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MsDemmie

Experienced lifestyle Dominant.
Interests are TPE, BDSM education and safety.

12/5/2007 2:33:26 AM
Just off to Paris for a few days - La Nuit Demonia - will be back at the weekend - will catch up with you all then.
11/4/2005 4:37:14 PM

BAcklash is now gathering momentum - you can see why .......................



"And just in case you are wondering exactly what is going to be banned under this new legislation, I have the complete list here (in simplified format obtained under the Freedom of Information Act). Note this list is by no means comprehensive as the Home Office Legal Department are adding categories and clauses all the time but it gives you an idea of how wide ranging this is:

Asphyxia. Where the person is being choked in order to gain sexual pleasure.

Bestiality. Sexual acts between humans and animals.

Bondage. Tying a person in an unnatural position for sexual gratification where the participant is unable to withdraw their consent (for example they are gagged).

Corporal Punishment. Inflicting pain on another person

Cruelty to animals. Includes organised dog fighting, bear baiting, badger baiting, cock fighting. Also ‘crush’ material which features humans stamping on vertebrates or standing on them with increased pressure until they are crushed.

Defecation. Voiding excrement from the bowels.

Enemas. Flushing the bowels with water, usually to drink the product or torture the victim.

Fisting. (anal or vaginal) Inserting a fist in the anus or vagina for sexual gratification.

Insertion of an object. Only where the insertion clearly inflicts pain.

Menstrual Blood. Sex between adults where the female is menstruating heavily and the blood is being smeared on the body or the used tampon is being sucked etc. This does not include post-intercourse depictions where a small amount of blood can be seen on the participants.

Necrophilia. Sexual intercourse with a corpse.

Sado-masochism. Sadists achieve sexual pleasure through inflicting torture and humiliation upon another person. Masochists desire maltreatment as a means of sexual gratification.

Scatology. Depictions indicating a general interest in excrement such as smearing or eating of excrement.

Urolagnia. The act of urination in the context of any of the following where a person is shown:
urinating at the same time as they are engaged in a sexual act. The urination and sexual act must be seen at the same time. The sexual act includes those such as fellatio (oral sex) and masturbation which would not be obscene if shown without urination; smearing urine on themselves or another;
urinating on another person; being urinated upon;
drinking urine.

Violence (non-simulated). Scenes of actual violence or mutilation shown in an exploitative context where they are not part of a legitimate documentary. For example a compilation of newsreel footage concentrating solely on scenes of violence or mutilation. This would also cover scenes of actual sexual assault including rape.

Violence (simulated). Scenes of simulated sexual violence such as rape shown in an exploitative context where the activity is graphically depicted and clearly intended to appear non-consensual. This excludes scenes contained in serious dramatic films.


Just to clarify things, everything on the target list is ALREADY
illegal to produce under the OPA. What the new law will do is make
it illegal to POSSESS it (in terms of the internet it effectively
makes it illegal to LOOK at it).

In other words it doesn't matter where you get it from. It doesn't
matter even if it's a picture of you and a partner. It will still be
illegal to possess that picture. "

 

10/5/2005 3:59:08 PM
ATTENTION -

The UK government are currently in the consultation process for a review of the laws - on the possession of extreme pornographic material. The consultation paper is *wooly enough* and unclear enough in its guidelines to include consensual BDSM Images.

If you wish to continue to enjoy your BDSM Images - please make your opinions known.,

There is a website called Backlash which is co-ordinating the campaign. There will be advice on how to reply to the consultation document and also how to write to your MP.
They also hold a copy of the consultation document for you to read.

8/1/2005 12:33:57 PM
KINKFEST ROCKED lastweekend  - this event goes from strength to strength  - make sure you make the next one if you are in the UK.
7/10/2005 2:57:47 PM
Real life takes me away from here for quite long periods of time.  I have a busy life.
When I do return I do not expect to be greeted with messages proclaiming me to be a fake and not real .............

The butlers position is filled - preparations are underway for the 24/7 celebrations. Takes a lot of hard work to get ready for events like this - so I may not be around for a while.
3/18/2005 1:34:30 AM
If you are thinking of applying for the butler/maid position, here are some facts you need to know.

This is a Lifestyle?event of?upwards of?40 people. You need to be available?
21/24 July 2005.

You need to be service orientated. You need to be able to make tea and coffee, serve drinks, stack dishwashers, lay tables, server food, make beds?etc.

Own transport would be useful. (We live in a remote location ).

Food and accommodation will be provided as will the opportunity to take part in the weeeknd.

3/16/2005 2:27:28 AM
Well that was fun - reading through my messages and looking at profiles.

Words of wisdom for today are

"A submissive submits  - a slave serves"
3/12/2005 5:13:27 AM
Looking forward to meeting some of those people from Bristol at SWAMP tomorrow , should be fun  - travel safe
3/10/2005 6:00:38 AM
Next on the big event list is World BDSM Day BBQ & Picnic held on 24/7 ........
It takes an innordinate amount of planning to try and pull something like this together.  This year it will have a European flavour to it all as we will be holding a Euro weekend alongside it.

We have the ground planning work has been done, marquee ordered , space earmarked , and car parking sorted .......

TO do - garden clearance and ground preparations  .............
3/8/2005 6:51:13 AM
SWAMP Time again ........... and this time its my turn to do the demo ...... so be warned that my lighthearted look at hosuehold toys and BDSM might just be coming to a venue near you !  Its a greaty topic , humour and sex makes a great combination ....
3/5/2005 2:22:07 AM
Well its nice to be back after a break ( more like hibernation) .  Winter has been busy for us at The Edge, with lotsof new customers and visitors.
We have spent a lot of time working and developing our events schedule for this year, and think its going to be the best ever, including a big Euro weekend,  and hopefully some visitors from the USA we have been trying to get for ages.

We have escaped the worst of winter  and are now looking forward to the new year.

Got some great new toys including some very nice rubber paddles from Canada .

Onwards and upwards
11/14/2004 3:33:12 PM
SWAMP was quiet but high quality stuff and people. Excellent flogging demo by Lawrence of Roissy.  I do enjoy demos that involve the sudience and bring them into the workshop. I also appreciate it when there is anecdotal evidence to *illustrate* disaster avoidance.
I came away with new toys - some different whips and floggers. I don't often see new toys that I like ( the collection is big enough already) - I also cast my very beady eye over some knives and blades. They are for next month.
11/13/2004 2:45:47 AM
Floods are sorted - we have dried out, the dungeon is safe. Ditches have been dug, and the accumulated debris has been removed from the stream. What a releif.
We have a busy week this week, SWAMP on Sunday - our local fetish market ( am looking to see a new collection if knives. Erotica in London next weekend.  Looking forward to seeing the sights at Erotica and the opportunity to do some shopping. Shoes, boots and corsets being top of the list.
Hoping Stig ( the wonderful wrought iron furniture man) will be there as well ......
10/23/2004 5:33:56 PM
Localised flooding said the weather forecast - localised being my front lawn and the road outside the house ..... and up through the kitchen floor ......
Work party time - digging out ditches time
- chain gang
Nice thought to go to bed with...
babycat
 
 Age: 19
 Ducan, Oklahoma