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| As my name indicates, I'm a bit of a brat. I like a little bit of fun and witty banter, maybe even poke at you a bit to build up tension. I will push you, to see how serious you are, and I expect you to be serious (but not TOO serious, a sense of humour is a MUST).
I'm still a young sub. Technically I have over 20 years in the "scene" having begun attending Fetish clubs in 1991. I have been a performer, a play partygoer, and dabbled in quite a lot of areas, esp. pain tolerance, but my first actual D/s relationship only happened to me less than a year ago. It is still ongoing, but it is a matter to be discussed privately, as I have received quite a bit of nasty hate mail in my last incarnation. We will consider this a matter of Quid Pro Quo. You will know if you need to know, otherwise my reasons are my reasons. I DO have permission to seek (in fact I just passed by His profile only moments ago).
I have a lot of ideas in my head of things I would like to do, they definitely ebb towards the extreme side, though I understand achieving them will be a process. I am absolutely one of those people that sees something and says "let's try that" which usually then results in "I like that, let's do it again!".
I always consider myself training, learning, evolving. I have a natural tendency towards people pleasing. Submission is a natural fit for me, as I derive pleasure from other people's approval and happiness, however I do also have a little bit of Top/Sadist in me which will come out on the occasion or two.
I am a physical and mental masochist. I prefer physical a bit more, but there are levels of control and humiliation which I MUST under go to continually reexamine myself and my state of being. Without them I grow very listless, stagnant and lazy. Keeping my attention is sometimes a full time job, yes I'm aware that sounds like a royal pain in the arse. I'm looking for those select few that understand that challenges are in fact the spice of life.
Looking for a play partner as a starter. I have some weekends and late nights that could use some stimulating company. Yes, that is possibly a double entendre. There is a possible upgrade as replacement Dom if the conditions are right, but that is at this moment exceedingly variable in my eyes, as what I once thought was very short term has lasted quite a bit longer than expected and I have no inkling of terminating prematurely. Translation: you will be sharing, and you will be considered secondary. As such, the same considerations apply - provided things remain safe and discreet.
My preferred partner is between 30 and 45, no exceptions in either direction. I have experimented down to 26/27 and found the like TOO immature, and anything upward of 45 is too close to my mother's age. Yes I am aware I am passing up partners with MUCH more experience and knowledge, and that is an acceptable loss.
I consider your starter message your resume, no one liners.
Please do not hesitate to ask me anything, I am pretty verbose and extremely honest.
No photos for personal reasons, available by request.
This is probably the bossiest profile for a submissive you will ever read, but I am not apologetic for knowing what I want. Once won, I am quite loyal and mostly... obedient.
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