The more I read about this, I'm not too sure that I belong here. I am hoping to give myself completely to my guy..beyond the bedroom...my past relationships have been typically male-dominated; this is where I feel most comfortable.

I am college educated, hold down a full-time job, and own my home...and in a relationship which I don't think will last...He is uncomfortable taking the lead and hates me putting him first..at times, he is quite controlling, but I believe it is just for my benefit.

I was hoping to see what I am missing, before I commit to him, and make both of us unhappy.