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| Greetings!
First of all, it should be noted that I'm a capable and independent woman in my day to day life. But I'm not here for the day to day. I'm here with the hopes of finding a respectful, discreet Domme or Dom to explore my BDSM desires with.
Communication is imperative, and trust is something that is built one session at a time.
I thoroughly enjoy pet play, impact play, collars, leashes, bondage, violet wands, cages, gags, sensory deprivation/anticipation, insertables, forced orgasms, and wax.
My hard limits include needles, nipple torture (light clamps are fine, but I am very sensitive here), pinching, blood, and water sports. Anything not listed is up for discussion and possible exploration.
I am not looking for a live-in, a romantic relationship, or a lover. I am looking for someone that I can play with while building trust, who places a priority in respecting one another and exploring the myriad of experiences available through various power exchange scenarios.
I love sub-space. It's so...cathartic. The mingling of pleasure and pain, the freedom of allowing my mind to find that quiet place. The comfort of being lovingly objectified or the thrill of being attentively trained to be a more satisfying pet. I seek a partner to play with, who understands that sceneing is a safe, delightfully fun experience for all involved. Before and after the scene, we treat one another respectfully and amicably.
I prefer to play by contract, at least until a certain level of familiarity is established. That is, anything that happens in a scene was discussed and agreed upon in written form to avoid confusion. That's not to say there would be no room for spontaneity or creativity, but the major happenings and limitations would be clearly set.
Just to clarify for those who are simply looking for an edgy sex hookup: true intercourse is something that may never occur, and if it does, it would be after adequate trust, scene building, and 'training.' If a person's Dominance relies solely on the ability to smoosh genitalia, then it's not the sort of mental scene-building depth that I'm looking for.
Thank you!
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Had a fun night at the local dungeon this weekend! Lots of rope work and impact play, making for a happy little Mew. |
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As corny as it sounds, I guess I'm just a nice girl who wants a safe space and a safe person to be vulnerable around. Because you can't be vulnerable when you face the world. Pick up and be strong. Stay ahead and cut loose the people who hurt you. Look out for yourself, for hell knows, there are predators out there.
But it feels so nice, so right, to be vulnerable and cared for. In pleasure and in pain. A goodness deepened by mental and physical exploration, and strengthened with gentle touches and genuine care.
Some people get it. Most don't. But if I don't look for what I want every now and then, I'll never just wake up one day and have it. |
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24 hours yields three pages of skim-and-delete messages. I admit, it's even more refuse to wade through than I had anticipated. Thank you so, so much to the kind, intelligent responses of welcome that I have received.
I do want to point out, to any who do not know, the three keys of BDSM are Safe, Sane and Consensual. If what you're looking for does not fall into all three, then you don't want a play partner. You don't want a submissive. What you want, is a victim. If this is the case, please take your bottom-feeding out of the BDSM community as a whole. Thanks!
Submissives have limits. Dominants have restrictions. Both have agreements, understanding, and trust. That's the only way that all participants can freely explore their abilities and possibly expand on those limits with time.
Submissives and Dominants are like anyone else: they have standards. If a 'dominant' doesn't live up to those standards, then a submissive should have enough self respect to not play with that person. Just as if a submissive doesn't meet a Dom/me's standards (violates discretion, dishonesty, etc), they have every right not to play with that submissive.
Submission is intimacy. It's vulnerability. It's the freedom to explore the things that high functioning adults realize are only healthy in settings of trust and respect. Loving the tug of a leash and the sting of a whip does not take away from a man or woman's worth and self respect.
As strange as it may sound, I look forward to the sanctuary and normalcy of a dungeon in contrast to what I run into on the internet.
Thank you. |
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Of course, the first five messages within the first three minutes of publishing the profile are from spammers pretending to be Doms. Creating an account with "Dominant" checked does not make a person automatically trust-worthy of another's submission. Ah, the internet.
I do hope to cross paths with the real thing before becoming discouraged. Fortunately, 'delete' is just a click away. :D |
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| Age: 35 |
| Glasgow,
United Kingdom |
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