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Kind, loving, strict, patient man. Looking for a girl who needs guidance and structure for r/l 24/7 live-in relationship.

I take things slow to start, but am a strict, demanding, and old fashioned lover. I enjoy the submissive attitude of a girl following a thorough spanking or paddling. I believe in taking care of a girl in every way.

I do not wear leather or otherwise play "dress up" in public.

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1/7/2011 9:26:34 PM

I have had an amazing month.  Met a girl who was extremely bratty, but also responded very well to discipline - a glimpse of my dreams.  Unfortunately, on all of the practical, mundane things there was simply too little in common - we could not fit into each other's lives and families.

 

Still, it is encouraging to know that what I seek is really out there.  The combination of love and discipline really can work very well.  I continue to seek.


9/28/2010 5:35:52 PM
  I just read a blog post about a Morrocan man who had an arranged marriage and moved to the US.  He had rough sex with his wife, and she did not like it.  He told her that if she did not submit, he would divorce her.  She was afraid of being divorced, so she submitted, but cried every time he fucked her.  Then, he divorced her anyway.

  Most of the vanilla commenters thought he was an asshole for fucking a crying girl.  I say he was an asshole for divorcing her, because that was worse to her than raping her.  That, plus the fact that she was crying because he was so bad at sex.

  I'd never force a vanilla girl - that would be destructive and I am not a destructive man.  I need a girl who needs to be feel coerced.  Forcible rape does not turn me on, but spanking a noncompliant girl until she is sobbing and compliant does.  The harder she cries, the harder I get. 

  It is not just about coercion and meeting my needs.  It is also about love and meeting her needs.  Security - as long as she does not leave or bring in outsiders, I will not leave her - I will make sure it works.  Sexual fulfillment - I love to see a girl orgasm because of my efforts.  A content woman makes a content house.

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Subhannahxyz
 
 Age: 24
 San Antonio, Texas