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sweetlilslaveNJ
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subMiko
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I have absolutely NO interest in anyone who was EVER, a male! With that said....
No longer seeking a poly household as I have found what I seek. We however are interested in FEMALE play partners, as my pets are seasoned switches :)
I am naturally Dominant and controlling. I tried to smooth this out and be like everyone else, but like most things not done as one true self, it just didn't work out. So finding a woman of like mind has lead me to this site. If you are looking for the typical "lifestyler" though, I am not him. I find a lot were the little punks who couldn't get girls in High school and are attempting to bully their poor broken egos into repair. In some cases they seem to simply be insecure men choosing a position they feel is secure. I love women. I simply feel there is a hierarchy in life and am this way both in and outside of the bedroom. I have no real need for ropes when it comes to correction and the like. Most times I use them when I am in a sadistic mood. Otherwise I think of them as more of a crutch. If I tell you to sit a certain way, or do a certain thing, you should be able to hold said position. Were I to do the same to an animal IT would, and you pet will need to be smarter than an animal, or in the least as obedient! There will be times though when I just feel like having some fun and watching you squirm, or simply don't feel like being bothered with you. After all variety is the spice of life, no? I feel that if I need rope to hold you constantly, then you aren't mine are you? As to the other props, whips, paddles, riding crops etc, I tend to replace them with my hands and belts. Although this is more because I simply haven't found need to go shopping for said items.... yet.
I am looking for an attractive sexy, and even sultry woman. Race and age are of no issue, just as long as you aren't 19, or 60 in which case your brand of sexy may have expired in my world, or need some refining. If you are thick, that is fine, but if you are are sloppily out of shape, then I am not the one for you... There are those who like that, although in most instances because they get off on degradation. I am not one. If you don't have a picture up, you are most likely not for me either. Unless your job is super sensitive there is no need to hide who you are, and if you are still too ashamed to put a picture up, then guess what? You aren't ready, remember I said I am this way in and out of the bedroom. Besides, if your colleagues are on here; They are in the same boat! Now you have something to talk about at the water cooler. lol
Although the spirit of this profile is a stern one, I do enjoy fun, laughter, and joy. The spirit in which this was written is more to depict the person you will see were you to cross the line. I understand and respect those who toe it, and have even enjoyed such a woman, but in the end what I say goes. As I said I have a deep love for the fairer of the species, and as such have no desire to break your spirit, only to correct you should you veer from the path. My intensity however will match the infraction.
If you are a man or couple, move on as well. I find nothing attractive about the male of my species, even less so when they are bitches.
Well there you have it. If parts of you are throbbing and your heart is beating hard enough that you hear it, you are in the right place.
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wow.. almost a year to the day since I have posted. I was thinking today about an interaction I had recently and it occurred to me that I may very well have reversed my stance on something. I used to read the profiles where the sub would rant about how some dominant had conversed with them, and had expected them to act a certain way JUST because they were submissive. I totally agree that submission being a gift it should and can not be given lightly. Fast forward to today. I was conversing with a sub, and asked a basic "get to know you" question only to have her respond with a question and confer her conclusion that I would not be interested in the answer. I still believe that submission is a gift and that one can not start at the proverbial finish line. However I find it funny that subs on one level come hat in hand (capitalize all first letters of words pertaining to the dominant, and use the word sir), and yet on the other hand defiantly state that they are not your subservient when the question or tone is uncomfortable. Only further goes to prove my feelings on being called Sir by those who have yet to earn the right to. |
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Gotta love this site. Everyone LIVING the lifestyle 24/7, and yet few have an iota of common decency. To rule OR follow requires some level of respectability. Whether it be a one night thing, or an enduring connection... |
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It amazes me when people claim they are ready to serve, want to submit, and yet when presented with a simple task like filling out a questionnaire... they balk. Seriously if you don't have the time to answer 30 or so questions regarding your D/s experiences etc, then how do you expect to cover others demands? Plus, at least to me, it shows how serious you are. The fact that you would trust someone with your care and welfare without them knowing a bit about you.... Well the word stupid although I hate using it, does come to mind... |
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Update..... a paddle, a cat o nine, and some restraints have been added to my arsenal. |
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Daddy/little girl does not refer to the ages, real or pretend, of the participants. Nor does it imply closet desires. It refers to the environment that two people have created. A Daddy Dom is so named because of the qualities he possesses and the service he provides. So, what are these qualities? What is a Daddy Dom? A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to be able to provide for your every need and care. But more than that he wants to be able to shape and mold you to the image he thinks you should become. He sees in you someone who, in his mind, can achieve a much higher, much greater status. He believes more in you than you believe in yourself. What he wants in return is to be able to bask in his image of you, the image he has created. How does he achieve his goals? Through love, respect, and discipline. His love for his little girl goes without saying. He accepts every part of her and works to emphasize the good while improving the bad. He loves her as much for who she is as for who she will become with his guidance. It is this love that allows him to train her. He could not invest so much of himself in someone he did not love completely. This love would not be possible without respect. A Daddy Dom needs to feel great pride in his possession. He needs to know she can hold her own in the outside world and still submit to him. He holds the greatest respect for the gift she has given him and takes great pains to increase it's value. It is extremely important to him to know she can be with any man and she chooses to be with him. He knows that this makes discipline a priority in their lives, more important than in some other D/s relationships. In order for the little girl to really trust she must know he means what he says. He must constantly deepen her respect for him. If he does not enforce discipline, this respect becomes a tenuous thing. If his submissive finds that she can manipulate him out of punishing her, she begins to lose respect and the ability to empower becomes impeded. He needs to empower her as much as he wants to possess her and it becomes increasingly difficult to be possessed by someone you do not respect. The discipline is also important when it comes to her protection, both from those outside the relationship and those within. He is the one who makes the decisions about how she will relate to the world in general and his discipline ensures that she follows these rules. I think most Doms have a bit of the Daddy in them, taking on the role of male authority figure in their submissive's life and using their power to enrich that life. Daddy/little girl verbalizes that feeling, and adds a dimension of warmth, caring, and ritual that it's participants crave.
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Cyberchat Voyeur....
Sometimes known as the picturless profile. It never fails. I get an email from someone, with no picture up, we chat a bit, and I ask to see a picture (after all it is only fair I see who I am conversing with), and suddenly,,,,, silence. They are all too ready to ask for an IM address though. lmao The common theme being they always want the details of what you did with someone else. I think for the most part this is one of those idiocies that men do though because the subject seems to continually involve anal, and oral penetration and hardly ever vaginal. |
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Not being a true member of the "lifestyle" I am often confused by some of the things I read. Today I came across a profile where the first line stated that she was not allowed to be contacted without the express permission of someone who was CONSIDERING her submission. ????? I am reminded of when I walk my dog off leash and people look at me funny. They ask if I am afraid she will attack someone, or run a muck. My answer is that she is MY dog, and as such I am able to control her whether there be a leash involved or not. It seems very insecure to me to not allow someone to converse with another. I mean IF she is yours, what can her having words with me possibly do to change that? Are we Doms or pimps?
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I am SOOOOOOO fucking bored!!!
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So many people play games that we often shun the real thing when it is right in front of us.
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It is interesting how people beat around the bush rather than just telling the truth. Of course I know what you mean, and or are getting at, but if you don't have the guts to say it I will just ignore it until you do.
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| Age: 45 |
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