I see BDSM as a symbiotic lifestyle, in which the needs of one partner fulfills the needs of the other. The submissive yearns to serve, be guided and protected, while the Dominant yearns to accept that service, guide and protect his most prized possession.
While BDSM is about more than play for me, I do play often, and am very passionate and involved within it. I believe that good play requires both partners to be open and connected. I like to play hard. I am normally harsh and demanding, however, I also enjoy some quiet and soft scenes. I believe in stimulating my partner and myself in many aspects, and am happiest if we come away both spiritually and mentally engaged. In my play, I enjoy restraints, sadism, masochism, suspension bondage, service, humiliation and power exchange, among other fetishes.
I believe that BDSM, at times, is more mental than physical. I endeavor to stimulate my submissive mentally as well as physically. The deepest forms of submission and dominance come from the mind, and it is very important to me to engage this part of my partner. Kink is also very spiritual for me. I often find spiritual release in the caress of rope or a flogger when I bottom, and I aim to bring spiritual stimulation to my submissives.
10/30/2011 8:19:47 AM
It would appear that most on here are fakes, spammers, or not the least bit serious....c'mon people, be real.
Know who you are and what you want before messaging me, or is that too much to ask?
