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I feel very sorry for the people that can't see the dry, sarcastic humor in some of my posts. Although I do so love the hate mail. Keep it coming boys. |
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All this me me me from supposed subs. I keep saying this, but really it's not all about you. Its all about ME. All this "I want" and "we have to try" and "but I want to know now what you do to your subs", all that is you trying to dom from the bottom. The sooner you realize Ms. Hunny's in charge the better we will get along. You will know what I do to my subs in due time. That time is not in the first conversation. Probably not in the second or third.
Basically what it boils down to is that anything you tell me about your fantasies will be taken into consideration only. Whether or not we try anything is up to...you guessed it, Me.
Another thing under my skin today are the subs that have illustrations of bdsm scenes as their profile pic. Or better yet because I require photos with their email they send me an illustration instead. I have no idea why this practice bothers me, but it does. And since it's all about M.E., well you get the picture. If the only pic you have is an illustration of a scene....don't bother.
I mean if you are too much of a puss to show me your pic, how are you ever going to be strapped spread eagle to my chain ladder, naked on display? |
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Did I say all people who use handcuffs for self bondage are morons. NO I said "MOST". All you self bondage addicts can quit emailing. People that read others posts arguing a point that doesnt even exist are morons. I stand by that and you can email me if you wish. lol |
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Thought for today. Most people who try self bondage with regulation handcuffs are morons. |
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I have a lot of subs/slaves emailing Me wanting to be cuckold. Just because I believe in putting my slave in chastity does not mean I cuckold. I do not practice cuckholding because it is My belief that every part of a sub/slave should be used for My explicit pleasure as I see fit. Does that mean that you won't ever spend weeks or even months in chastity? No. But it also means I will be using your package to pleasure ME. Period. So if this is something you desire. Forget it. If this is something you need to be happy in your life in this BDSM world, don't email Me. |
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My phrase for the day is "gutless wonder." There seems to be a lot of those wandering around today. |
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Two things on my mind this evening.
1. Why is it so hard to just pick up 100 percent cotton rope from a store these days?
2. Why in the world do these psuedo subs think I am going to take care of them financially? And why do they think they can control things? Yes I will respect your limits and I will listen to your fantasies but what activities take place are up to MY mood, interest etc. Really, YOU ARE NOT IN CHARGE HERE!!! |
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Don't you just love emails like this? "I let go of my slaves and I am looking for the ultimate dom.....and I am very straight so if your one of those doms that like guy on guy then I am not for you." Who said I was considering your ass anyway?
I have huge reservations about taking on a dom as a sub/slave. NOT because I want a wimp or a pushbutton slave. I like a real man that submits because I am the real deal. I, however, demand respect and will not allow someone to dom from the bottom. Sounds exactly like what this guy is already trying to do. Instead of talking about things directly with me he immediately starts telling ME how things are gonna be. In an email no less.
Do you guys not realize there are hundreds of you out there? I can have MY pick. Don't come rolling up like you run the show. I am patient and laid back for the most part. I do have a pet peave for men that show lack of respect.
Another pet peave, subs/slaves that don't even try to get to know me yet think I am going to start telling them how I Dom or have sexual conversations with a complete stranger. I am not here to amuse you, nor am I here to help you get your rocks off. If I am interested I will tell you and we will work up to the good stuff. Otherwise shut your ingnorant pie hole!!!! Respect boys....thats the key.
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Well it's been a real long time since I have blogged it out here. I have been so busy wrapped up in the trappings of life. I am finding more and more that I have no real commonality with the vanilla world. I rarely go out with my nilla friends and it's so hard to find quality, sincere people in the lifestyle here. I have ventured slightly into the bdsm community but found it too political for my liking.
What's a Domina to do when she is stuck between the vanilla world and in an area where the BDSM world is not suited either? My search for a companion continues. Too many leeches and insincere assholes out there that want to just fulfill some unconventional, stylized fantasy. I am not in the fantasy business here. Although, I hear that pays. lol
Ultimately, I am looking to find a way to blend my professional life, lifestyle world and love interests into one fulfilling thing. Is that really too much to ask? I am not in fear of being "outed" or that people would know what or who I really am. Hell if I was afraid my face would not be on this site.
If you wonder what all this contemplation is about. Well a young man confided his dream to me...the same thing I have been on some level thinking about for some time. His business interest was a little different than mine but the result being the same, to work, live, be, love and play in the lifestyle. That is what I am going to work at doing myself. Starting a business that deals with the lifestyle, surround myself with all that is not vanilla and quit playing around with my persona and just be who I am. Not that I have been hiding just haven't found the niche where I can work and play in the same life. |
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Yes I haven't been on much lately. No this does not mean I am a fake. It just means I have a very full life outside of this website. Spring is a very busy season for me, so I am periodically on and off the computer. So if you send me a message be assured I will eventually answer it. Remember patience is a virtue. Well at least for you. lol
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Ok I am going to rant a little. I am so sick of the word "play". Everyone is so much more interested in "playing" that I think the true meaning of the D/s TPE relationship is getting lost. I don't "play" at being Domme. I just am. I even state in my profile that I am looking for a full time sub/slave. Most people don't understand what that means. It means you will be available for my use. It does not mean we will meet up at your whim so you can "play" out your little fantasies of what you think a Domme should be. Grrrr no more "play"!!!!!!
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This may sound very country music song but this is just a lil shout out to my dog that had to be put to sleep yesterday due to failing health and old age. She would have been 15 in 6 days and she was the most loyal companion I have ever had. She saved my family from a fire in our house in Iowa. She bit a person trying to break into our house in WV and his hand was so bad he had to go to the emergency room so he was caught and put in jail. That dog even saved me from an attack from a much bigger dog when I was pregnant with my daughter. She was a big red dog. Her name was Cleo and she was very near and dear to my heart. I will miss her.  |
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So this is my first entry. I am amazed at the responses I get from a simple "tell me about you". I either get "I can't respond unless you ask specific questions" or I get a slave's complete sexual history from age 14.
WTF? Did we forget that we need to get to know one another on some basic level before moving to the sexual or bdsm stuff? Yes I am a Domme. I want to own you mind, body and soul. How the hell am I supposed to get there if you can't be open enough to tell me what you do for a living, aspects of your life, marital status etc. I mean I dont want to find out five months from now that the slave has a disease, a wife and just got out of prison. |
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