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Hetero Male Dominant, 49,  Scotland, United Kingdom
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MrSir39 - photo 1
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I am an experienced Dominant with several years experience who is looking to take somebody to places where they want to go but wish to do it in a sane and safe fashion.Over the years I have seen life from the perspective of firstly a sub then switch and finally as a dom . I have a huge and varied toy collection and love to take folk to levels that the dream about but are afraid to go there

Outside D/S I like the gym, good food cinema, conversation, horseriding and the outdoors. Am also looking for good conversationalists.












 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 6' 0"

 180 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Domme/Dom Couples

Female Led Couples


 Lives For:

 Travel (Expert)

 Climbing (Expert)

 Horseback Riding (Expert)

 Bondage (Expert)

 You wearing my collar (Expert)

 Lifestyle BDSM (Expert)

 Old Guard (Expert)


 Antique Shows (Expert)

 Art Galleries (Expert)


 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera (Expert)

 Movies (Expert)

 Museums (Expert)

 Musical Theater (Expert)


 Bicycling (Expert)


 Walking (Expert)

 Yachting (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Blindfolding you (Expert)

 Cages (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 Chastity (Expert)


 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Exhibitionism (Expert)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Expert)

 Being Massaged

 Gags (Expert)

 Humiliation (Expert)

 Placing you on a leash (Expert)

 Masks on Partner (Expert)

 Mental Bondage (Expert)

 Obedience Training (Expert)

 Objectification (Expert)

 Orgasm Control (Expert)

 Selecting the clothes you wear (Expert)

 Outdoor Bondage (Expert)

 Plastic Wrap Bondage (Expert)

 Role Playing (Expert)

 Sensory Play (Expert)

 Spanking you (Expert)

 Suspension Bondage (Expert)

 Wax Play (Expert)

 Whips (Expert)

 Chess (Expert)

 Historical Shows

 Newspapers (Expert)

 Art Collecting (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)


 Investing (Expert)




 Singing (Expert)




 Conservative Politics (Expert)

 Economics (Expert)

 History (Expert)

 Intellectual Discourse

 Liberal Politics (Expert)

 Libertarian Politics  (Expert)

 Mathematics (Expert)

 Nanotechnology (Expert)


 Paranormal Phenomena

 Philosophy (Expert)



 Political Activism (Expert)

 Psychology (Expert)

 Writing (Expert)

 Alternative Music

 Blue Grass

 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Heavy Metal Music


 Opera Music



 Tennis (Expert)


 Bar Hopping


 Shopping (Expert)



 Martial Arts

 Running (Expert)

 Begging (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Breast Play (Expert)

 Erotic touch (Expert)

 Foot Worship

 Hoods (Expert)

 Public Play (Expert)

 Rubber Fetish


 Speech Restrictions (Expert)

 Vibrators (Expert)

 Watersports (Expert)

 Card Games

 Comedy Shows

 TV News (Expert)

 Gardening (Expert)

 Karaoke (Expert)

 Cuckolding (Expert)

 Polyamory (Expert)


 Pop Music



 Golf (Expert)

 Soccer (Expert)



 Corner Time (Expert)


 Genital Punishment

 Gas Masks

 Housework Service

 Masks (Wearing)


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Curious About:

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Medical fetish play



 Domestic Service

 Modern Primitivism


 Sensation Play

 Oral Service


 Folk Music

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Journal Entries:
4/22/2017 9:11:43 AM
A while since Ive written, I now spend my summers in Italy 30 miles from Pisa and always welcome house guest be they sub or dom/me... after all they finer things in life are worth sharing

5/18/2014 1:41:33 PM

what the fuck are renaissance fairies some form of well dressed gay

8/8/2012 8:47:13 AM

it would seem that my rather village people pic on my profile has attracted some interest from other males of the species in Eastern Europe...gentlemen I am flattered it certainly wasnt my intention to be the pin up boy with so many imitations in the old soviet bloc.... perhaps I should set up a gear franchise in the domley look!!!

4/12/2012 2:15:00 PM

As ever I have been looking about and have come to the conclusion that I might be a vegitarian due to the fact that many females going under the nom de plume of  ".....meat," now if I want meat I shall go to my local butchers if I wish to meet then it shall be over a glass of wine or a cup of coffee!!

1/7/2012 1:31:12 PM

Well as I peruse the lisitings and chat to some, I think to myself maybe I should be a cash dom, beats the day job, which is keeping a roof over my dungeon..... any takers!!!

10/1/2011 2:48:49 AM

FYI seekingdom41 is very real and interesting!!!

9/2/2011 9:30:10 AM

Well as i perused the wannabes etc, I am always drawn to the pre-pubesent dommes, who seem to all have photos from Hello or OK magazine and want cash piggies.....get real girls or maybe guys most likely!!!

8/27/2011 12:21:43 PM

Maybe there is someone who might want to make the grade!!!


6/1/2011 12:20:23 AM

Browsing the latest wannabes, I was particular taken by one where they wanted you to cut their arms off, now this had me thinking, of what use will they be to a dominant, how are they going to make that morning cup of tea, or hand relief (of which I think there is alot on this site)..... Think I'll give that one a pass!!!{#}

5/27/2010 8:13:02 AM
The latest from one of my african cousins

Hello My Dear One.
How are you doing today? I hope you are alright. My name is Jenet,I know that you may be surprise how i get your contact, I saw your profile today at when i was browsing looking for honest and life partner, then i feel to drop this few line to you , and I believe that we mighty meet as one. Please I will like you to contact me through my email so that we can able to know more about each other and exchange our pictures, and we may become life partner as well.

Remember the distance does not matter what matters is love,honest and understanding which we share with each other. I am waiting to hear from you soon. Have a nice day.
Your new friend.

Please i will like you to contact me through this email address:

ha ha ha

5/21/2010 1:19:55 AM
So today, a nice your lady from my locality asks me to talk to her on msn, being a polite dom I was delighted, her english was perhaps a bit broken and then I get the sob story about how her wicked uncle had her mum locked up as a slave (incidently the lass was a slave) and she need money from a live cam show to help her mum out of slavery so for £6 I could have her do things with the fruit and veg isle in Asda and she make me velly happy, we it is one way to amuse oneself on a dull day, but enough of this am off to Asda!!!

7/9/2009 9:11:39 AM

I have to smile abour profile photos, especially when you have folk who say they are from the UK and say they are a female dominant, and the photo has been lifted from a neighbouring porn site advert on here, I wouldnt mind but in one case somebody had a particularly interesting electrical attachment, with the plug in the background of the picture and a balmy looking view from the window, it made me think do folk really go on holiday to sample local sex aid delights, hell of a long way to travel for a buzzy thing when you can head to Ann summers get it for a tenner and have change for half a pound of monkey nuts!!!!........... Then again who am I to talk whn I had a reply saying that I looked like an extra from village people!!!!!

3/19/2009 1:35:19 PM
Well keep them coming folk, I had a girl from the good old US of A today wondering if she could be my slave, from the pic she looked splendid and she even offred me an msn address, shame really since the profile said she was Ongda from Nigeria.......... nice try, keep on scamming!!!!

10/18/2008 3:46:00 PM

Great big bown ones, not in the shoe as the hun did in Billy Connelly did but doon ya gob. Now folks Im a fairly openminded guy, but i think theres only a few folk I would do that too, like the business partner who shafted for, but to take up scat like you do tennis..... well Ill shag Andy Murray!!!

3/19/2008 9:46:26 AM
Today I had a request from a certain someone to blackmail them, now apart from the fact that blackmail is illegal, I did have an additional problem of not knowing who I was to backmail, any motive and indeed who I was to reveal this persons secrets, sometimes when one enters the web world you really do think its "bing bong" land, oh some things make me laff, I think discussing the state of play in Eastenders has more fsacination.

3/10/2008 4:02:20 PM

Well folks today I was having an amusing session looking at folks (well females pics) I can now understand why they dont want one nighters, it must have been very boring having your provactive pic taken in the travel lodge, all that was missing on some of them was Do not Disturb....., still could be worse might have been a novatel..... the one at heathrow I am reliably informed has particularly thin walls!!!

10/11/2007 2:48:57 PM
It gets better everytime, today, I was offered the loyalty and service of a whole family from Armenia, with enclosed pics!! Alas I cant share them with you, but its nice to see that when Becks isnt kicking a ball in LA he has now decided to be a sub in Armenia, then again I always did think that Posh was a switch its the two secret 16yo daughters she has Im quite amazed about...... tell you what I want, what I really want....................... some sanity is it too much to ask

3/23/2007 8:51:35 AM
Hello strong men. I write you the letter because I search Dominants men. I the weak woman and am necessary for me strong men which will care of me. I hope, that you will become interested in me and write to me the answer to  My name is XXXXX. I shall wait your answer with impatience

Sent from a male switch in Russia........... obviously has gender problems!!!

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