- The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet

Horizontal Line
Vertical Line
Hetero Male Dominant, 44,  San Diego, California
Horizontal Line

Horizontal Line


Vertical Line

English but mostly based in California these days. Should know better but all the best stories begin with the worst of decisions, so I kind of gleefully jump in to things.

Not actively looking for relationships these days. I am lucky enough to be married to, definitively, the best human ever born. Who would have thought, with billions alive and all the others throughout history, Id meet the very best one. On top of that, having been around the scene since what feels like the invention of the kinky wheel, I have wonderful submissive friends who delight in taking care of my generally insatiable love of exploring new ideas.

Its that tickle of my brain that has me back here, despite the constant efforts to run the site into the ground. I like talking to interesting people, sharing interesting ideas, learning about others interesting paths even if theyre not for me. Im a sapiophile. If my brain isnt working, its a wasted day. If youve found me browsing your profile, its likely because there was something fascinating in there that I thought made my neurons light up.










Last Online:


 Dominant Male

 San Diego 


 5' 10"






Actively Seeking:

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Obedience Training

 Intellectual Discourse





 Breast Play


 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Genital Punishment

 Domestic Service

 Fire Play

 Hair Pulling



 Massage (Getting)


 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Sensory Deprivation


 Speech Restrictions (Expert)






 Body Worship



 Canes and Crops



 Electrical Play

 Local BDSM Community



 Hypnosis (Expert)


 Needle Play

 Orgasm Denial

 Maid/Butler Service

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay



 Wax play






 Corner Time

 Foot Worship

 Role Playing



Horizontal Line

Vertical Line

Vertical Line

Copyright © 2021 and  
18 U.S.C. 2257 Record-Keeping Compliance Statement

Vertical Line

DMCA |  Privacy |  Spam |  Support |  Dir | TOS

Horizontal Line