Note to anyone serious about contacting me:
I'm experienced, and I have a pretty good idea of what I'm looking for, and it's *not* driven by play. Play = dungeon only, spare time. Right now I'm not looking for more bottoms for play (though of course I never have a demo bottom when I really need one! Otherwise, I'm set for play), that's very easy to find. What I am looking for is to meet worthwhile people, either as friends and people with whom I can converse, or as serious M/s-D/s partners, also with whom I can converse!
I would like to chat first, then meet publicly, and then see where W/we go from there. If you have no idea of what real service is as opposed to topping from the bottom, or being a do me now boy or girl, then please contact me only to ask for clarification!
A bit of what I'm looking for: Ideally, a boy/slave/maid/butler who would be able to fit into my schedule and relieve my alpha slave and me some by handling most of the Household duties. Also, ideally, this boy (possibly girl, but I prefer a boy) would become part of the family, and an extended member of the Household, as well as a contributing member of the community. There are many ways to work for the community of course, you don't have to be as out as I am. Serving me so that I can be free to do the things I need to do within the community would certainly qualify.
If this sounds like a situation to which you may aspire, you may contact me here, and W/we'll take it from there.
Do include some sort of photo so that I can put a face to O/our correspondence. Also, tell me about your experience, what you seek, and what you can reasonably contribute time-wise, as well as devotion to service and training. In what areas do you know for certain that training is required, and in what areas do you already excel?
Are you an organized person by nature, or do you require management, and if so about how much? Do you consider yourself a "go getter" power type slave, or do you need a lot of guidance and supervision?
These are just a few of the many questions I'll ask- there's no real right or wrong answer, I just want to get to know you and begin a dialogue on these and other topics.
Of UTMOST importance is that you not be homophobic! I was raised and trained by gay men, and I spend most of my social time with them, or in pansexual crowds where there are predominantly gay men. Ultimately, you have to meet my Leather family, and they must approve.
Also, though I am a gay woman, and I am very happy with my gender, I do have gay male
tendencies . It seems to be an advantage for most straight and bi boys whose interests go way beyond the box of man on top missionary and conservative sexuality, and who want to have a hardcore Leather D/s experience, but aren't gay.
BTW, there doesn't have to be any sex at in a successful M/s-D/s relationship- it just all depends on the people involved and the situation. However, do know that if there is any contact with me it will not be in any traditional hetero way. And, If you aren't secure enough in your sexuality to accompany me to The Eagle, or can't light the cigars of my many Leather brothers and treat them with respect and deference when told to do so, then you'd be of no use to me.
PS: There was no category for one of my favorite fetishes; boots, and pretty much anything that comes along with them, including "play." Boot "play" = worship, trampling (woof!), etc.
