Life update before the summer semester begins next week:

Had a lovely interview with a Chiropractic Office in Boulder this morning.  Both doctors really liked me and I think it would be a great fit, as far as jobs go, while I'm still taking classes.  Plus, the added benefit of getting accustomed to working in a medical office, dealing with insurance, patients and the like.  So, keep your fingers crossed for me.

Still looking for housing and am waiting to hear back from a couple whose basement apartment I went to see a few days ago.  The location is great, the space is plenty big enough and the best part is that the rent won't leave me broke!  Plus, my dog and theirs got along famously.

Razor blades are expensive.

No, not THOSE razors....those are cheap.

I mean the sort you use to shave with.  And it seems they charge a premium for girl razors, because apparently pink plastic costs more than black, or so they'd have you believe.

However, this girl will no longer be suckered.  I just discovered Dollar Shave Club...you pick your razor type (number of blades) and they send you a razor handle plus 4 blades for a few bucks a month.  Free shipping included.  Mine will cost 6 dollars each month and the razors come straight to your door. 

They really ought to market the razors to we ladies currently without a domestic servant sub boy...... Currently lacking a do-boy to run off to the store when you find yourself lacking a razor to shave your legs??  Dollar shave club!  Save yourself time, money and the hassle of having to feed, water, and entertain the panty wearing sissy in the closet!

Totally worth 6 bucks a month.  Mmmhmm

Also..... what is it with the submissive men who say they are looking for a FLR...?   NONE of them actually post pictures of themselves.  The profiles only ever contain pictures that look like they were advertisements for something, or maybe one of those obnoxious kink Femdom Memes.  Ugh.

Men, seriously, it's very simple to post pictures of yourself such that your identity is concealed and anonymity is maintained.  Heck, I was once married to a guy with a high level security clearance, so I understand that SOMETIMES it's important to not let any old person know you're interested in kink or a FLR.  But I'm guessing that MOST of you aren't working for the US government or the DoD, so do us all a favor and post pictures....

Or don't complain that you're never messaged by anyone REAL.

So, I recently posted to craigslist hoping to find either a roommate or a suitable rental somewhere in or close to Boulder County for under 900 per month.

And....can you believe that I can't find anything?  Not a one bedroom that isn't crawling with roaches or recent bed bug infestations.....not even a basement apartment or house share.  Though, I did receive a really skeevy offer from some old dude who would love to help me out, but p.s.- he's expecting a friends with benefits situation....  Though I'd wanted to send an eviscerating nasty email to him for propositioning me, I decided it wouldn't be worth my time and simply hit 'delete'.

Given that only about 7% of the population makes over 6-figures a year one wonders where all these wealthy people are coming from and what are they doing for work to be able to afford half a million dollar and up houses.....

That said, if any wealthy locals DO read this and have a basement apartment they'd be willing to rent a marvelous tenant, they should message me.

Dear subby boys and girls,

You are looking for a DOMINANT, or maybe a DOMME.  You are NOT looking for a DOMINATE. 

See, the first two words refer to D/s orientations (or possibly an adjective in the case of 'dominant'). 

DOMINATE, on the other hand is a verb.  As in, "did you see that dude just DOMINATE that Chipotle burrito?".....or, "dear, sweet, ethereal Goddess, won't you please DOMINATE me this evening?"  hahaha

I have a couple of dictionaries as well as a thesaurus that I am willing to part with for the betterment of English speaking/writing society.  Just ask nicely!

What does it say about a guy I would take the time to notice and message without outside prompting, if he reads my message....makes a habit of viewing my profile, but who chooses not to even acknowledge the message I sent?

Such a lack of manners, in this ladies humble opinion, not only marks him as rude and socially unacceptable, but certainly not at all a submissive man worthy of any woman.

Dear submissive boys,

Never, ever, ever send a Lady an unsolicited picture of your penis, or worse, your asshole (or really any picture at all that isn't PG rated).  It's in terribly bad taste and I can almost guarantee that the Lady recipient will have absolutely NO INTEREST in further discussions with you.

In fact, that is a very quick and easy way for me to tell whether I want to get to know more about a particular submissive.....his profile and attached pictures.

Nothing written on your profile?  I'm not going to message you.

Poorly written profile.... I'm not going to message you.

Seriously!  Come on guys, use spell check or get someone to proof read what you've written before posting it.  

Finally, a quick note on pictures....  If you claim to be a single guy looking for a REAL domme, someone who isn't full of shit or a complete faker, DO NOT POST PICTURES OF YOUR NASTY BITS ON YOUR PROFILE.  If a lady wants to see your junk, she'll ask to see it. Otherwise treat your profile the way you would a more vanilla profile.  Because while there are women who are kinky, who are looking for submissive boy-sluts, who are more apt than the average girl to accost you with a dildo, we are still women.  We want to get to know you, you know, as a person.  We can get to know your asshole at a later date once we've determined whether you might be worthy of a hand-shake first.

Geez it's almost as if none of you have the basic common sense communication skills that even 3rd graders know and practice.

I've been getting quite the collection of messages recently....all dedicated to my feet.   Of course, I am deeply flattered by all the kind messages as in the vanilla world, my feet hardly get the time of day.

Then I come here, where all the foot-sluts congregate, and am inundated with all sorts of compliments for two bits of my body that are taken for granted by me nearly everyday.  I send out a blanket charge to one of you talented foot-loving boys to pen an Ode to my feet. 

I thank you boys for reminding me that I too should be grateful for these behemoth sized 12 clodhoppers that carry me to class, that allow me to easily shop and that act as amazing cock and ball smashers in their non-vanilla hours.

However, if you're going to use my foot pics as masturbatory material, hadn't you ought to visit my favorite sock/stocking/legwarmer site Sockdreams.com and get my feet a little token of your appreciation???  Just saying...

To all the boys who have offered to live in a cage in my house as a pet, or come over to sniff and lick my dirty feet, or act as a toilet, etc....

What pleasure do you think a woman, such as myself, would receive from your "offers of service".....given that you are complete and total strangers to me????

Think hard on it for a few minutes, will you?

Go through the logical progression.....what a bright, busy woman of high standards receives for such offers.....

I'll tell you what goes through my mind:

1. As you are strangers to me, I think of the awkwardness of having weird, unknown people in my living space or as bad, meeting a weird stranger at some third-party location where I'm not at all comfortable.

2. Now that we've not at all gotten over the weirdness of strangers in my house, now these weird people are going to put bodily fluids of unknown origins upon my skin....... yeah, that's not weird at all...."oh look at the foot slut with a hard-on.....gross!.... egads and he's sweating all over my carpet from arousal"

3.  Okay, so now that's he's slobbered all over my feet he wants to jack his little wiener so he can get release from all this "worship".  Or if he's a pet in a cage (not sure if he's bringing his own, as I don't own one)....but that shit has to be set up somewhere, and I have to entertain said stranger with pet games.  Because god knows you boys become easily bored.

And after it's all done all I have to show for it is my time wasted by strangers I'll likely never ever see again.  And probably some carpet vacuuming and cleaning....because we all know that once you boys have your kink fulfilled... the earlier submissiveness disappears and  thus would balk at the idea of cleaning up after yourselves.

So....this is why I do NOT participate in casual play of any kind anymore. 

So...please.....stop telling me what a great little foot slave you are and how you'd just love to slobber all over my toes and soles. 

The only satisfaction I get from foot worship is from knowing that the person doing it adores me so much that even the filth upon the bottom of my feet from a day of flip-flop wearing is desirable because it's attached to me. I am the person they worship....not above all others, but in lieu of all others.  I am the one they wish to belong to...heart and soul, because I am the one who sees them for who and what they are and can continue to transform them into the perfect male submissive.

Anything less is geared solely to your pleasure and therefore unworthy of me.

I made the awful and most egregious mistake of messaging a Domme today whose profile I've seen quite a bit on this site.  Mind you, she is only mid-20's and supposedly a lesbian.  Honestly, I'm not even sure whether I buy that the person behind the profile is the person whose picture is posted....

Either way, I had messaged to say hello and commiserate with her about the issues a woman...any woman, really, runs into on this site.  I had thought she might get a laugh out of my message.....after all, I think it's a shame that strong, dominant women don't do more to band together and support one another in dealing with the detritus who can't help but hit the "send a message" button in these parts.

"She" messaged back to say she couldn't possibly see why I was messaging her.  So, I'm not sure if her atrocious lack of manners and conversation skills is due to the fact that she's a Gen Y'er (those kids can't seem to pull their heads out of their own assholes long enough to even acknowledge when they're spoken to), or that she's a lesbian who only wants to hear from submissive lesbians, or whether she's just one of the many obliviously rude individuals that people like myself must deal with on the daily. 

Either way, lesson learned.  I'll not be messaging another "Domme" again. 

Given how many "submissive" men use this site, one might wonder why so many of them are woefully single, despite claims of searching and high and low and really NEEDING D/s in order to feel fulfilled in life or within a relationship.

I think I've discovered the issue..... not a single one of you are willing or able to pursue a lovely Lady when given the chance.  I'm not sure whether you're all really socially awkward or whether you somehow think that the Dominant partner ought to do the pursuing... however, I'm finding myself baffled in that I've made contact with a number of seemingly sincere men whose only response was something akin to

"Thanks for looking at my profile, Miss" or "best of luck to you as well". 

I might feel let down had each of the situations been a result of them not finding me physically attractive, but in the none of the situations did I ever share a face or body picture.  If only it were that simple!  Rejection due to physical incompatibility is understandable....after all, we are all rejected or do some rejecting at some point in our lives. But this is something else....

I suppose my original thought is true.... you're all just here for fantasy and play time and truly have no interest in actually getting to know a woman who is both dominant in her relationships and fairly skilled and knowledgeable in the world of kink. 

What a joke.

Daily Words of Wisdom for the submissive soul...boy or girl...

When messaging ANY dominant (to be honest, this really ought to apply to you wishing interaction from ANYONE), or one whom you suspect might be worthy of your calling,  do so by INTRODUCING YOURSELF.  Tell the Domme who you are and why it is that you've singled her out for correspondence.  It is helpful if you actually take the few minutes necessary to READ HER PROFILE and possibly a few of her journal entries.  This will likely give you all the information you need to tell you whether you ought to be messaging her in the first place. 

When messaging a Lady, ALWAYS include your first name....not your stupid screen name or nick name in the scene.  If you are asking a Woman for her time (which you are doing by messaging her) you owe her that small respect, at the very least.  After all, you can still remain quite anonymous if you so like....seriously, I don't think I've ever received a message from a Tom or a Brian and guessed exactly who it was.  :)

Again, tell her why you're messaging....whether to offer a compliment, or ask about her day, or to inquire about her desires or offer service.  Many of we ladies receive any number of messages a day from supplicants of one type or another and you really have to show us why YOU are worthy of our time over the fakers, players and pretenders.  If you're unwilling to make even a small effort to interact via the internet, then you won't make a good submissive or partner and that very easily comes across in how you address us and communicate with us.

To review:  When messaging a Dominant Lady include:  Your name, reference something specific about her/her profile, and tell her why you're messaging.

Now.....go practice!

While I'm not sure whether this musical artist identifies as submissive to women, he's been quoted many times revealing his love of strong, independent women. 

Either way, the lyrics seem to express the drive that every submissive feels to submit to the right person. 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z_aC5xPQ2f4

Based on my experiences attempting to date via CM I am noticing that the boys who consider themselves submissive tend to fall into one of a few broad categories.  I'm sure you boys might say the same of the women who claim to be Dominant....  Nevertheless, it's been amusing and I can't help but write about these categories (after all, a girl can only spend so many hours working on chemistry homework and quizzes)...

I'll list these from most obnoxious to least based solely on my opinion....

1. Mr Untouchable.  This guy has worked very hard on cultivating a pleasing appearance and he wants you to know.  He preens and grooms like the most obnoxious cat or bird you'd ever taken notice of.  He's a jet-setter, possibly a businessman.... he wants to blow into town long enough to pay a pretty girl to spit in his mouth, or allow him to suck on her toes.  He's mostly hoping for raunchy sex with a pro-faux domme at least 10 years his junior, so he can carve another notch on his bedpost and give his ego that boost that always seems needed.  He's the sort of guy Tyler Durden refers to as one of the deluded who is "polishing the brass on the titanic".  Ladies, if he's spending that much time on himself.....he's not going to be spending nearly enough time on you.

***I'm never messaged by this sort, as I'm a little too old and a little too wise to be charmed by money and 4% body fat.  So when all you sincerely submissive boys complain that CM has become rife with 20 year old FinDommes looking to subsidize school and their closet, you should really blame this guy.  This guy is what those girls are banking on....literally.

2. Very effeminate sissy-maid, cross-dressing subs.   Gosh, I don't want to hate on this group.  I get it....you want to feel girly, maybe some of you are gender dysphoric, or bisexual, or even secretly homosexual.  Some of you just feel sexy dressed as a girl, and so when you message me you make it all about you.  Your girly clothes, your makeup, your wigs, your breast forms....and, "don't you just want to FORCE me to look like a woman!?!"  Honey, if you've got all that kinda shit in your closet or hidden under your bed, there is no amount of FORCE to it.  It's your preference to be girly.  And if I wanted to date a girl....I'd go shopping for one.  It seems like to me, so many of these boys are in serious denial about who and what they are.  They've crossed over the line from the female impersonator or even the sexual cross-dresser into some weird mismosh of drag queens meet gender dysphoria.  And while I sympathize, I've got to tell you that the only thing more obnoxious than a woman who only ever talks about her accessories is a MAN trying to look like a woman talking only about his accessories.

3. Mr. Kinkster.  This guy isn't looking for power exchange or D/s.  He's looking for playtime.  And likely he'll tell you whatever he thinks you need to hear in order for you to believe he's submissive and interested in getting to know you.  Only, the tell tale signs appear all too soon....you try and ask him about his life, his interests, the traits that make him who he is...and he can't help but steer every question back to kink or sex.  He's uncomfortable being vulnerable, or even honest.  Even if you meet up with this guy, you'll quickly find that his devotion to serving you is likely shared with any number of other women in the area, or online.  I bust this sort all the time.  These are the guys who message me the most, so I'm assuming make up the bulk of males on this site.  Warning!!!...Once you bust this guy, or catch him in a lie you'll see his true colors.  These are the guys who will call you a dumb whore, or an ugly hag when caught....so do be careful when you buy into their words hook, line, and sinker.  Most of them aren't even remotely who they claim to be.

4. The Slave....  this sort is rarer, but still around.  They can be and are probably likely to be just as devious and deluded as Mr. Kinkster, but with a penchant for pain and degradation.  Maybe we'll just call him Mr. Extreeeeme!!!   This guy claims to have no limits, claims to want to be tied up, left in a cage, cuckolded and branded....and all before lunchtime.  He wants to sign a contract....wants to relocate to your basement and assume life as a slave with no rights.  Ladies, I know how appealing it may sound to have someone around to do all the dishes, cook all the meals, get all the laundry washed and put away.....but this guy ain't right.  First, most of these guys are living in fantasy land...they like service, in theory....in really kinky theory, but most also have a laundry list of how they want to serve.  Trust me, I invited a boy over once to clean and do laundry.....and when I wasn't prepared to strut around the house in corset and panties teasing him and chasing him around with my strap on, he quickly lost interest and refused to do what he had promised he would.  Anyone who claims to want to be a slave is psychologically damaged or a god damned liar.  And you can have my word on that.  :D

5. Mr. Dominant...but ssshhhh, I really want to be submissive to a TRULY DOMINANT WOMAN!

I won't say much about this type.  They know who they are.  I've tried telling men for years that male dominance is all in their heads, or exists as a societal construct.  Most women know instinctively who is in control in a relationship....hell, most honest men know as well and that is why they all quickly learn how to say, "yes, dear" once they get married, if they hadn't learned it before.  All I can say further is....please, Mr. Dominant, don't message me.  I likely won't respond anyway, and typically all that you do get out of me is a giggle when I see your screen name (usually something referencing their power or status as dominant)...and then contrast that with the begging and pleading for me to put you in your proper place.  Silly boys!

I'm sure there are more categories, but I'm not typically bothered by them. 

And now.....back to chemistry.

To the sincere submissive boy who wanted to know what traits would mark someone as fairly 'ideal' in my eyes,

-Kindness: This should be apparent upon anyone meeting you.  If you tell me something like "kindness is only reserved for the person I serve and family" then we won't get along.

-Intelligence:  With this, a thirst for knowledge.  I'm a critical thinker.  I have a strong moral compass, but I'm also able to view life, circumstance or obstacles through a number of different lenses.  If your life is ruled by black and white....again, we won't get along for very long. 

-Education: This one gets me in trouble from time to time....as there are many, many people who are intelligent, enjoy learning, but whom for whatever reason opted not to pursue post-secondary education.... when I say Educated, I don't necessarily mean having a degree or even formal education.  I mean that you're the sort of person who will look up the answer to a puzzling question.  That you enjoy reading or viewing educational materials/programs. That you enjoy using and expanding your mind.  You think (hopefully more often than not) before you act or speak. 

-You wake up more often than not, in a fine mood, ready to tackle whatever needs to get done.

-You have created and maintained healthy relationships in your life.

-You enjoy being in a relationship with someone who likes making decisions/has strong opinions. 

-You are self-aware.  You recognize how your mood, presence and words effect others. 

-You want to live a long, healthy life.  I recently dated a man who eats like he's still living in the backwoods of Alabama and has many significant health issues associated with his diet and lack of exercise (and smoking, BLECH!).....and I opted to end the relationship in part because of his bad habits.  I suppose I don't care to pursue a relationship with anyone who is guaranteeing through their actions/inactions that they'll live with chronic disease for the rest of their lives.  That being said, I'm not a raw, macrobiotic vegan.  I don't forbid myself certain foods, and I no longer go on fad diets.  I eat a healthful plant based diet filled with whole grains of all sorts, and meat with dinner or lunch a few days per week.  I still eat pizza or a burger when I want, but try to keep the less healthy options to once or twice per week.

Aside from those things mentioned, I'm not sure you can make a list that covers chemistry....you either have it with someone or you don't.

Thanks for the messages to those who've written, and best of luck to you all in your search.

Dear fantasy parasites,

I know that it says that I only recently created this account, but please at least attempt to absorb this simple message.... this isn't my first rodeo....with dating, or this site.  Further, know that I've heard it all before.....all the pretty compliments, all the offers to relocate, to be the best and only boy of my dreams...  The sorts of words that tend to turn a lady's head or at the very least make her think twice about on-going correspondence.

Experience...and dare I say even you, fantasy parasite, have been my teacher.  You have taught me that 99 out of 100 men who contact me are full of nothing but lies and bullshit.  You have taught me that online, long-distance service is silly and trite and generally geared toward giving YOU pleasure.  You have taught me that even when some boys tell the truth about one or two aspects of their life, they are usually hiding much more than they're willing to reveal.  You have revealed this site to be rife with cheating husbands, and emotionally and psychologically unstable weirdos.

All that said, perhaps you wonder why I reopened an account on a site that I think so little of...and I will tell you why....  Anthony, Paolo and Zach.  3 boys who have revealed themselves to be honest, full of integrity and generosity.  These boys are not only truly submissive towards women, but they have proven to be worthy of my trust and friendship.  Boys such as these are rare gems and provide me with hope that the one meant for me will surface one day.

I spent the week of spring break with family in my home state.  The weather couldn't have been more perfect.  Unfortunately, I picked up some sort of respiratory virus on the flight home and have been suffering the effects since Saturday.  Thankfully, aside from some unpleasant hacking, nose-blowing and a bit of a scratchy-sore throat it doesn't seem to be too bad.

With six weeks to go this semester I am finding that what little free time I once had really now needs to be redirected toward the hundred things I need to complete by semesters end.  These include continuing to read and study for my classes, completing my FAFSA, several applications for Scholarships, as well as officially applying to 3 different programs, two of which are here in Colorado, then other in my home state.  I had hoped to complete all the necessary steps for induction into the honor society I'm a member of, but I think I'm going to fall just short of completing everything by the deadline.  Ugh!  I hate being unable to complete tasks by their deadlines.  Alas, induction will have to wait until Fall semester.

Yes, by all means, learn all the tricks, techniques and rope tying skills that you can to be the best Mistress or Master that you can become, if that is your wish.

However, no amount of skill in the world makes you Dominant or submissive.

One either is or isn't.  

As each of us are shades of grey, I'll never claim that one can be only one or the other, however, for people like myself, it is the Dominant side of my personality that most of the world sees and that includes my intimate partners.  Of course, I still have a soft side....a side that begs to be wrapped up in arms, nurtured and sheltered when I've taken all that I can take from the world, however, that is a side reserved for very few.  

So, no, my response wasn't lacking or lame.  Perhaps you should check your testosterone at the door, little faux Dom, before attempting to communicate with a Lady.

Was contacted by a liar going by the screen name PleasureTrance recently.  Of course initially he simply wanted to let me know he'd enjoyed reading my profile.  I thanked him politely.  A couple days later he implored again with wishes of getting to know me, and at this point I decided to view his profile.  It was then that I saw that not only was his profile rather scant on information, but I also saw that there was a young Lady saved as a "friend" there as well.  Oddly, her screen name was a variation on his, indicating that she was his partner and Domme, at that.

So, as any quality Woman would, I contacted both the liar and his owner.  I let him know that I had no desire to get to know any boy already in the service of another and then I messaged her so that she knew her "boy" was trying to make headway with me.

He responded back first in a most patronizing way.  You know how liars are....they attempt condescension in some sad attempt to make you think that you're the asshole and not them.  I'm sure he opted to go the way of "Beautiful" or "Sweetheart" in addressing my claim....both words I find disgusting when exiting from the mouth of a liar. Told me that he had nobody of the sort in his life and he was free to come and go as he pleased.  To this message, I did not respond.  It would've been a waste of time to tell a liar that you know he's a liar.  Liars get around getting busted in lies by.....telling more lies!  Vicious circle that I have no desire to get involved with.

A few days after he responded, his owner did.  She wanted to see his messages so she had proof of his lies.  Alas, I delete the messages of liars about as quickly as I delete those from haters. However, I would hope that she would take the words of one who has no reason to lie or cause issues in her relationship over those of one who has clearly lied to her, on at least this one occasion.  But let's be honest....if he lied so willingly and openly to me where I could see his profile and the person he serves, he most CERTAINLY has lied on many occasions in the past.  This idiot was brazen...so much so that he didn't even attempt to hide what he was doing. 

Oh, trolls and liars of Collarme, how I do despise you all.

I realize there are those of you who "recognize" me from previous attempts on this site and for whatever want to reconnect. 

Let me offer you a bit of advice first....

If you were a liar, if you couldn't keep your word with me, if you failed to show up when you said you'd be somewhere, if I ever wasted any amount of time on you and got nothing out of it myself, please know that I don't want to hear from you.  I won't have my time wasted by any of you again. 

Your one-liners via Collarme won't garner a response....neither will your messages via Facebook.  This is the one time I'll acknowledge you.

If you had actually valued me, my time, my energy, or our shared experiences you'd not be receiving such treatment.  So think on that and learn from your mistakes....only, do it away from me.

Last semester I was having a conversation with my Micro instructor about respiratory viruses and the efficacy of flu vaccine.  Most of us have experience with the vaccine that is injected, but there is also the option for the "nasal mist" form and she had mentioned that because Influenza A infects the respiratory epithelium specifically, the mist version of the vaccine is a better option.  After all, you're spraying the virus into the very tissues it likes to infect!

Now I find myself in Pathophysiology, discussing adaptive immunity and the importance of the tonsils, as they are the bits of lymphoid tissue that get a first glance at many of the viruses or bacteria that could go on to infect us.....and it dawns on me that I've had both my pharyngeal and palatine tonsils removed.  These are the tonsils that live in close proximity to the naso-pharanyx, as well as the oral cavity....I still have my lingual tonsils, so...what about for someone like me? 

Would the mist vaccine still be the better choice?  I will happily say that having had that surgery, I definitely haven't experienced frequent illness, as so many assume you might expect.  So, either I have one kick-ass immune system (I doubt this as my immune system did attempt to kill off my Thyroid) or being a ridiculously fastidious hand washer really has saved me!

In other viral news, I just read that an infant who had contracted HIV from her mother while in utero has been "cured" of HIV, I'm assuming after some sort of cocktail of anti-retroviral drugs.  But very promising news for a potential cure, or at least arresting the virus from spreading and eradicating the immune cells that lead to the development of AIDS.  Very exciting stuff!

Just a reminder....  I'm not here to chat about kink, your desires or your interests.  I'm not here to validate your existence or stroke your ego.  Adding things like "sexy" and "beautiful" to your messages doesn't change my response....especially when one considers you don't even know what I look like.   I realize those little niceties are afforded to me because you want something and nothing more.

Don't speak to me like we are intimately acquainted.  We aren't. 

The only messages that are going to garner any sort of response from me are those responding to something specific in my profile, those people who have legitimate questions about my views, compliments, etc...  I'm sure if you took the time to actually READ my profile you'd see I'm in school full-time and don't care to waste time on nonsense.