Honesty, Integrity, Intelligence, Loyalty, and someone who really knows what she wants...that's me. I'm a 5'10 1/2Hawaiian & 1/2German Domme - best of both races - Loving, Sadistic Domme. I am a large woman (BBW), so make sure you apprecdiate that before approaching me. Don't waste my time, or yours.
I have a wonderful partner who is my beloved as well as one of my submissives. He does and will take precedence.
I'm very allergic to cigarette/cigar/pipe smoke. Be a non-smoker.
In my opinion, the only true relationship is one w/honesty/trust/commitment - play safe, sane, consensual, intensely/deeply/passionately...finding this together intensifies ultimate trust/love/reality/relationship. I don't like nor play head games (unless it is in the context of a scene and expected/negotiated).
My forte is caning/flogging/spanking/violet wand/knife play (non-blood). I am not into scat nor any bathroom training nor age play. I do not mark for permanency (though will consider it for my 24/7 sub/slave or a long term collaring), but I do give you something to go away with and think of me for a little while after.
I utilize energy and power exchange with my partner & those who serve me. I am very intense and very passionate.
I am very sexual and orgasmic, but I do not always incorporate sex in my play. A sub has to earn their place for me to go there, sexually, spiritually, emotionally. I will need to find my sub attractive sexually, spiritually, and emotionally as well (as my sub will need to feel the same about me).
I will accept a female or male submissive who can be devoted to me, is naturally submissive, is intelligent and has opinions (even if they are not always allowed to be heard), realizes her/his power and responsibilities as a sub, and can accept a very honest, controlling yet loving relationship with a mistress who will adore her/him but also discipline & train her/him - mold you to my desires.
I am into open relationships, and interested in building a poly family. She/He will know I am human and make mistakes (rarely but they happen) and have a few weaknesses (though not many). If you fit the above, contact me. :)
I do have an age preference for whom I will play with: 25yrs old through 50yrs old (exceptions are possible but far & few between). If you are married, your partner should know about your bdsm desires and interest in submitting to me. I don't like to be lied to or deceived, and I do not want to be the reason such hurtful actions are done to another. I do not like being second to anyone.
The ultimate would be to have a real masochist who enjoys the mental & physical challenges I put upon her/him. I'm open to trying different things as long as it is fully consentual, and, of course, I want to do it. :)
Note: just because you want it doesn't mean you will get it! Really....you should be about your Mistress' needs and anything more would be a bonus. Her needs are first and foremost. If you don't understand this or embody this, we don't have anything in common...
