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| What e' for me the Bondage The one which e' piu' discouraging for the cultore of the BDSM is the preconcepts that accompany this passion, at least the benevolent and romantico type that to me it appeals to. But we leave from the beginning For years I have had fantasies bondage, fantasies where I tied women or where I came legacy. For years they are felt an abnormal one to me, a sick one, having. For years I have held all hiding within of me, perche' convinced of dangerous being for me and for the others For years, when it was spoken about sex, I closed myself in uncertain same me perche'. For years...... I have wastes all to you those years. Then e' come the Net, before with the situated ones in English language, then with those, piu' numerous, always Italian Then the chat have come, the forum, the mailing list, IRC, ICQ and via talking And e' arrived the knowledge not to be an abnormal one, not sick being, not to be having. Fantasy is one normal person with one, even one fantasy a po' strange, but not piu' of many others. E' my interest not to svilire, to enslave or however to diminish the importance of the woman like being human. I do not wish a woman that she is subordinated the man. Ok, a lot probably part of the fantasy e' due to my shyness, but however is not those maniaco violent that I believed. Da' it do not appeal to to me to offend, to sminuire, to misuse, to take advantage of, aggressive being or to cause pain. My dream e' a partner who considers pleasant and stimulating the bondage, she is like a way in order to divide with an other person a intimita' special, is like one stimulating sexual game. I do not want a victim or same being a victim, but someone with which being able to indulgere in the fantasy." To be legacies e' necessarily an disagreeable situation indeed puo' not to be a positive experience, if made with someone which it is trusted to us. To be legacies, disables to you to move, puo' to be the equivalent of being closely embraces to you from who loves to us. Puo' also to be a way for rilassarsi. If us puo' not to oppose itself, we are not responsible of what it comes made to us, always with the emergency of never knowing that our partner not fara' something that us dispiaccia. Obviously the fantasy puo' not to exist without conflict situations. Therefore some of the situations could represent danger situations. But like to the cinema and in novels, null sara' real. Us sara' never danger of died or you do not damn physicists. I repeat do not interest me the victims, but similar of game and if the companion does not amuse itself, the next not giochera time '! The bondage that it appeals to e' essentially a kind action to me used between partner in order to intensify their physical and spiritual vicinity. Who submits the fa' perche' wishes it, knowing that sara' loved just for this. He knows that to be immobilized e' a way for being wished and not being used. He does not want absolutely to be a way in order to offend. If not e' completely and absolutely bilateral, situated one does not interest Obviously cannot know who to me visitera' this, but I can however make so that it contains only material who answers to when over described. Those who is to the search of something strongly, would have to leave this situated one, than e' not dedicated to this. If tried something that sminuisca the human being, you will not find null here. ________________________________________ If you have followed to me until here ', it compliments, one becomes account that all the one which I have written piu' over to the greater part of people it turns out boring, pero' I wanted that it was clearly that type of situated been in order to visit. Hello MrSukaranbo
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