Down to earth Dominant woman in an open relationship looking for a submissive man whom in time would fit within her Poly family. ~Please do not send Chat requests if we have never met.~ About Me: (written about me by my girl .... cause she asked so nicely) Mistress.... She is an open-minded, fun, creative, strongly Dominant women who understands the difference between dominant and domineering. Her sense of humour combined with her evil mind is a wonderful and charming combination, not often found in female dominants. Within the BDSM world she is well versed and holds a wealth of knowledge. Be it percussion play, bondage, power dynamic or edge play She is at the top of her game and knows how to take a submissive safely to the edge and allow them to fly :) In Her vanilla life She is a loving, strong, somewhat independent women. Her love of both people and animals is evident in her day to day life. She is currently striving to continue her education and starting University full time in the fall. She is happy in an open relationship with her partner of 3 years who has also been a part of the community for a substantial time period. He is primary in her life and while she is looking to add to the family, it is imperative that it is understood that while the dynamic has room to grow, she is not looking to replace anyone. Along with her partner she currently owns a girl (myself) who shares her time as often as life allows. (shameless Mistress promotion ends .... back to You Mistress ) About you: Be happy in your life. I wish to be a wonderful addition but not your whole world. Someone with a sense of self, independent life/nature and an open mind has so much more to offer in submission. You may be single or in a fully open relationship. I understand that life has many needs and time constraints and if that is understood on your side as well, we may all find a fit. You can be new to the lifestyle or a long time sub as long as you are open-minded and willing for new experiences that may push limits but will never cross them. Adding a 4th person to a dynamic is a tricky endeavor. Being open to the different personalities already here will be important. Honesty with feelings, needs and limitations will be expected almost above all else. I am Toronto based, please keep that in mind for travel time for all involved. Size, age and status is unimportant but rather a strong connection and willingness to work within this unique dynamic will be paramount. If you are allergic to animals or afraid of them .... stop reading now :) Parties and events are sometimes hosted and/or attended by the family and this would be a limiting factor if not an interest on your part. Some extra's: We are all real people with real lives and real bodies.... while we understand the draw of the "fantasy" we have found a way to live both vanilla and D/s in balance and fun.... if you are looking for the fantasy we all wish you well. I enjoy the creative so please lead your message to me with something that moves you or that will make me smile. Form letters, while efficient, show no effort and will be ignored. I will be happy to share more information about the others in my life if a connection if felt. Please note for the sake of being open and honest, this is not my only profile within the community. I have found that a "higher profile" does not always attract the interesting or genuine. (please be both) Looking forward to meeting you. PS DO NOT approach me with one liners if you are serious about the position within my household. " How are you Mistress? Can I be your sub? " just does not do a thing for me. I took the time to write what I am seeking I would ask you to respond appropriately.