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I am re-investigating and reentering the life style. Maybe the losers and users have vanished with the advent of the Mayan calendar prophesies. Insha'Allah!
I am an ardent believer in actions speaking louder than words. It is what you do and not what you say which will leave a more positive impression upon Me. Believe me I am not perfect and have left poor impressions on those I felt closest to.
NOT HERE FOR DRAMA OR YOUR INDECISION. IF YOU CHOOSE TO CONTACT ME, UNDERSTAND WHAT IT IS YOU ARE LOOKING FOR, BE ABLE TO DEFINE IT AND/OR ASK INTELLIGENT QUESTIONS. GLAD TO INFORM, MENTOR AND GIVE MY OPINION. IF YOU ARE UNABLE TO DO AS I HAVE REQUESTED, YOU WILL BE BLOCKED, DELETED AND END OF STORY
I love great conversation, POWER EXCHANGE and sex; as well as my future sub/slave, whom will be cherished and RESPECTED. I do not want the typical D/s relationship. Who wants a cookie cutter relationship. Therefore you will not be average in your needs or the level of surrender. I want among other things, your loyalty, obedience and hold on to that sense of independence; and your joy in being in service to me. You can be spontaneous, slutty, a lady, a lover, and object to be used for my pleasure. You know when you should conduct yourself in these ways. You wish to be trained, yearn and savor my caress as well as my disciplinarians hand. (not all discipline is sadistic)
It is my responsibility to make you feel loved, secure, and always safe. Even when we venture to the edge
I am mildly to moderately Sadistic but then that's what you need sometimes. Overall I am a Master with traditional values infused into my BDSM sensibilities. One of them being some of the sexual aspects.
MY Rant:
I have concluded and justly so, that SOME people are misinformed or are self-serving sexual predators. Behaving as if this lifestyle is about fluid exchanges and having nothing to do with power exchange, Granted sex is part of a sub's surrender, but not his/her sole role.
I have observed many fringe/wanna-be "Masters" conduct themselves as this is the only reason they're in the life style.
To all of you posers- EFF off. Take your sad, pathetic, damage doing asses out of here and go find yourself a hooker. Your fucking things up for all the people who want this lifestyle to receive a modicum of social acceptance.
You slaves and subs that say they have "NO LIMITS". You need to rethink and realize that you can have a BDSM relationship and surrender "all", but still have limits that you will not accept venturing into. PLACE AT LEAST A MINIMAL VALUE ON YOURSElVES FOR CHRIST'S SAKES! IF YOU WANT TO BE VALUED, LOVED AND CHERISHED FOR WHO YOU ARE!
Otherwise, think of it this way. The person you just gave "total power" to will rape you emotionally at the least; have you out doing all of his/her bidding and you just might end up with your pic on a poster in a grocery store with "missing" boldly printed at the top of the page.
Hope you had a good picture taken. If that doesn't pan-out, then hope the rash can be treated by antibiotics or maybe the itching will stop after the cream is liberally applied for a few weeks.
Everyone please conduct yourself appropriately.
We truly do care about this lifestyle so please don't take me wrong. The truth sometimes hurts and I have had to swallow bitter pills in the past. Acknowledging my own errors of trust and the sexual components in the lifestyle. Sex is not supposed to be the primary consideration but a happy component. This is not about swinging.
To the BDSM community at large you need to police yourself a bit. Ostracize those who do do damage to participants in our community and it's image.
NOW ABOUT ME AND MY NEEDS. lol
No individual, his personality and life can be put into a box for we are dynamic individuals. We change and are molded by events and experiences. But I will try.
I want to explore your mind, enslave you thoughts and possess your body and free your soul.
Let me make this very clear. I am not 24/7. I want someone who is comfortable in the vanilla of life. I want my world to have balance. BDSM is the spice to my life and I like haban-eros! It is not my life!
I am a 52 year old man who is rejoining the BDSM, kink and style. I am looking for a relationship that I hope can become long term. How ever would enjoy an occasional play partner, I consider myself a playful Dom/Daddy Dom with a bit more than a touch of sadist (okay some times more than a touch) who will find your limits and when the time is right, push them a bit. I also will be your sensual orgasm air traffic controller. LOL. I am respectful of all boundaries. But will try to push them when we think you are ready. I take pleasure in the power exchange with my submissive collaborator; rope, bondage, impact play (bare handed, flogs, crop, canes, belts, paddles). I will push your limits of exhibitionism. I wish for a partner who will accompany me to some of the gatherings. Yes and of course as my rope slut lol to practice rope bondage techniques on as well as incorporating it into our play.
I am fascinated with the Japanese art of Shibari and will be studying and practicing as time allows. I will take pleasure in making you cum while you're restrained. I like to tease. Would you like it better if you were blindfolded? I know I do. Hell anything that can incorporate a blindfold is good. I will whisper things to my " night time slut" that would make my day time princess blush. Good things happen to good girls. Extraordinary things happen to the very bad girls!
You do not have to be a novice or long time devotee of the lifestyle. I so enjoy being with one as she has her first satisfying experience in a given scene, fetish, role play or any life experience in general. One always remembers the "first time" with a given individual right along with that "best one ever" experienced.
I want to get to know you and understand your limits, curiosities and deepest darkest desires. I additionally want you to know yourself. You will surrender to me completely and I will hold you in the highest of respect. I have a responsibility to keep you safe and feeling secure. Have it be known that you are cherished in your submission while you in my care and insure that others do as well.
I should note here again that I am not a 24/7 type of guy. However, I would like to find a suitable play partner and that unique individual that would be part of all my vanilla life. Too much of any type of behavior good or bad (grin) makes an individual one dimensional and stagnant in life. Admittedly, I want BDSM, kink and fetish to be part of my life but not the majority of it. I enjoy the post play review and vanilla conversation. You should too.
I would enjoy meeting ladies in the area. I would greatly enjoy meeting a lady in the area that share my kinks etc. If the above creates curiosity or excites, contact me. FYI for the moment I smoke. I occasionally drink socially but never when I play and would hope that you do not either. Always safe and sane and communication is key. I obviously have other kinks and hope you do as well. Tell me your limits, desires and what you are curious to explore. Race, age and body type are not important. The content of your mind and your spirit of adventure are.
I would love to have a rope bottom lol to practice on and play partners that would like the occasional scene. I believe in a clear delineation of the vanilla and the life style. Discretion and respect of the limitations of my partners are paramount. I understand that your sense of well being, safety and health are my responsibility and I take this seriously.
"The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow Roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars, and in the middle, you see the blue center-light pop, and everybody goes ahh..." Jack Kerouac
play hard
love well
K
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