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When you contact me, you may address me as Ms Purple or Ma'am...nothing else, I am not yet your Mistress, so do not refer to me so.
I live in Hamilton Ontario Canada...for some reason I cannot put my province/city on my profile.
Please, no one or two word emails, or messages that are only one sentence. If you do initiate contact, which I have no problems with, be sure to tell me something about yourself that you think may interest me. The fact that you find me interesting and attractive is nice, but what will make me want to contact you and get to know you? I also DO NOT, repeat, DO NOT like genitalia pics as profile pics, for males or females, that is an instant turn off and block on my part, so be aware of that. If you have like 200+ friends pics on here, and 100+ friends names, do not think you are going to add me to the list. If we have not chatted, and you have not asked permission to do so, DO NOT send me a friend request, it will be declined.
If you are not local to me, you had best have a firm date of arrival for your initial meeting with me, preferably with flight confirmation information. I will not waste my time on those who have no intention of following through on their stated plan to come to town. If you are married, and your profile does not state that, you had best be certain to reveal that to me during one of our initial communications, preferably the one where I invite you to tell me about yourself, both lifestyle and vanilla life. Yes, you are reaping the rewards of others actions, fair, no, but life is seldom fair and that is the way it is going to be...until you earn my trust.
I am an attractive, educated Domina, I am a kind, caring, gentle, compassionate woman, but make no mistake, I am dominant. I do not feel that a dominant woman has to deny her femininity, or come across as rude, arrogant, pushy, or mean, to be a dominant. It is all about control, first of one's self, and then of those around one. I have the most amazing partner sharing my life and I am not looking to replace him. My sub/slave/pet is for me, my subs or slaves will not be required to serve Him except as regards common courtesy, unless all concerned so desire. We do spend a great deal of our time together, so my sub has to deal with that. I lean towards high protocol behavior in lifestyle settings, less so in vanilla settings, and fairly low protocol in private, unless you have done something that displeases me, then I go straight to high protocol. If you have displeased me, you will not wonder long what you did wrong, nor how to fix it.
I am seeking a submissive or slave to serve me only. Eventually I want a 24/7/365 relationship, but that will grow, or it will not. I am poly, you MUST be celibate, unless you are married, you are allowed no other partners other than your spouse. Your actions, done only with my approval, are your own. You may or may not interact with other dominants, but if you wish to, you must first gain my agreement. If you have your own place, or share with room mates that is fine for now. Your room mates should be aware of your lifestyle choices, and be ok with them. You will serve me in your home as you would in mine. If we decide that you are to live with Myself and my Partner, you will pay a portion of the household expenses, and see to the cleaning of the home, the cooking for all of us, and eventually all laundry duties, once I am satisfied that you can care for my belongings to my satisfaction...this position is not about sexual service, but about full service...If you cannot cook, I will teach you, I am a professional cook. You do not have to be a pain slut, rather you should be a sensationalist....wanting and needing to feel the many different feelings, hot, cold, pain, sharp, soft, stingy, caressing, zapping....I do not do cam or cyber only...it might be used if you have to be away from me, but I am a real life, real time Domina...and this is my life, not a portion of my life...
I am 5'5" about 185 lbs, a curvy redhead, attractive, with several tats. I was introduced to this life in the 70's, and this is my life, I am NOT "bedroom only".
MsPurple
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