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As always, my profile is in as much transition as I am. I have been involved in a relationship with a sub, who I am no longer seeing. I found this relationship very erotic, and I have been learning more about the lifestyle. As I have learned more about myself, I have discovered that I'm more of a Daddy Dom rather than a Master, as I just don't need the total power and control, as it's the act of submission I enjoy. With that being said, I also understand the need for a sub to have the structure and guidance they crave, as well as the discipline they need. I have found that I am very attracted to younger women, not because of age, but by the need they have to learn about themselves. I am looking for a young (or young at heart) girl that would like to explore their needs with a Mentor. At the same time, I would like to learn more about myself. I realize and understand that some young girls are "creeped out" by an older man, and if my age is a problem, simply let me know and I will go on my way. I am not necessarily looking for a monogamous relationship at this time, but I find that I need to have a certain amount of closeness and familiarity before I feel comfortable stepping into the role of a Dom. I would like to make sure that the relationship is a stable one first, and if it's meant to be, it will be. While a traditional relationship would be nice, I wouldn't mind simply sharing that special part of my day or week with somebody, and then going our separate ways back to our "vanilla" lives, until the next time..... It would also just be nice to have a friend to talk to about our "special needs", as a lot of people just don't understand them.
From a sexual standpoint, I'm a slow and careful lover, but can be forcefull at times. I find that I don't need whips and chains, but ropes and spanking are another story! I'm extremely adventuresome in bed, but I do have some limits, and I will respect yours.
I find petite women very sexy, but Reubenesque is also a turn on for me. I'm a total sucker for "Nerd Girls", and I have an odd attraction for women that are taller than I am, although I am not necessarily seeking a tall girl. Unfortunately, I'm not sexually attracted to the BBW type. As I said above, I'm attracted to younger women (but then, when you're my age, most of you are younger than I am!).
Personally, I have a job that takes up a lot of my time, so I like to use my free time well. I enjoy riding my bicycle, hunting for treasure at flea markets and thrift shops, and a good Chinese Buffet! I'm physically active, but not a fanatic. I like SciFi movies, as well as typical guy movies, but I'm somewhat embarrassed to admit that one of my favorites is "The Princess Bride", I like to read, and may be into several books at the same time. I've been a photographer, and I'd like to get back into it one of these days. While it may not show while reading this, I have a pretty weird sense of humor, and I'm extremely politically incorrect.
I know that the women here get many (dozens, hundreds, shitloads, boatloads) of e-mails, so I would appreciate it if you see this profile and would like to talk to me, please message me. It would be nice to be YOUR choice (that doesn't sound very Dom, does it?). I'll respond to all messages. I'm available on Skype, MSN and Yahoo if you'd like a safe first meeting, but texting just doesn't give either of us the real picture (that's what cams are for!). I don't want or expect sex, just to get to know you. As I said, if the relationship is going to work, it will.
MrM
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Entry 2 October 6, 2012
Things are quiet but picking up. I'm going to talk to a few of the girls that have been looking at my profile. There are 11 so far. This site is real good about letting you know who's looking at you. I also think the search function is great. I haven't spent a lot of time in the chat rooms, but I'll start to explore those soon.
Anyway, I've messaged a few of you, and while I can see that you've read them, there has been no reply. I guess the ladies are used to being bombarded because like all sites, there seems to be more men than women on them. I think what I'll do is visit profiles, and let that person get back to me once they've seen that I have at least a little interest. I'm not going to waste my time chasing after profiles.
If you'd like to talk, Message me!
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Date: 10/1/12 Entry 1
This is my first Journal entry. I guess I'll do a diary of how I do here on COLLARME.COM. I'm not exactly sure how to describe myself. About the closest thing is a Daddy Dom, but I'm not really a Dom. I don't feel the need to control anybody, have them call me Master. or calling my partners slave, bitch, whore, etc. I do like submissive women, and I thing the act of submission is extremely erotic. The though of someone giving themselves to me is very arousing to me. I'm not into young girls necessarily, but definitely those that are young at heart. I like helping people figure out what to do, where to go, how to develop, both in my (our, their) various perversions, kinks and plans. As far as the kinds of women I am attracted to, well there are many areas, and some are very different. First of all, I like young women. When you're my age, young is 35, but I find very young girls, 19-22 very attractive. But it's not about the age, it's about how you manage life. I like petite girls, but I also understand that as we age, petite is just a memory, but it is possible to be fit your your age. Sorry girls, but I just can't get into BBW. Basically, big girls just don't do it for me, but Reubenesque....there I am contradicting myself. For some reason, women taller than me turn me on. I guess we're all the same size lying down, but there's just so much more of you.... I like geek girls, artistic girls, those who think different, special, or who may be misunderstood. I don't like need women, clingy women, or those who can't appreciate an open relationship. I want a friend first, then a kinkster.
I hope you like what you see here. Please comment and I'll respond in the Journal. I look forward to meeting as many of you as I can.
Thanks, MrM |
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