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I have enjoyed my time here, and have met some nice people. But I have found My one, So I am no longer looking or accepting offers. thanks
I am a Dominant Woman, both in my professional life, and my personal life. I enjoy the finer things in life, and work to obtain them. I am looking for a partner whom wishes the same. I do not expect perfection, but I do expect excellence.
I am not interested in supporting anyone and thats the bottom line.
I have experience in light cbt, otk spanking, crops, mummification, heavy bondage, knife play, smothering, foot worship, orgasm denial ect.
I am not opposed to speaking with people online, I suppose that D/s could be accomplished online, but I am not completely convinced...
If you are clean, D&D free, not married (That is a deal breaker I don't want any more married people, unless a sub couple), non smoker/drinker, then perhaps we could talk.
I want to clarify something here. I am not a pro dominant, I am not looking to be a pro dominant. I do this for pleasure, and anything that becomes like work is no longer enjoyable for Me.
I enjoy writing erotica, poetry, and also draw, so artistic subs/slaves are a plus. I enjoy good conversation, with educated people. So if you are shy and introverted, please keep going as I am looking for out going people whom like a good conversation.
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So I have a friend on here. she is a slave, and has found in her adventures on collarme, that there are alot of Dom/mes that wish her to submit immediately. I'm meaning on the very first message. These people message someone, and then if the sub/slave does not submit to them, then they retaliate by threatening the submissive into complying. This not only undermines other Dom/mes by making the submissive wary of speaking with people here in fear that they will be intimidated again, but it also makes the submissive feel s/he has to submit to anyone and everyone for fear of being outted as a fake.
I am quite sure that there are fakes on here, as in any online community. But these people whom use intimidation, or blackmail to control submissives are jading the way honest slaves/subs view Dominants. A Dominant will not expect immediate submission from a submissive/slave. A Dominant knows that true submission is gained through trust, respect, and honor. A Dominant will not try to get your respect by force, for it is something that is earned. A Dominant would not threaten to out you as a fake if you chose not to respond to that particular person.
I'm a Dominant and I understand that submissives/slaves have a idea in their mind of what their Dominant should be. I understand this. I don't expect people to call me Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess or any other damn thing (Unless they want to *chuckles*) I do expect the same amount of respect given to me as I give them. I do not disrespect someone because they choose to live a different type of lifestyle then I choose, or because their kink is not my kink.
I feel bad that just because there are a few living this life through the computer screen, and wanting instant gratification, that a submissive will rethink being in this lifestyle.
Don't lose heart, for your One is out there. Just waiting for you to make their life whole.
Just My thoughts....
Jill |
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Today has been horrible. Ok not horrible, just not good. First My car breaks down. I miss the bus. Late for work ect ect. Now theres a huge freaking storm hitting. I am so sick of winter. Please bring back summer.....ah I miss My bikini.....*big sigh* |
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Ok I come home this evening and she is playing that song " I touch myself" Now I can't get that damn song out of my head. Even though she is gone......Now that I think of it, she left right after she played that.
Want to torture Me, play that damn song *laughs*
*goes and finds some Ozzy* Thats much better |
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I have been away for a long while. Yes I admit it. I have to say life without a computer is both utterly frightening and exhillarating.
I have met a beautiful wonderful young woman whom has taken up much of this ol Dommes waking hours with lustful thoughts of having her tied helplessly to my four post bed. Yum ok back to the journal......heh
I feel at once fulfilled by a wench whom knows how much I already need her presence. *Gasp* am I in love? Perhaps....*wicked grin*
Perhaps I am in lust with the luscious curvy body she so subtly but erotically flashes in front of me every waking hour *laughs*
Now as for what I am doing here. Well I don't know exactly. I guess I wanted to come and read, and perhaps keep myself occupied with something other then the next session with my vixen.
Otherwise, I appreciate all of the people whom contacted me, but as of now. I am no longer searching......
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I have been contacted by a number of people here, and have responded to many of them, but it is very time consuming. I will try to answer each message, however it may take longer then usual. Thanks for your interest. |
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I was going to revise My profile yet again...but I thought why bother. Ok Here is the revision, I do not do infantalism, nor do I respect baby talk, infantile behavior, or gross misuse of the english language. So basically if you want to speak with me, use proper english, don't act childish ect. And PLEASE type you instead of u. Its three damn letters! |
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Oh so many sub/slaves. Its like a buffet. I've been reading profiles, and taking notes on some. Tis rather tiring work I tell ya. But its interesting, and I am glad that I stumbled across this site like I did..... |
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