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My profile photo was taken over ten years ago (on my way to the 2001 Skin Two Rubber Ball)...I look a bit older now! I've got a couple of more recent photos on here, so you see the effect of having two children and renovating an old farmhouse. I still think the profile photo sums up best who I am!
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I live with my two boys (8 and 5), my wife and her male companion. This is not, strictly speaking, polyamory, as I do not have a sexual relationship with either my wife or her companion. My wife and I met at a Fetish club in Paris, but somehow that auspicious beginning didn't translate into a long-term, satisfying sexual relationship. We are, however, good friends.
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I live in Ardeche in France. Half-way up a mountain in the middle of nowhere. I've added a photo of the hamlet where I live...as a teaser. I can accommodate and I'm prepared to travel. I'm not too interested in one-off hook-ups. I figure if it is worth going there once, I'll want to go there again. I'm increasingly drawn to the poly lifestyle, but what that will mean for me in practice is far from clear for the moment. In the meantime, I'm looking for play partners and/or shibari rope subjects - for me to practice what I'm learning at the Sunday Rope Workshops I'm doing in Lyon.
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My attitude to BDSM is that there are a load of things I get off on and I've done a lot of them over the years, but the single most important thing, the real motivation behind it all, is to have a partner say at the end of a scene: OMG that was fucking fantastic!
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I've been surprised myself, how my enthusiasm for 'doing' something I generally like, wanes if I sense that my bottom isn't into it. It just isn't exciting anymore. And contrariwise, I've got into things that partners have wanted, just on the back of their excitement. I love the creative aspect of it - I like telling stories, creating imaginary worlds...taking people just a little bit further than they think they will want to go and having them thrilled by the experience.
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If you read this far and you're interested in knowing more, please say Hello.
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