Just curious if anyone in the San Antonio area knows much about the local BDSM community.  I haven't been able to find much going on here in the area, so am not sure if I am just looking in the wrong places or what.  If anyone can lend a hand I would appreciate it.

One thing I really don't understand is why everyone says i wont respond to one liner messages but when someone takes the time to write a real message to that person they still dont bother to respond to you, even if it is just to say I'm not interested or Fuck off. I mean come on, at least have the courtesy to tell me if you have no interest in me, I promise I won't break or even beg you to reconsider.  At the most I may ask if there was any particular reason, just so i know if its something that I'm doing that may be turning people off, but I won't harrass you or even put you down for not being interested.  I can respect that not everyone will like my particular style but like I said, at least have the decency to tell me and not just leave me hanging.

What is it with others that want to say they are from somewhere and then when you start to talk to them you find out that they are from farther away than what you thought.  I am looking for a sub/slave in the general area of San Antonio.  If you are not in this area then don't bother. I don't mind friends but don't ask me if I want to own you 'cause your just too far away from me at this time.