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ISO Long-Term FWB & Play Partner Near the Triad
Quaintrelle - A woman who emphasizes a life of passion expressed through personal style, leisurely pastimes, charm, and cultivation of life?s pleasures.
11/2016 update....I'm in limbo. Not exactly sure what direction I want to go. I think I want to try out things that I haven't fully explored yet. I'm seeking a kinky play partner. An ethical, primal, hedonist. I'd rather have a power exchange situation that is natural, fluid and driven by our energies than formal or formulaic. IL will give and take power as it is earned and deserved.
I prefer someone younger than me, but not as low as your 20's, that starts to get a little creepy. For years i have sought the company and friendship of people almost a generation behind me. People my age tend to bore me a bit and don't "get me." I feel and act much younger than most people my age. 33-45 is an ideal age range.
I have a child who takes up a couple of weekends a month of my time. I have a full time job which involves periodic overtime. So....what does this mean? The closer to me you are, the easier it will be to find mid-week time to spend together.
AFA relationship types, I'll consider monogamy, open, poly, and other styles of ethical-nonmonagamy. All I require is that you have enough time and attention to devote to me and that we are 100% open and honest, esp. regarding communication.
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If you are sincere about getting to know me, please take the time to read my TOS journal entry.? I will makes things go so much smoother in the long run.
So many messages...I thank all of you for taking the time to write something nice to introduce yourselves. However, I can't respond to all of them. If I fail to respond, don't take it personally, it's just that you didn't pique my interest.
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So, you want to be dominated?
Read this first.
https://fetlife.com/users/1760898/posts/2088158
https://fetlife.com/users/1760898/posts/2092027
Now you have no excuses... |
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By the way, just because I list something as a "dislike" doesn't mean I won't do it. As a sub, its enjoyable to be forced to do things you don't like. If something is a "hate" then you can assume I would get no enjoyment from forced participation. Makes perfect sense, right? And hard limits are hard limits...don't go there, don't waste my time talking about going there. |
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MsQuaintrelle's TOS (terms of service)
1. Be real. Be honest. I walk away when I find holes in a story.
2. Use manners. Such as, when you introduce yourself in your initial message, provide something....a reason why I should be interested in beginning correspondence with you. If you don't have a pic on your profile, send one in your first or second message. I have taken the risk/leap of faith and put one on my profile. I don't care what you do for a living, you can send a pic with your message. It all begins with attraction....don't worry, I very eclectic tastes. You never know who I might find attractive. And, for goodness sake, don't send me a chat invite if you have not introduced yourself and I have responded (see rules #3 & 4).
3. Expect that after exchanging several mail messages that we can go to something like YIM or KIK (for efficiency). Once that has been established and no red flags have been raised on my end, we can exchange phone numbers and talk on the phone. Realize at this point I have been and will be using what I learn about you to begin my vetting process.
4. Again, if things are going well and nothing seems amiss, we can add video chatting to our methods of communication. If at this step you think you are going to see my naughty bits via cam, refer to rule #2.
5. If we are still into communicating and getting to know each other at this juncture, we can discuss a vanilla face-to-face meeting. We will meet at a busy public place of my choosing. I will give you further information about how this will go down on a case by case basis.
6. After I have returned home and have had time to reflect on the meeting, I will let you know if a more intimate get together is in our future.
If you can't/won't abide by my TOS, then pass me by. |
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I have blocked people for sending me unsolicited vulgar messages or because they were harassing me. I have no clue why a person would block another if they have had great conversations for a while. Especially without saying a word... |
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I need to vent/clarify/just put it out there...
Please be real if you message me with the intent of getting to know me. Be prepared for true communication (not just dirty talk), meeting face to face (I am exactly who I am in my pics, you better be too), and possibly a relationship (however we negotiate and define it). I have had to turn some catfish into chum already. Others want to talk yet when it comes time to meet, they don't have enough time or have an excuse for not showing up. You can only make a first impression one time...
For those of you who want the abridged version of my rant...don't toy with me (unless we are in a scene).
Last but not least...I need the truth! No matter what it is...I am not judgmental, but if I find out you lied or deceived me, its over. Finis. Kaput. |
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| Age: 22 |
| Dayton,
Ohio |
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