Most "subs" on here are anything but.  Living in fantasy worlds, emailing me in hopes I'll help them get off even though they could care less about what I am looking for.  And when I reject them, as they leave me no other choice but to do, they turn on their "other" profile just to email me again and show their true colours and what they REALLY think of you, which was obvious from the start. I really am sick and tired of all of you with no grip on reality. I'm done responding to emails out of courtesy, from now on if you don't match my criteria it's unread/delete and blocked for you.  You scum don't deserve any "politeness" from me. 
MsP   

A warning to the ladies out there to stay clear of this one, he is unstable.  This was his response to being rejected. This one says he is a slave and only wants to serve.  When in reality is he nothing more than a woman hater.  

Will I cuckold someone again?
Well, like most things it's not a simple answer.  After all, I have no crystal ball, I have no idea who I'll meet in the future and what they will be like.   Although I believe that I am not the type of person who can stay monogamous, that doesn't necessarily mean that my future partner would have to be a cuckold involving the humiliation factor and so forth that most think of when the term cuckolding is used.  Life is always subject to change, as am I. 

MsP 

Those with nothing to hide, hide nothing.

"From: castratethisboi
you should castrate a boi... "
 

1. Why would a "boi" tell me what I SHOULD do?
2. What purpose or reason would that serve me?  Have I ever indicated that this would give me with great pleasure to do such a thing?  (I am a woman of reason and purpose.)
3. Why would I put myself in legal jeopardy and moral purgatory just for the self-destructive desires of another? 
4. Fuck off.
MsP 

If I have to bind you and force you to worship me, what would that say about me?  I cannot force a boy to do something I feel he should desire more than anything, to please me.  The trials I put him through should be so that he earns the chance to please me, because that is his heart's desire.  Pleasing me should not be made a chore for me or trial/punishment for the boy who claims to worship me.  

MsP

Happy St Valentine's Day my lovelies, may your day be a feast of pleasures. 
xxx, 
MsP

Rise above it? Naw, I'm going to stay right here and kick your ass.

The defiant sub.
Thinks he is clever.
Seeks the woman that can "tame" him.
Needs her to out think him at every turn.
Reads too many stories.

The wise Domme.
Knows she is clever.
Devotes her attention to her own needs.
Knows that the right sub will be sincere.
Does not have time for games.

MsP

Yes! Spelling and grammar counts!  If you expect me to take the time to read it then should take the time to write it properly. 
MsP

Only an idiot would read my profile and conclude that I'm here as a pro Domme.  But I might as well address this topic of pro Dommes for a moment since the topic has been brought up...even morons can give us something useful to think about.
Ok first, I want to say....pro Domme's DO have a legitimate place in the world of bdsm.  Many pros are just that...real professionals, they have an amazing repertoire, awesome toys, and killer looks.  Some pros have branched out into doing training sessions, seminars, books, video...etc etc...people profiting off their knowledge and skills and image....good for them!  Some...the ones most complain about on here...are probably not pros at all really, unless professional cons is what we are talking about. 
But the real professional Domme or Dominatrix, even the professional key holder, definitely has a legitimate role to play and offers a real service worthy of tribute.  For the bottom who wishes to request specific scenes and specific toys, who wishes to offer nothing in return in terms of relationship...then of course he should compensate his gorgeous top for her dedication and services.  If you aren't willing to offer a Domme your devotion, your self, your friendship, companionship, loyalty, obedience...etc etc etc....then HELL YES, give her whatever she asks for.  If you get really lucky maybe you could find that one real crafty Domme who will be happy if you bring her flowers, small gifts, or do nice gestures or small tasks for her to earn her attention.  However, if you are just looking to USE someone to get your fantasies fulfilled, well, save up your bottle money, it's really only fair that you get used in return.
MsP

An email from: (name removed)
"i am interested in learning more about you and what you do to men. i am not into forced bi, but cannot stop you from using toys in there. i have fantasies that i need to explore, but no one to explore with. i am not into financial bondage"
Can anyone explain why I am NOT interested in someone who sends me an email like this?
If you can, I'll be happy to hear from you.
MsP
p.s. this was the "subs" profile description:
"i am looking for that, younger domme or switch to use and abuse me. i lost a daughter when she was very young and never got over the fact that i was not there for her, so i need her to punish me both mentally and physically. for now, online only cam available once i feel trust. if you are a financial domme and i make the mistake of talking to you, dump me in the ignore box"

Why I cuckold my man.

I cuckold my man because I have a very high sex drive, always have, as a result one man has never been able to satisfy my needs, at least not for long.  If you buy into some theories of human sexual evolution that say a woman will always seek out a sexual partner with the absolute best genetic material possible, then my behavior throughout my entire life has always made sense.  I seek out a mate who is like the typical "beta" male, the good provider and caring partner.  And I seek out sexual gratification from prime "alpha" male material, which is likely linked to my primal desire to mate (i.e. breed) with the best DNA I can find at my peak fertile times.  This isn't something I think about every day, and at this point in my life the reality of having a baby is something that does NOT thrill me at all.  But I think denying our human instincts is to be very naive, and not recognizing the potential risks of being in a certain lifestyle is even more-so. 

I do not like to lie, and I do not like to hurt people who do not want to be hurt, therefore I abhor cheating on my partner.   I also cannot tolerate people who cheat on their partners, and I don't tolerate anyone lying to me either.  The fetish cuckold is, in theory,  the best type of mate I could have because he gets almost as much out of it as I do, possibly more in some cases although definitely his arousal is for different reasons than mine.   The proper word for such a man is actually a "wittol" but what are the odds of that catching on?   Anyways, the theory is that I could have a stable, loving, supportive life partner (the cuck), while at the same time enjoying my time with strong verile "bulls", as long as I am open and share this with my cuck in some way, a true win-win-win situation.

How couples in this lifestyle choose to share the experience with each other is entirely up to them, and should be expected to change and evolve just like other parts of their relationship will over the years.  There are no hard and fast rules here, no prescribed "scene" that must be followed, whatever works, whatever makes Her happy, whatever keeps him submissive.  That's all a couple really needs to focus on.

A Cuckoldress as opposed to a HotWife, is, in my opinion, a much more dominant role, and often, such as in my own case, is a Dominant woman in bdsm terms.  Her mate therefore is not just a cuck but also her sub or slave.  The primary emphasis no matter what the details are should at all times be on Her pleasure and satisfaction.  The bull may provide sexual satisfaction and perhaps to some extent some intellectual stimulation and entertainment as well.  But it is the cuck's sole honour and duty to provide his Lady with the stable loving relationship that ALL women need to some degree.  This could include financial support as well if the cuck is able to provide for his Lady, but of course in this day and age many women are more than capable of providing for themselves and may prefer to keep their independence in that way as well.

What a Cuckoldress is NOT, is a porn factory, a re-creator of erotic stories or cartoons or pornos that little wanna-be cucks have been consuming for years before finally having the (albeit little), BALLS, to actually commit to being a true cuckold.   My ONE singular purpose as a Cuckoldress is to satisfy MY desires and fantasies, not my cucks.  What does my cuck get in return?  The honour of hearing allll about it, yes every juicy dirty detail, being there before and after, and knowing he partner is a truly empowered and sexy woman who gets what she wants, and is therefore happier and more exciting to be with as a result.  He gets the REAL DEAL, and really, a wise cuck would know that this is far more valuable than sitting in front of his computer with nothing but a glow of a computer screen, some stories written by other MEN, and his right hand to play with.

Those wanna-be's who can't handle the reality of being a real cuck should stick to their stories online and their bottle of lotion.  Really, don't waste anyone's time if you don't have what it takes.  And oh yes....they alllll think they have what it takes....while saying how much it scares the shit out of them...lol. 

The cuck's role is really incredibly easy, your job is to be the bitch of the relationship.  Your key words should be "yes dear", or perhaps "yes Ma'am" depending on your personal preference.  If I want to spend the evening out, then you should be very proud and eager to have me on your arm.  If I want to lock you up in the shed for the evening while I entertain my new favorite bull...well, same thing goes.  If I want your dick locked up for my amusement? Do it with all the blind devotion of a man consumed by love for his Lady.  Love, cherish, and OBEY.  What's so hard to figure out about that?  ;-)
MsP

First impressions happen in an instant, yet they are often the most important way of showing who we are, and evaluating those around us.

Another word for first impressions are instincts, those inherent and sometimes learned abilities to assess a situation or a person quickly for all of its potential, good and bad.

In my lifetime my instincts have served me well, in fact the only time I have gotten in sticky situations was when I tried to give someone a "chance" despite my first impressions.

MsP

Musing of the day...(another email response to someone)

I'm strong enough to know I don't have to deal with anyone who has nothing to offer. By something to offer I don't mean money or gifts, although flowers are nice. No, rather I expect a man who can take care of himself and not lean on others. What I want out of someone is someone truly fun and good to be around, someone I can teach and learn from, talk to, do things with both vanilla and kink. The little sissy boys who email me with fantasies of me chopping off their balls and cuckolding them...hm ...naw, they can't offer me anything I want.

I am very blessed to have self confidence. I noticed in a self defense class for women I was in once that some women really can't fight for themselves and I was truly grateful that I can. I've also lived on my own for about 10 yrs now, the good side of that is that you realize you don't need anyone, and the bad side is that you realize you don't need anyone...lol.  I continue to aim for the one I want to be with simply because I want to, not the one I can't live without.

MsP

Rolling In the Deep (lyrics by Paul Richard Epworth;Adele Laurie Blue Adkins)

There's a fire starting in my heart
Reaching a fever pitch and it's bringin' me out the dark
Finally I can see you crystal clear
Go ahead and sell me out and I'll lay your ship bare

See how I'll leave, with every piece of you
Don't underestimate the things that I will do
There's a fire starting in my heart
Reaching a fever pitch and it's bringin' me out the dark

The scars of your love remind me of us
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless
I can't help feeling

We could have had it all
Rolling in the deep
You had my heart inside your hand
And you played it to the beat

Baby, I have no story to be told
But I've heard one of you and I'm gonna make your head burn
Think of me in the depths of your despair
Making a home down there as mine sure won't be shared

The scars of your love remind you of us
They keep me thinking that we almost had it all
The scars of your love, they leave me breathless
I can't help feeling

We could have had it all
Rolling in the deep
You had my heart inside your hand
And you played it to the beat

Could have had it all
Rolling in the deep
You had my heart inside your hand
But you played it with a beating

Throw your soul through every open door
Count your blessings to find what you look for
Turn my sorrow into treasured gold
You pay me back in kind and reap just what you sow

(Now I'm gonna wish you never had met me)
We could have had it all
(Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
We could have had it all

(Now I'm gonna wish you never had met me)
It all, it all, it all, it all
(Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)

(Now I'm gonna wish you never had met me)
We could have had it all
(Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
Rolling in the deep

(Now I'm gonna wish you never had met me)
You had my heart and soul
(Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
And you played it to the beat

(Now I'm gonna wish you never had met me)
Could have had it all
(Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
Rolling in the deep

(Now I'm gonna wish you never had met me)
You had my heart and soul in your hand
(Tears are gonna fall, rolling in the deep)
But you played it, you played it, you played it to the beat

A strong man takes care of himself, asks for nothing, gives of himself freely and without being told to, and thinks of his Beloved before his own needs. 

A strong man is kind to animals, children, and is tolerant of those around him.  He is a soft touch, but he commands utterly. People feel safe and relaxed around him instantly because of his quiet strength. 

Only such a man would ever be given entrance into My world, and those found lacking will be quickly dismissed.

MsP

An interesting read if you can follow it.  At the bottom it speaks to the origins of cuckold symbolism and the rough public treatment men received if they let their wives rule the "roost".
http://thedabbler.co.uk/2011/02/green%E2%80%99s-dictionary-of-slang-nagging-wives-and-henpecked-husbands/


MsP

For centuries women have wanted a man that would slay a dragon for them...I think this continues to be played out by women and men where men are willing to take on extreme amounts of suffering to prove themselves for their women.  There's something romantic and chivalrous about a strong man on his knees.  What do you think?
MsP 

My response to an email asking me about how I would choose and train a sub.....

I feel the need to elaborate on the idea of "training" because I get asked a lot how I would "train" someone.  Being my sub is not a job, it's an honor, and the right man would have the dedication and smarts to learn and adapt to my needs accordingly out of an inner need to serve and to see his lady happy and content.   If he doesn't have this natural talent and drive inside of him, I cannot "train" him to. 

The right man would inspire me, through is dedication,  to abuse my new found power over him in the most amusing and cruel ways, while at the same time truly caring about his well being and happiness just as much as he cares about mine.   The scenes I would subject him to would be just as much a reward for him as a punishment, and something we both really get off on.  Ultimately I envision a very healthy relationship at the foundation with naturally developing power exchange and exploring of boundaries and limits that add the rush of excitement and intense intimacy that kinksters truly crave the most.  It is an addictive high like none other, which most likely why most say they could not live without it.

At the end of the day though I want to sit across the table from my equal, my man, someone I can count on in every way, someone who knows both my strengths and weaknesses and adores me all the same, someone I am proud of.  Last thing I would want is some trained monkey averting his eyes and calling me Ma'am constantly and completing "tasks" as he has been trained to do...ugh...boys like that are worthless to me as they hide most of themselves from me in the process.  I demand nothing less than everything, all of the mind, body, and soul, every thought, dream, fantasy, fear and emotion he has.  Once a man is open and vulnerable before me like that then I can see where I want to take him next.   Knowing him inside and out is the only way I can toy with him the way a cat does a mouse, watching him react then batting at him again to watch in amusement as he struggles with it, then watching him come back for more....  That is a true thrill.

MsP

People who friend request endless numbers of strangers in some attempt to be liked or loved are the epitome of weak and are doomed to shallow meaningless relationships. 
MsP

"Forgiveness is letting go of the hope that the past could have been any different."

Fakes like you are easy to see through.  Go cry your crocodile tears to someone more gullible.

Song of the sociopath....
I Think Bad Thoughts - Danko Jones
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A_WiuZNuI6E

 

I admit it, I've done a few things that I shouldn't be proud of
I got no remorse, no regrets,
never happy endings, only downsets
And if you wanna get down
I can go down as low as you wanna get
I wouldn't try to push me in
I'll leave you with regret
Don't test me!
I can rip you off, and steal all your cash
sucker punch you in the face, stand back and laugh
Leave you stranded as fast as a heart-attack
All day, I think bad thoughts
I can break your heart at the drop of a hat
Stab you in the back, in two minutes flat
Fuck your girl in the back of my Cadillac
I think bad thoughts
Take this to the streets, full of shit
Flush it down the toilet like you're taking a piss
It should be good, to see, for a change
just a day, how the other half lives
And when I take you out, I'll stay you down
Make sure you're getting nervous
You won't understand
That's how it is as a Knight in Satan's Service
Don't care what you think is wrong
If you wanna adjust my lifestyle
I'd love to see how you live
Feel free to cast your stone
Don't cry when you start bleeding
In a heartbeat, I'll turn you out as a sheep
Begging for mercy on your goddamn knees
It'll be hard to keep from laughing
Watching you cry will make my way
Just test me, please test me
Push the button, pull a lever, trick or treat
I'm asking, do you have the stuff
To find out if I can FUCK YOU UP
I can tell you lies, 'till your left in disgrace
Kick you when you're down, and spit in your face
Lead you on 'till you're lost without a trace

MsP

More things I like....

• knowing things about you before you tell me
• digging in the dirt
• the sun setting on my freshly manicured lawn
• cheese fondue
• chilean carmenere
• sealing the deal
• scaring the crap out of you
• always leaving them wondering

MsP

go on.....I dare you....

never too much of a painful thing....this bull is amazing to stay hard for such a pathetic subby
http://xhamster.com/movies/633142/cd_cuckold_amp_strapon.html

Hell hath no fury....
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-south-asia-13594762

Sometimes I wish the world was smaller so that I could meet more of you fascinating men. xoxoxox

MsP

I was introduced to one of Rodin's sculpture's this weekend, "L'Eternelle Idole" (The Eternal Idol) on a fellows profile on here.  I loved it so much I just had to include it in my photos.  There's something so powerful and moving about it, I could write so much more about it.  It at once makes me mournfully reminiscent and cautiously hopeful.  Many thanks to the one who shared it with me.   Now I'm hoping to see it in person someday. 

MsP

Never was..... never will be...... an "H" in CUCKOLD!

More things I love:

• Orchids
• dancing
• karate
• long walks
• eye contact that makes me tingle
• intimacy
• pushing boundaries
• exploring
• french accents
• blue eyes
• strong shoulders
• wicked grins
• honesty
• sweet cream ice cream with raspberries
• tulips
• motorcycles
• sleeves  (the tatoo kind)
• men who look after their families with strength and patience

grrrrrrrrrrrrr

If we chat for a bit and I notice that you have asked me nothing about who I am as a person, and ask me to repeat things that are already on my profile (about bdsm topics in particular) I will just stop chatting with you.  

It doesn't take long to figure out who is just after their own sexual gratification.

There are plenty of forums and websites on various fetish topics, I'm not interested in telling you my stories while you touch your pathetic little ......  well, whatever, just don't bother, I wasn't born yesterday.

MsP

Enjoy pleasure wherever you can find it....a sunset, a laugh with a friend, an amazing bottle of wine, and unexpected flirtation with someone new...  Sometimes the best things are those that we never even thought to look for.

With all the challenges in life what else makes it all worth it?  I choose to enjoy my life...how about you?

Some lovely emails lately from some adorable charming men, there truly are some good ones out there.  :-)

Clearly my last post hit home with a couple of guys who obviously don't like their little tricks and bad behavior being called out for what it is.

GOOD!

It only takes 2 seconds to block and report someone for vulgar rude emails, I encourage everyone else to not just block, but report.  It's the only way this site will get cleaned up.  

MsP

Ok girls listen up...because some of you are far too trusting, which shouldn't be a bad thing, until I see you getting hurt again, then I hurt for you.

If the guy says he's keeping you a secret because his ex won't be able to handle it, and he's just trying to protect you, there is a very good chance that the truth is she isn't his "ex"  at all, in fact she probably thinks that she's very much still his girlfriend/wife/sub/Mistress..whatever, so yes, if she knew about you it would make HIS life a living hell, (hell hath no fury like a woman scorned).  There's also a really good chance that you're not the only "other" woman out there. 

Here's some other "red flags"  to look out for:

• he says that his ex really knew how to "push his buttons"
• he still fights with his ex, a lot, (no it doesn't matter if they have kids, in fact this makes it far worse)
• he just dissappears for a day, two days...and has no good reason (and there is no good reason btw)
• he blames everyone and everything else for his problems...consistently (no, he doesn't just have bad luck....no, you don't have to save him)
• he tells you that as soon as he gets _____ straightened out in his life that he'll be better, have more time for you, or whatever it is that he is lacking
• he gets super defensive and even abusive if you try to talk about your feelings
• you find yourself asking him if he even cares *ding!ding!ding!* listen to yourself! 

These seem like no brainers, you'd think that anyone in this position would run fast, but they don't, because it builds, slowly, and the guy who is amazing and exciting at first usually has his hooks into you pretty deep before all these signs add up to a big fat zero.
Don't wait, get out while the getting it good, and don't look back. Guys who will pull this stuff are masters off manipulation and will definitely try to pin it all on you, you're suspicious, you're too uptight, you're too possessive/jealous, you don't understand them, and my favorite,  "I don't need this right now"...but hunny...trust me, it's not you, it's HIM.  

MsP

Now 'tis the spring, and the weeds are shallow-rooted,
Suffer them now, and they'll o'ergrow the garden
And choke the herbs for want of husbandry.
                                               ~~William Shakespeare

When we endure bad behavior at the start of a relationship, we give it permission to get worse. Protect your boundaries from the start, politely, yet firmly, or wind up fighting for every breath, for every moment, until you get your life back again.   A mature person who truly cares about and respects others will be very open to your needs and limits. 

It is our responsibility to judge those who want  piece of us, and in the beginning it is far easier to be objective and successfully weed out those who show signs (and there are always signs), that they will end up taking more than they give, that they lack respect for you as a person, that they should not be trusted.    

If you question someone's behavior, or reject them because things don't feel right, and they fly into a rage and yell that you should not judge them, then sleep well at night knowing that you have probably saved yourself a lot of trouble and heartache later. 

MsP

Married men are truly lost if they think approaching a female supremacist will result in anything but being chastized at best and ignored at worst.  There's nothing submissive or worthy about a man who would break his oath to the mother of his children while she silently suffers wondering why the fire has left the relationship and hoping her worst fears aren't true.  Shame on you.

Things I Love

• boundgods.com
• shiney things of no real purpose
• self indulgent blogs no one else cares about
• nice bums
• choreplay
• fans
• warm fuzzies
• intellectual discourse
• bailey's
• cool shade on a hot day
• laughing!
• boundaries
• saying no
• giving unsolicited advice
• kicking ass

Fresh Starts 

Sometimes, for some unknown reason, we just can't let go of an idea that we are convinced must be what we want and need, despite several failed attempts at achieving it in the past, we are driven to try, try again. 

Well, here's a couple of key reasons why these attempts are doomed to the same results as before. 

1) Time doesn't heal all, but it sure makes it easier to forget why it didn't work the first time.  But don't worry, you'll remember soon enough. 

2) Nothing significant has changed about the key factors involved that contributed to the failure in the first place.  Still married to the wrong person?  Still in that crappy job that makes you miserable?  Still feel like shit about yourself?  Still chasing a person that hasn't changed their life at all?   Same conditions = same results, it's foolproof, fool. 

The only way to have success where you always failed before is if the situation has really changed in some signficant way...simple concept right?   So then why do people always seem to overlook this so easily?    Well, human's are eternally hopeful, and who can blame them, we'd probably all jump off a bridge if we lost hope.   But on the other hand, spare yourself some misery and try something NEW.  Just a thought.

Dear subs and slaves;

Throw out what you think you know, destroy your ideas of what a Domme is, abandon your attachment to the little things.

Surrender to the idea that pleasing a powerful woman is the ultimate goal and supreme satisfaction for a man.   She is not the same as you, what She wants is not the same as you, but do not doubt that She knows the right way to please Her and that your only true singular desire should be to have the honour of giving Her what She wants.

Find a woman of power and integrity that you adore (whether she calls herself a Domme or not), then make it your life's ambition to please Her, the way SHE wants to be pleased, then you will see a truly empowered woman.  Set Her free from your little subby obsessions and unrealistic fantasies.  Pay attention, be there, be the man She needs by day and the slave She desires at night.  In true female supremacy there is no battle of the sexes...SHE RULES...and you will be better off for it.

MsP

I would sooner choose a vanilla man that knew how to please me than a "sub" who doesn't even know basic manners.  It is not my job to raise a decent man, that was your parent's job.

Repeating someone else's journal post as it is something people should be mindful of.

http://www.newschannel5.com/global/story.asp?s=10395877



When a Dom/Domme ignores suggestions or hints to carry out a certain fantasy in a certain way....don't question it.  As a sub and especially as a slave you are giving him/her not only power but responsibility ...and liability.  Holding back isn't always a matter of not being "tough" enough, sometimes it just means We think for Ourselves...go figure.

MsP

Thank you for the 12 very polite, genuine and flattering emails today, it makes the many idiotic ones and the one highly abusive one quickly blocked and forgotten.  ;-)  

MsP

Would it be wrong to make "subs" take an i.q. test before chatting with them further??

"What is BDSM?"

This was a question I got today from a few time zones away from someone trying to learn more about this elusive subject.  And I don't think it's a dumb question, in fact, I think it's a question that even the most experienced of us has always learned and changed our opinions on over the years.  Dictionary definitions aside it really can be something different for everyone, and I don't think there's anything wrong with that.  My mantra lately definitely is "whatever works for you".

So here's the response I rattled off, it is my opinion only and should be taken as such.  But since it's a question (or type of question) I get asked often, I thought I'd share it.

Dear _____,

In my opinion bdsm is what you make of it.  There are plenty of blogs, forums and websites, and real books on the various subjects of bdsm.  There are also local groups, forums, etc.  

Bottom line though, what type of relationship do you want?  Who are you?  What makes you tick?  What doesn't?   This is far more important to know than about the games and tricks.

My best advice is to get to the bottom of what excites you, what scares you, what warms your heart.  Then share that and stay true to it.  NEVER let the toys, the fantasies, the ladies dressed in leather distract you from what's important, your humanity and truly appreciating someone else for who they are.  The rest is just the icing on the cake.

When you find the right people to play and explore with you will learn more about yourself, more than I could ever tell you that's for sure.  And when you find that one really special relationship, then you both can make it into the lifestyle that really works for you both, and yes, I'm saying this is a joint effort, not a dictorship, nor can you just turn off your brain and let her put all the thought into making it work, it always takes two.  Please always remember, people first, then games.

Best of luck to you.

MsP

Due to the overwhelming amount of idiots from overseas filling up my inbox I have restricted emails to idiots from my own country only (and the odd respectful one..lol) .     I have also received emails from a few polite and unassuming people from overseas and the U.S. which I has pleased me, but the cons outweigh the pros on this one, sorry guys.

I look forward to enjoying your future journal postings.

MsP

LOL...man wants to cheat on his wife with a Fem Dom.  Good joke.