I am not a mind reader, you need to tell me what you expect, just sending me a note with Hi, or Hello, tells me nothing.  I am not a pro, so don't offer me money.  I don't want it.  I certainly expect however, to be treated with respect, not like some teenager you can impress with how much you can make, or how rich you are.  I don't care about that crap, if I did, I would be a Pro.  You tell me what you're interested in.  I have a list of stuff I am looking for.  I want a ltr, so if you are married, stay away, if you want one night stands, hit the bars, if you want a temporary thing, again hit the bars.