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MsMelo

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I am looking for the one man who will serve me completely…respond to my every whim with wholehearted diligence and pleasure -- and be held accountable for doing so. I seek someone more accustomed to leading than following who will nonetheless submit to me wholly. I am definitely a Domme, not a top; I have no desire for us to vie for control. I don't engage in feminization, bathroom games, male-male play and when it comes to CBT, nothing beyond (a lot of) light play. In fact, if you are looking to selfishly get your kink needs met, move on to the next profile. Your fears & desires should dovetail pretty closely with mine so if they do not, please don't waste your time and mine in applying. Our relationship will include all that goes into sharing life, with D/s an omnipresent titillating undercurrent known only to us. A very few friends and family members are aware of my passions and proclivities but it will not affect their relationships with you. We will both appear and be a particularly intensely enmeshed couple who are madly in love. I'm a woman who adores the people close to me and when we reach that point, I expect that you'll return the adoration while throwing in some cherishing & worship. My preferred age range for you is 47 - 61. My family figures prominently in my life, My dad is in & out of my house quite a bit - a challenge re. play that I haven't decided how to overcome. Your family and friends can be included in our lives to whatever degree you wish. My only ironclad rule is that if they are in your life, they are in mine as well. The other requirement in terms of family is (with a nod to titular cinematic wordsmithing): Must Love Dogs. Expertise or interest in massage, pedicures and other spa offerings is a particular plus. Overall, your interests, experiences and pursuits will need to entertain and amuse, please and delight and generally make for quality repartee. A quick wit is essential. Finally, I expect you to be able to pay your own way in life. While anything beyond that is a plus, it is not a requirement. Among the adjectives most commonly used to describe me are: Optimistic; Charismatic; Open - (Hearted, Minded and Souled); Spiritually-Grounded; Nurturing; Inquisitive; Intense; Creative; Humorous; Directive; Compassionate; Welcoming; Nonjudgmental; Friendly; Wise; Direct; Loyal; Steadfast; Keenly Intelligent -- both emotionally & intellectually; and Refined (and as my kids just opined upon hearing that list -- though not its context -- apparently Self-Congratulatory ;-) I have no problem laughing at my own foibles along with those in the world at large. In fact, I want us to laugh out loud together every day! I will leave it to you to determine the most efficient and effective way to carry out most tasks; however, I am a perfectionist and expect whatever directions I do give to be followed in precise detail. I am willing to change my mind, but will first have to be persuaded that your idea has at least as much merit as what I envisioned, pretty much instantaneously, upon seeing the situation at hand. You will be able to please and delight me, both because I come to such emotions naturally and because I will give you the knowledge, information and opportunity to do so often. I am quick to own up to it and take responsibility when I’m wrong, though you will have to do some pretty fast talking to keep such occurrences from earning you infraction points for not having advised me that I was inaccurately assessing a situation. If anonymous slavery is what you seek, I am not the Domme for you. I will know you completely, inside and out. It has been said that it is impossible to be involved with me and not talk. That holds true regardless of your previous experience with introspection. I am a toucher and a snuggler and I expect to take complete possession of your body. I want and expect you to be completely open and perennially accessible to me emotionally as well as physically. You will maintain an infraction book and we will reconcile matters every couple of weeks or so. When I tell you get out the book and tally up the points you’ve amassed, I expect your heart to race, your stomach to lurch and your mouth to go dry as quickly as your clothes are shed. Seeing you quail and knowing that some level of dread is setting in is among my most delicious turn ons. I relish it nearly as much as I relish having my man suffer for me. I spank in sets. Each set begins with 20 (or 40, depending upon how you count -- 20 on each cheek at any rate) with a one-cheek-at-a-time spanking implement to tenderize things a little, then 10 with a whippy implement across both. I will probably change up both types of implements several times as new sets begin. I am wont to do some prostate massage and exploration between sets -- perhaps even leaving something inserted through the following set as long as it will not get in the way or offer any impediment to your taking whatever medicine you have coming. It will be somewhat rare for you to actually be allowed to carry any stimulation on to completion -- and then only under my express direction, of course -- but there will be a [I]lot[/I] of stimulation! B) Maintaining control is an ironclad requirement. I am familiar with how to develop increasing capacities and will always be aware of just where your limits are…surpassing them at the dictate of whim or will. Sometimes I will have you completely immobilized in whatever position will facilitate my plans. Often I will simply require that you offer yourself up to my ministrations. Count on a life of enchantment and dread, for I will claim you body and soul. You will feel my unique brand of caresses whenever you are nearing or experiencing an orgasm. I will pay you a great deal of attention and will delight in your intellect … your humor … and in making you squirm.

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Redz71
 
 Age: 39
 Louisville, Kentucky