From:
HUMANCHATTEL
Dated:

3/22/18 10:26 AM
Are you fucking mad you goddamn ape? At no time did I state anything about online you moron. I seek real life in real time and I think you know this already you scum.

Let it be said...

If you can't be a man out in the streets, it is unlikely that you are a man in between the sheets.

Submissive/slave (s-type) men: Exercise your manhood everywhere you go!

MsDDom~

Life begins when you begin.

It is that simple.

You won't ever realize your potential UNTIL you realize potential exists within.

No one will wait on you...

No one will force you...

No one can do for you what needs to be done by ONLY you.

So, life begins when you begin.

Go.

Start.

Now!

MsDDom

Notice.

I am not submissive or switch; therefore I am not interested in BDSM relationships with Dominant males, Dominant females, or Dominant transgender people...I am open to and will only "befriend" you.

I am not bisexual/lesbian; therefore I am not interested in a sexual BDSM Fem-Fem or Fem-fem relationships. I am open to female service submissives.

I am not into role playing (pretending) BDSM or D/s relationships; everything I do is real and has a purpose. Role-play will ONLY occur within a REAL BDSM dynamic.

I am Dominant; own my male submissive; straight; and real-time.

I do respect the choices others have made in their life and with their practice of the lifestyle; please respect my choices. You kink is your kink and my kink is my kink.

Endnote.

Communication...written, verbal, text, IMs, PMs or whatever mode one utilizes...is critical if not crucial for your survival in this world...! If you cannot communicate, then who wants to deal with you?

<MsDD>

Announcement to the ALL male subs/slave/switch who complain profusely about being asked, coerced, or bombarded with requests from proposed "dominant" females about money---

STOP!

STOP:

--asking to serve someone who is NOT even local,

--asking to serve someone who isn't even in YOUR country,

--stating you will DO anything, OBEY any orders, SERVE unconditionally,

--stating you KNOw how to serve and you are online ONLINE.

--stating you are DESPERATE to serve a DOMME or MISTRESS.

All those things (and then some that you post) are just the perfect calling card for those "fake dominant women" you complain about; YOU advertise EXACTLY what they are looking for!

So, next time you round your lips and prepare your fingers to type a complaint about some "fake dominants" or you've been receiving allot of messages for financial domination, take a LOOK at your own profile, analyze what you are ADVERTISING, AND last but not least, DON'T be a fake, dumb, wanna-be, gullible, irresponsible, weak-ass sub/slave/switch and falling for you OWN unrealistic online game/fantasy. If you are falling for your OWN game/fantasy, then other "players" are doing a "checkmate" and expect you to follow through.

Word to the unwise.

MsDD .::. 2011-Nov

In all fairness...

I really do not care about your demands or online pseudo-submission...

I concern myself with my schedule of participating in lifestyle activities, both public and private.

I concern myself with the duty of being a responsible and caring Domme to my sub.

I concern myself with living honorable within this lifestyle.

So, while I may visit here (CM) sporadically, I could careless about your online "claim to fame" as a sub this or slave that.

In all fairness...

MsDD ::: 2k11

Understanding...

At what point do the onliners, or Internet-bdsmers realize that the Real-Time Lifestylers  live outside the computer? When do they understand or realize that Real-Time is real?

It shows just how much one (an onliner) really values the Lifestyle when they contact someone (a Real-Time Lifestyle) from another state, or from another country asking for a "relationship" or to participate in the Lifestyle WITHOUT ANY physical contact.

It is IMPOSSIBLE to serve another from afar without BOTH (or all parties involved) being satisfied/gratified. And I disagree with any and all nay-sayers. When a sub/slave bows/serves their Dominant/Master, and there is physical contact, both receive desires sought.

Think about it.

Is there ANY understanding...?

MsDD  ::  2k11

Living it!

I've been living the lifestle real-time, 24/7, and many people are amazed that I am one of a few Dominants who say what they mean and mean what they say when it comes to actively participating in the lifestyle...

It is one thing to meet someone online, but I guess it is another huge step for many people to move away from online and GO real-time.

Too bad; many are missing out on a wonderful way of life!

MsDD :: 2k11

When...

• When do people decide to take themselves seriously?
• When does a person realize they are annoying?
• When will people learn that reading is REALLY fundamental?
• When does a person learn that online D/s or M/s cannot work OR limits their ability to TRULY particpate in the lifestyle?
• When will people learn not to call themselves "master" until they have mastered their own being?
• When will people realize that in the lifestyle, "things" are earn just like they are "earned" in vanilla living? (i.e. trust, loyalty, etc)
• When will a person learn that sometimes being rejected OR told NO is a time for self-reflection?
• When will people learn that being demanding is not the way to prove dominance OR submission?
• When will some subs/slaves learn that while they are not everyone's submissive, Dominants, are NOT everyone's Dominant? (i.e. instant Dominance/submission can be bogus)

When...when...I am sure my list could go on...and on...and on.

MsDD ::: 2k11

POV: "Expectations..."

A slight, and sometimes, displeasing smile creeps across my face when I read profiles (often the profiles from members "looking" at me) that state their exceptions of others.

A person who "expects you to be this", "expects you to do this", or "expects you to blah-blah-hundreds-of-things-that-may-not-make-sense".

The question that is now at the forefront is: what is said persons own personal expectations--that is, what will and/or can they offer in order to meet someone elses expectations? Confused...? Ok, here we go...

A person (male or female) states, "I expect to be greeted with a Hello each morning", YET, what expectations will they meet/fulfill? What part of themselves is valuable that they know by asking for one specific request that they can give of themselves "equally in return"?

A person (male or female) states, "I expect to be humiliated everyday", YET, what shall they give to warrant such privileged treatment?

MANY people ask for the "bdsm world on a platinum platter", but are not themselves offer anything. Relationship-dynamics are very symbiotic AND whoever disagrees needs to read a book on "human relationships and basic interaction 101". People fool themselves into thinking that a laundry list of personal exceptions and requests will make for a most harmonious D/s or M/s relationship. The reality: IT WILL NOT. AND listing your interests under the "Interests" section is not the same as delivering a laundry list as "rules of engagement". That is ludicrous...we do not even submit such laundry lists to vanilla folk--a life we live daily.

I speak for myself in that I can only  inform readers of my profile what I am not looking for AND listing what I enjoy about the lifestyle. That gives a very basic foundation by which a person can figure out if to "engage me in conversation"...OR not.

I think it is VERY GOOD to be forthright and forthcoming (I know, people don't believe in that here) in who and what we are, BUT, be mindful that not everyone has to "play by your rules". So, just because no one wants to "engage you in lifestyle possibilities", don't get mad if you may not be for them OR anyone for that matter.

Ponder~

MsDD::2k10

FEAR...oooo!

I am sure I have blogged/written about this topic somewhere, but I'd like to revisit it.
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As of lately, in circles of kink, at kink events, and on kink sites, the hot word for summer 2010 has been "exposure" due to fear.

My thoughts...
Fear keeps people from realizing an opportunity that could/would prove most pleasing to their lives and/or reap the benefit of utter/uber happiness.

Humans are forever fearful of LIVING...experiencing something different and profound in their world that would make their life pleasurable. I see sooo many unhappy and angry people in this world...I hear the complaints...I see the despair. It is a sad state of affairs.

On the kink side...
I hear it ALL the time, "I don't want to be exposed". Well who are these people exposing others? You know who they are? Those same ol' angry, jealous,  unhappy people who don't want to see ANYONE enjoying their life. Also, they are those scorned people who are desperately seeking and HATE to be rejected or told that there is no match (basically, people are not interested in them).

What an unsatisfying life to live in fear...to allow others outside of your world dictate what you do...to monitor your happiness and make "reports".

If you are living in fear, I believe the lifestyle is not for you...I believe life in general is not for you. I say build the brick wall and hop back into your box and just exist...that is much safer for you. :o)

MsDD::2k10

The scorned male

A male scorned…there are many out there. Interesting…and they say women are scorned… Over the past weeks I have observed males who are scorned.

…a mentally inept male is not the responsibility of a Woman; that is a statement that must resonate in Women, especially those in this (lifestyle) context. A males inadequacies are often masked by cliché phases and alpha-like behavior…(sigh) some males are so predictable. That male is out to make every Woman pay for every “NO” he has received in the past. The frustration, anger, and ultimate loneliness are exhibit in begging and pleading, to rage and incoherency in that male. The male then tries to destroy the VERY thing he craves and desires deeply. Now that is intelligent…perpetuate loneliness by destroying the one thing that will bring happiness, in this context, submission.

I am a Woman that does not exist to correct the ills of ANY males past…that a male has to handle and find closure on his own. Additionally, I do not have to deal with such churl-like behavior because a male can’t seem to get himself out of the “rut of despair”.  A male should, have enough respect for himself to tackle the baggage of the past (or present) to get himself to a place where he is prepared to be freed and live happily in this (lifestyle) context.

So, personally attacking a true (real) Dominant Woman ONLY demonstrates the male you are…it reflects on his inability to effectively handle obstacles. If a male so espouses to be who he truly claims (in this case submissive), then he and he alone must take off his rose colored glasses, destroy the baggage, and take an HONEST step forward.

MsDD~