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Do NOT contact Me unless you meet the qualifications specified on my profile and you are applying. All of these "hello", "you're beautiful", "I wish I lived closer", "I wish I qualified" messages are a waste of time, promptly deleted and user blocked. |
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boys! My profile is there for a reason. READ IT! If you do NOT meet MY qualifications....do NOT message Me. I'm not your friend nor pen pal. I'm not going to chit-chat with you. If you are not USEFUL to Me. I'm not interested. |
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When you close the door to the PAST...slamming it won't make it stay shut. Instead...FIRMLY close it, let go of the knob and simply walk away.
The things of the past are IN the past and you have so much life ahead of you.
As you search for your special ONE on this site...maybe take those words with you. Let go of your baggage and approach your potentials with the excitement and optimism that comes from letting go. |
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Everyone does NOT suck.
I know I can't be the only person who is tired of reading all of the posts about how the guys on this site are wankers and how the females on this site are all gold diggers. I mean, come on! Everyone on here does NOT suck. I truly believe there is someone for everyone. It's all about being pro-active and putting yourself in the right place to meet the ONE. Don't get me wrong, I've vented my frustrations on this site just like so many others. But I don't want to do that anymore. In honesty, I HAVE met some wonderful and respectful people on this site. I've built great friendships. In time, I'm sure I will build many more. My advice to you...don't give up. Keep looking. The Domme/sub of your dreams will appear. |
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I often browse through the profiles of submissives in various cities on various BDSM networking sites (like this one). I know tastes differ but I do find understated pics preferable to those on the "extreme" side. By that I mean, a male in a nice...almost vanilla shot is more appealling to me than a "wide opened ass" shot. And dick pics do absolutely NOTHING for me. In fact I'm more reluctant to consider one with "dick shots" on their profile as I'm very territorial. Why would I want to claim as mine someone who has been so "exposed"? |
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I will be in Barcelona, Spain March 3rd-15th with possible travel to Southern Spain. I definitely seek submissives that may be SUBSTANTIALLY helpful before or during My travels. |
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Thank you to all of the boys on here that have tributed Me and/or bought Me holiday gifts from My wishlist. As I clean out My email of wanker/waste of time emails I can't help to appreciate your thoughtfulness even MORE!:-) |
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2010 I'm coming to Boston, DC and Germany (with a possible trip back to the Netherlands). If you boys could send Me recommendations of areas to stay and any other useful information your favorite Ebony Mistress would definitely appreciate it! ;-) |
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Wow! I'm getting really tired of coming to this site and going through endless messages from those who REFUSE TO READ MY PROFILE. Just about EVERY message is from someone who is NOT LOCAL but still insists on wasting My time. males constantly complain about Dommes ignoring their emails. Well, if you'd bother to read maybe you'd warrant a response. |
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Okay, I see this has to be said. I TRY to respond to MOST messages that seem to warrant a response. But toooo many of yall are contacting Me without READING My frickin profile!!!! I've stated what I seek in a personal submissive INCLUDING distance preference. So why am I constantly contacted by those who live nowhere frickin near Me???? READ! READ! READ! I've stated what I want. Please stop wasting MY time and yours. I'm not even bothering to respond to one more message about personal submission from ANYONE who does not meet My requirements that I have posted on My profile.
Secondly, NO I DON'T WANT TO CHAT WITH YOU. I have a busy life and personal submissives who CURRENTLY serve Me. If I want to just chat....I have plenty to choose from.
If you like Me, adore Me, love Me....then wonderful. But if you are not useful to Me. Then you must do all of those things from afar. Got it? Good. Now enjoy the rest of your day. |
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I guess I'll throw a video entry on here pretty soon. It's been awhile since I spent any time on this site. My vanilla life keeps Me busy. That's the thing about Me. I'm a Dominatrix. But BDSM is NOT My life. I have a life. I make moves. BDSM complements My already existing lifestyle. It's a form of release for Me. But My main identity...nope. There are way more dimensions to Me. Education and self-actualization are essential to My happiness. And I've recently achieved one of My lifelong goals by completing My requirements for My advanced degree (won't tell you which one). Do I think that enhances Me as a Mistress? Well, yes I do. I went through hell and hot water to reach My goal. I got up when I didn't feel like it. I pushed through when I was tired. I sacrificed and yet kept My eyes on the prize. Therefore, when I ask My slave to jump, dammit...he needs to jump. Excuses aren't good enough. My motto in life is "Excuses Won't Do!". you must walk around, over or through any obstacle that gets in your way! |
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I love a sexy crossdresser. I've run across some really sexy pics on this site. Of boys bringing their A-game to the art of female illusion. I love it! I say, if you're gonna do...then work it to the fullest! Go bitches, go! |
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Update!!!!
I believe the thief's profile has been removed. Hooray! The trash has been taken out!
THIEF! THIEF! THIEF!
STOLEN PHOTO!!!!!!!!!!
I was recently informed that some wanna-be has stolen my pic and is posting it as their own. What a sad shame? How much does a webcam really cost? Or is she/he/it just afraid that noone would like what they'd see? Sad and pitiful. I've contacted the IMPOSTOR as well as CollarMe.com. Hopefully the FAKE will be exposed asap.
IMPOSTORS INFO:
IMYOUREBONYMISS
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I can honestly say I'm very happy right now. I have found a submissive that is caring, generous, intuitive and obedient. An alpha male in his personal life but a beautiful submissive gentleman in my life. He has "old school" manners and he's just a "good" and honorable person. He has all of the "vanilla" qualities that I look for... intelligence, maturity and dependability. And he started off on the right foot with me....local, no initial explicit pics and a humbleness yet forthright introduction. His approach consisted of a combination of his "vanilla" attritutes AND his submissive attributes. Males who are dominant in the workplace and in the "vanilla" world have always been the best types to Me. They know their places with Me but aren't afraid to take charge when they need to do so in order to get things done for Me. Anywho....I just wanted to share something on a positive note. Goodday kiddies. |
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I had one of the worst days of My life. As a favor to a friend I went to church. Yeah, church. And kiddies I must tell ya. I am NO way a Christian. Don't even believe in the concept of organized religion. Too divisive among other things. Well, I had to listen to this little disgusting figure who called himself a pastor berate "sissies (his word)" , "wordly" women and then go on to fleece the congregation out of $10,000. Yep, 10k. That was his goal to collect and he wasn't opending the doors til he collected it. And this was in no way a rich, wealthy or financially comfortable group. That man berated and guilt tripped those people until just about everyone in the house gave up their grocery and rent money because otherwise "the Lord would not bless them"(as he put it). Not me...I gave a whopping 2 dollars. Oh and did I mention that the 10k was not even going to the church but was to be a gift for the pastor. I mean damn. I'm revered and loved. You know....shit, I need 10K....I'll be starting my damn church soon! |
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It's very disappointing the number of messages I receive from males who have not bothered to read my profile/journals. If one is looking for consideration, they should put their best foot forward. I mean, guys really.....if you don't read the profile how do you know that you are even COMPATIBLE? Or maybe, it doesn't even matter?
Such a shame. |
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Reasons why I did not respond to your email:
1. you were rude, disrespectful or sexual explicit (including sending pics of your "kibbles and bits")
2. you want to chit-chat...fellas, We ain't friends and I ain't your pen pal. I want EXACTLY what My profile states that I want. If you don't qualify...then aint no point in contacting Me trying to strike up a friendly conversation if you don't meet My criteria. Love Me from afar...but don't bug Me.
3. One sentence/couple of word emails...honestly guys, if you have little time to properly introduce yourself...I have even less time and your ass won't get a response. Again, an essay is not needed but do show a little effort by showing Me you at least give a fuck.
4. Dissertation long or cut and paste form letters...please see prior journal
5. I admit, My profile changes with My moods. But if My profile states that I want local subs then I want local subs. If it states that I am only seeking clients, then I'm only seeking clients. See a pattern? If you have disregarded MY desires then you damn sure aint getting a response.
6. I haven't gotten around to responding. Yep, guys I have a "real" life with "real" responsiblities. Sometimes the search for subs must go on the back burner.
7. you berate Me for taking too long to respond...all I can say is (LOL) get the fuck out of here!
8. I overlooked your email. Yep, that happens. I get alot of email and some good ones go unread, or even read but I inadvertently(sp) don't respond. If you feel that was the case (because you KNOW you don't meet the other 7 factors) email Me again. your well grounded persistence is not offensive.
By Ms Black Mamba
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Aaaaaaahhhhhh, shiiiiitttttt! I'm watching the movie Roots. Gotta tell ya, feeling really frickin vindictive right. Gotta a loyal submissive coming over later. I'm gonna REALLY whoop Me some pink ass tonight!  |
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My perfect mate. Durable, pliable, respectful and obedient. I'd keep you in a box and only take you out when I'm ready to play. Can you handle that? |
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OMG!!! I have to share this since so many of My fellow Dommes have experienced similiar behaviors from retarded males. What the hell is up with these cut and paste essay long initial emails? Really, do you actually think you are gonna get anywhere with those? Do you really think a Domme is gonna ignore the fact that you probably cut and pasted the same email to every frickin Domme on this site? LMAO!
I just called some guy on it (name withheld to protect the stupid) and he rants into a "I have money", "I was gonna give you money", "I'm financially secure" tirade like that makes a frickin difference. LMAO! Everyone all together now....say L-O-S-E-R! Good times! ;-)
****UPDATE-I noticed in my inbox from the mid part of LAST YEAR that creep sent Me the SAME EXACT form letter** SUPER LOSER!
I mean really...how long does it take to type up a couple of sentences responding to a person's profile. No one is asking for a frickin dissertation! Sheesh!
There are some really good submissives out there but having to sift thru these idiots to find them is a pain in the tailbone! LOL
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This is a short example of the type of introductory email that I DON'T want. "For your amusement i will be subjected to whatever you say even forced feminization, sissification, small penis humiliation, i will be your toilet, ass worship..." Blah, Blah, Blah! Talk about topping from the bottom. He basically just gave me a laundry list of how he wants Me to serve him. Buuuuulllshit. My profile clearly states what I seek but I continue to have my time wasted by males who just don't "get it". |
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LOCAL(a clarification):
I consider local to be up to a 4-5 hour drive from Jacksonville, Florida. The reasoning behind My requirement for local submissives is that I want a servant who can be in my presence regularly and on short notice. Do you understand?
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I am not merely seeking a "scene partner" nor a robot. I want to know WHO you are before WHAT you like. I want a submissive that makes me laugh and is enjoyable to be around. Therefore, I want to know about you in a BDSM AND "vanilla" context. I want to know about your hobbies, interests, passions and ambitions.
I don't expect to know everything about you in the first email BUT
a) if you send me a one sentence email...I will delete it.
b) if you send me a mere laundy list of your desires or fantasies...I must assume your primary goal is self satisfaction and I will refer you to a PROFESSIONAL domination session. you may include your interests but your email should NOT revolve around your desires instead of how you can be an asset to MY life. In drafting your email, pretend as if you are vying for the attention of a woman in a "vanilla" setting. What would you tell her? How would you express to her that you are special and worth her time?
c) don't send me a form letter. Take some time and address My profile.
d) don't waste my time. I promptly delete emails that do not fall within my location guidelines.
Take heed, boys. If you are truly hoping to have a healthy and fulfilling long term D/s relationship it's worth the effort to take the time to make a good first impression. There are many, many male submissives/slaves to choose from so it's in your best interest to stand out from the masses and let Me know why you are the ONE. |
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WTF? I feel like I'm being contacted by a bunch of 2 year olds. If you have nothing better to say than "hi" or "your hot" or other one word/line meaningless messages...then don't bother. First impressions are lasting impressions. I quickly delete any/all mail in which the sender writes like a muthaf**kin caveman. And if you haven't taken the time to properly introduce yourself by email, then NO, NO, NO I don't want to chat with you! |
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