy, a weekend of learning, and spending time with those who I care about.

Now I have to get working on a costume for Halloween!

9/11/2008 4:03:29 AM

ANTICIPATION can be such a delicious thing...for all parties involved.  I have so much to anticipate and look forward to, and I know that I am not alone in my anticipation.
I look forward to this weekend.  I love the planning and scheming and devising...knowing that others are in heady anticipation of that as well.  I look forward to the collaring ceremony of two very dear people to me, and the opportunity to spend some much needed quality time with them and others that I care about. Oh yes, My hands are itching to tie, tease, torture, and any other number of delicious things.  It's going to be a wonderful weekend.   

I look forward to October, and Domcon in Atlanta.  The opportunity to meet a number of people that I have only spoken to online, to network with others in our community, and to increase my own knowledge of myself and domination, to be able to teach and hone the skills of those who serve Me or desire to serve.  To the one who travels from far away who desires to serve well, knowing the anticipation of serving and the opportunity to prove themself, not only to Me but to accomplish that need and desire on a personal level.

I look forward to November, and the Jay Wiseman weekend being sponsored by TRC and NASSA.  Not only will it be my birthday weekend, but the weekend promises many good things already, and I can't wait to see what comes out of it. 

I am one HAPPY, HAPPY, Domme and when I'm happy...things are soooo good for those around me.  Buckle yourselves in people...the FUN is about to begin!  

8/1/2008 7:59:43 PM
Thank you to all those who made the weekend in Chicago for Pantheon of Leather all that it was.  Congratulations to Ms Sabrae for winning Ms International Olympus Leather...YOU TOTALLY ROCK! 

6/1/2008 7:26:37 AM
WOW!  What an incredible demo last night!  Thanks to everyone who was able to make it out.  If you didn't, you were missed!  I'm still flying this morning!  lol  I look forward to seeing everyone this weekend at TRC.  Have a great week!

5/10/2008 3:58:54 AM

Heading out to spend time with My mom this weekend.  While she's not aware of My alternative lifestyle choices, nor should she be, she is responsible I suppose for a number of traits that I possess.  She has an independent spirit, a calming soft spoken voice, a love for knowledge and learning, and the ability to nail your ass to the wall without raising her voice.  In My opinion she is a steel magnolia: beautiful, strong, always a lady, but tough as nails...and I'm so very thankful that she's mine. 

5/6/2008 5:02:04 AM
*Grins* Wow...somebody was in a mood the other day!  If you're interested in Me, send an introductory email and tell me a little about yourself.  It shouldn't be a form letter and it shouldn't go into all of your kinks.  I can look at your profile assuming you've completed it and find out those things.  Think about what drew you to the lifestyle and why you are here.  Honesty and candor is appreciated.

5/4/2008 3:51:26 PM

If you are wondering why you don't get responses to your emails when you send basic chit chat questions, get off your ass, do some research...and at the very least read the profile before messaging someone.  If you're going to ask questions, put some thought behind them.  Don't send emails that say "Hi, How are you?" or "Do you like this or that?"  Your email is your chance to make a good first impression.  Put some effort into it.  Bring your best or stay home.

4/6/2008 6:01:55 AM
There is something so wrong about being awake before 7 am when you didn't get in bed until 2:30...what's up with that???  

Last night in Birmingham was too much fun!  Thanks to everyone who made the demo at TRC a success.  It was great meeting the new people that were able to come out.  And to the special new friends, I will definitely be seeing you later. *grins*

3/30/2008 11:17:44 AM
Wow!  What a great weekend!  It feels like I went on vacation and I was at home!  Thanks to all who made it out to the demo last night...if you didn't make it, you missed a GREAT time.  Thanks to the new friends who came for the weekend...I'm sore from laughing!  It was a pleasure to be able to spend your special day with you!  Can you say, "ROAD TRIP!"

3/7/2008 7:22:11 PM
Thank you to all who made this past weekend in Nashville so enjoyable.  Everything from the demo to dinner to the party Saturday night was wonderful, and brunch on Sunday will not be forgotten for a long time!  I look forward to repaying the hospitality soon!

1/28/2008 5:04:18 PM
Ever wonder why so many profiles focus on what a person wants from a possible partner but rarely mention what they will bring to the relationship??? 

Things that make you go "Hmmmmmm..." 

1/12/2008 3:09:02 PM

Some days the beast can get quite restless in Me and wants out.  To have one at My feet, ready to do My bidding, to feel their skin respond under the caress of the flogger or the cane, and then watch them gasp as they feel the touch of My hand.  To know that I have connected with them in the deep recesses of their watch as one serves Me with sincerity and a deep desire to please...whether it be personal service, or as My assistant, helping Me prepare for an evening...  

1/6/2008 5:27:46 PM
I have returned from the weekend bondage workshop and had a great time seeing old friends and meeting new ones.  Thanks to everyone who made this weekend in Birmingham possible...look forward to seeing you all again soon!

11/25/2007 1:28:56 PM
I am seeking QUALITY submissives rather than quantity of submissives.  There may be a lot of submissives out there, but there are not anywhere near as many quality Dommes.  We can be and are selective, so put your best foot forward.

10/29/2007 4:37:40 PM
What an incredible weekend!  I was filled with such a sense of pride to participate in the collaring ceremonies of 2 Dommes I am mentoring and their submissives.  To see where they have come from, to observe them as they are growing daily, and to anticipate where their journey might take them is an incredible thing and I am thankful to be part of their journey! 

Saturday night was also special for other reasons...a young friend was able to experience his first caning at My hand.  He did very well, and I think perhaps he is interested in experiencing more.  The one under My protection was able to enjoy the feel of the new canes I had just purchased.  *smiles* The sound of him purring is music to My ears. 

Being asked to flog one of the newly collared subs was a special treat.  This particular sub is a joy to play with, and it was an opportunity for others to see Me play from a different angle...being on the outside looking in, which I think was an interesting experience for them. 

For those of you who are part of My life and make it what it is...I thank you, from the bottom of My heart. 

10/16/2007 10:04:46 AM

Congrats and major props go to a dear friend, Mistress Sabrae, for winning Ms SE Leather Olympus!  YOU GO GIRL!!! 

10/4/2007 1:24:43 PM
I am so excited...vacation starts tomorrow!!!  I am currently seeking a submissive.  Please read My profile and journals in their entirety before contacting Me.   

9/24/2007 12:07:10 PM

Wowee...what a weekend!  It started off with a great morning with a good friend who shall remain nameless, and graduated into an evening of corsets, pedicures, foot worship, spankings, floggings, canings, and fire cupping.  After a few hours sleep and a drive back, I had a wonderful lunch for some Domme aftercare and then a relaxing afternoon.  Thanks to those who made the weekend such a memorable experience...Y/your hospitality, kindness and service were much appreciated!

9/12/2007 7:11:39 AM

LIFE IS GOOD!!!  I'm so pleased with where things are right now...I have 2 Dommes that I'm mentoring that are coming into Their own.  Their submissives are progressing nicely too.  In fact, official collaring ceremonies are in the planning stages now!  I've also been enjoying the time with a certain little one who is just beginning his journey.  We're not sure where the path is going to lead, but we're enjoying the journey thoroughly!  Laughter is a very good thing and there's never a shortage of it when we're together.   


8/22/2007 8:55:06 PM
I am not seeking..My cup is currently full and running over! :-)

8/10/2007 9:23:27 AM
I've noticed quite a few journals as of late that speak to the issue of replying to messages or emails.  Yes, there are players here and wanna bes, but they are present in the real world too.  Unfortunately, for a subtantial number of people, the world of BDSM exists solely online and so their view becomes rather jaded as to what is considered acceptable behavior. 

Approaching someone who has been in the lifestyle real time with cheesy pick up lines that you'd use in a bar, is not going to get you far.  You will most likely be deleted and never thought of again.  The thing to remember when you are seeking someone, whether they are Dom/me or sub is looking for QUALITY, not quantity.  Be selective.  Don't just settle for anyone so that you will find someone. 

If you email someone expressing interest and you don't use punctuation or capitalization, that sends a message that you are sloppy and lazy.  Take the time to read that person's profile completely.  If they enjoy intellectual discourse and you don't even use punctuation in your sentences, it is very likely that you are NOT going to attract their attention. 

Sometimes we all can get a bit puffed up with an exxagerated sense of our own importance.  We all have our gifts and areas that we need to improve in.  As shocking as it may seem, NO...I don't feel LUCKY because you want to allow Me the pleasure of spanking you.  Asses are nothing special...everybody has them.  It's the individual that it holds up that's important. 

8/8/2007 8:51:52 AM

Just want to say a huge thank you to the friends in Birmingham who put on such a spectacular interrogation demo this past weekend.  Being able to spend time with you all was great!  I had a blast!  THANK YOU!!!

7/2/2007 6:42:51 AM
I am not looking for subs or slaves currently.  If you write and ask about My training you when I am not accepting new subs or slaves, I WILL NOT RESPOND, because you obviously didn't take time to read or pay attention to what I'm saying in the first place.  If you are a submissive or slave and we have been conversing, please continue to do so...I am enjoying our correspondence. 

6/8/2007 7:23:32 AM
My training schedule has opened up somewhat as of late.  Even though I'm not actively looking for submissives at this time, I'm open to talking to and getting to know others...if there's some mutual interest there and our needs are compatible, then we'll see where things go. 

6/4/2007 5:54:31 PM

If you want to attract My attention, well thought out sentences with proper punctuation are a good way to do it.  I won't respond to one sentence disasters nor anything that reads like a form letter.  Be willing to put your best foot forward.  I will accept no less. 

5/7/2007 10:16:08 AM
My training schedule is currently full, therefore I'm not actively seeking any new submissives for training.  If you are a Domme, female sub or switch, or male sub or switch in sub mode who prefers Female Dominants and you live in the North Alabama or South Tennessee area and are interested in getting involved with local lifestyle groups, I'd like to hear from you. 

4/4/2007 5:39:48 PM

I am not looking for long distance relationships where online training is the primary contact.  Although weekends might be possible for the right person, I am not looking for a long term live in submissive.  If you are not located close enough that we can get to know each other face to face, then let's not waste each other's time. 

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