Thank you for looking at my profile.
If you send an e-mail that just says 'Hello' I'm going to ignore it. I took the time to fill out my profile and share about myself. I expect the same from you.

I'm a newish Domme seeking a Shibari sub/play partner (someone to tie up) as I experiment and find what I like.

I'm interested insomeone I feel comfortable with who will give feedback on whether something is working well or not, who can hold an intelligent conversation but doesn't always need that. I may be dominant, but I can also be a goofball, so strict roles won't be adhered to. I'm also open to suggestions. Maybe I'll use them, and maybe I won't. The mindset of "It's all about the Dom" is crap. If you're not getting something out of it, I'm not interested. I may as well play with myself. Well, that may happen, too, but you know what I mean.

I am very interested in rope bondage. Ultimately I'd like to do suspension with Shibari. I have many other interests and curiosities in bdsm, and will incorporate them into tying you up and tormenting you.

For now I lean toward being a sensual sadist, although the more I do this, the more I tap into my inner sadist. I enjoy the groans and grunts made by that white bolt of pain searing through your brain. If you like pain, I'll enjoy giving to you. My pleasure doesn't come from inflicting the pain, but from your 'enjoyment' of it. Begging for more will make me laugh and smile wickedly.


I often use the word 'please' with my commands, and 'thank you' when you've done well. If this doesn't work for you, then please find someone else. I am by nature a nurturing and caretaking woman, which means I will be vigilant about your health and safety when I tie you up and beat you. :-}

The photo is 2 years old. Considering that people who knew me in 3rd grade still recognize me on the street, it should work.