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Bisexual Female Dominant, 48,  Frederick, Maryland
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Actively Seeking:

Submissive Male

*Messages from one-line, empty or cloaked profiles are deleted unread. One-line messages, hey, hello and the like are also deleted. Men into effort and communication with a deep sense of self-awareness turn me on.. all others may MOVE ON.

As of October, 2018 seeking submissive men for LT play

You are

-MATURE, as in 40-60 years of age

-intelligent, respectful, self-aware, transparent

-single or in an open relationship (*I WILL verify*)

-experienced in Ds, the more the better

-a non-smoker social drinkers only

-dd-free *with papers

-available for LT play

-willing and able to come to me in the Frederick, MD area

I have a particular interest in masochistic men and tall, uncut andor bearded men.

I am a WF in an open marriage, BBW, late 40s, located in Frederick Co., MD. I have nine years of experience in Ds and take this lifestyle seriously. Play with me might be from sensual to rough, to out-and-out SM, depending on the dynamic and the desires at hand. I have a deviant, open mind and am into just about anything CONSENTING ADULTS can get into I have seen and done lots of interesting things lol. Yes, I have reasonable limits and expect that you do, too.

If you do not meet my basic criteria as stated above, its highly unlikely that Id consider playing with you.

Be aware that if you contact me for possible play, I will have questions for you. I seek the right fit, and favor quality over quantity. If I find that you are reticent or secretive, the dialog will END right there. I am open to your questions as well, as I am all about ined consent, mine and yours.

-NO- Skype sessions, online chat, online only, etc. Be willing and able to meet or be G.O.N.E.



Journal Entries:
3/19/2018 7:56:09 PM
"I find few more satisfying exhibitions of power and control than deliberately creating desire ..only to capriciously deny it,"  -Ms. Rika, "The Joy of Denial"

10/15/2017 11:46:44 AM
So you're "interested in exploring the kink lifestyle"..? Sorry but I am not interested in being your personal tour guide.

I have no patience for those who are just passing through on the way back to their cushy marital domestication, lol.

I seek experienced, available, sub-identified men who know what they need and why they need it.


9/26/2017 7:55:01 PM
"I relish a strong man long as I am his weakness." -author unknown
^^^ so much this

9/21/2017 3:46:47 PM
"You don't know my mind, you don't know my kind. Dark necessities are part of my design. Tell the world that I'm falling from the sky. Dark necessities are part of my design." -RHCP

hell yes~

4/9/2016 4:12:09 PM
Please note: I am not into "race play" or any other play that posits that any gender, race or nationality is "superior" to another. That is absolutely NOT my cup of tea.

I am into basic equality outside of play.. AND behind closed doors I will OWN the ass of the person who agrees to take part in a D/s dynamic with me. That does not make me "superior" but ready, willing and able to take the reins because 1) we both want it; 2) it gets us both off and 3) we have the FREEDOM to do this dance. There is a huge difference there.

Of course, you may be into that type of play and that's YOUR choice but it is NOT mine. Do not approach me about it.

Thank you,


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