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Hetero Male Dominant, 40,  Tualatin, Oregon
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Nice to see that you've stopped in to check out my profile. Drop me a note when you are done! I am looking for a smart, even ambitious, lady that is generally independent, has your act together and has is always working towards a couple of long range goals. However, she still has strong submissive tenancies in the bedroom or at other appropriate times outside of the bedroom. This is not a contradiction in her, just he way she is wire and wants to find that similarly driven guy to complement her. Her needs, emotions, and appetites. I value brains or bra size but she shall be fit, non-smoker, clean, and a bias to keeping active -OR- willing to be trained in a few of these areas. ;) I may like to push her limits from time to time. Into most of the 'main-line' bdsm area and am interested in exploring a bit more with the right partner. -Lee












 Dominant Male



 5' 11"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples


Online Romance

 Lives For:

 Travel (Expert)


 Being Massaged

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Control



 Blindfolding you

 Breast Play

 You wearing my collar


 Housework Service

 Placing you on a leash

 Masks on Partner

 Selecting the clothes you wear


 Role Playing

 Sensory Play


 Spanking you

 You wearing stockings



 Wax Play






 Bird Watching


 Fine Dining

 Going to the Opera



 Musical Theater



 Body Worship

 Canes and Crops (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)

 Corner Time



 Domestic Service


 Hair Pulling


 Masks (Wearing)

 Massage (Giving)

 Obedience Training


 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Speech Restrictions




 Amusement Parks

 Art Galleries

 Coffee Shops


 Renaissance Faires



 Rear End Play (Beginner)

 Foot Worship

 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage


 Curious About:

 Cages (Beginner)

 Electrical Play (Beginner)

 Enemas (Beginner)

 Eye Contact Restrictions (Beginner)

 Erotic Hypnosis

 Erotic touch


 Medical fetish play

 Modern Primitivism


 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Public Play

 Rubber Fetish


 Suspension Bondage

 Vacuum Stimulation


 Bar Hopping




 Antique Shows

 Flea Markets


 Hard Limits:

 Garage Sales

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Journal Entries:
11/6/2013 9:49:19 PM

"BDSM is an exhilarating emotional, intellectual and sensual game for grown-ups. It grants the thrill of exploration and challenges fears and assumptions. It is to be played by self-aware, loving, respectful and enthusiastic."


- from a profile I was reading and could very much identify with.  

12/22/2011 9:35:20 PM

I don't expect a perfect fairytail, nor to I desire a chick from hell.  

2/10/2011 9:37:06 PM

...and He whispered to Me in the darkness as We lay Together, "Tell Me where to Touch You so that I can drive You insane... Tell Me where to Touch You to give You ultimate pleasure... Tell Me where to Touch You so that We will Truly Own Each Other" and I kissed Him softly and whispered back "Touch My Mind."


When shall we meet so that I can look deeply into your eyes and stare out journey together?



2/9/2011 9:45:12 PM

Visit heaven for the climate.

Visit hell for the company.


-Mark Twain

11/3/2010 5:43:30 AM

Up way to early and can't get back to sleep. Perhaps it's just election, that's not it...

9/28/2010 7:29:15 PM
Just checking out some of the profiles tonight.  Some are quite interesting... too bad most are so very far away!

6/27/2010 10:09:58 PM
I have my cock ring on and just enjoying a little me time tonight! 

1/29/2010 10:16:53 AM
A day off from work!  Time to go up to the mountains and play in the snow!  See you there!!

12/29/2009 9:48:34 PM
If the Cerebral Stimuli is set the correct resonance, you will never need that vibrator again.

Of course, just because you don't need it, that doesn't mean I may not decided to tease you with it from time to time. 

12/15/2009 7:37:43 PM
Stocking Stuffer Idea- a 2-inch wide, high quality, satin texture, paint brush.  All you need to add are some soft, exposed, and lovely areas of female anatomy. Restraints are optional but highly recommend!

11/2/2009 11:03:02 AM
Its is 3AM in the morning.  After 23-hours of travel and have just made to the hotel in JB, Malaysia. 

75F and 95% humidity.  Let the work, and fun, start after a 3-hour nap!

10/21/2009 7:05:21 PM
Being set to SE Asia for 5 weeks for a work-related activity.  Hope it goes fast!

There is nothing like 24-hours of travel to get some place.  However, when I think of the people spending months at see just two hundred years ago, I should not complain too much!

10/18/2009 9:18:34 PM
It is Sunday night and I am reading about Maxwell's Equations - for fun and personal growth.   Am I in the right place?


9/28/2009 9:16:11 PM
Describe your eyes to me- in great detail.  Complete sentences.  If you fall short of at least 500 words you may not have an imagination capable of keeping up with me.


9/25/2009 7:00:47 PM
"Beauty without intelligence is like a Masterpiece painted on a napkin"  - unknown (but recently quote here on CM by another individual)

I recently saw this.  It sums up a lot of my feelings and attitudes toward beauty and good looks w/o anything to back it up.  Once, for a very short time, I went out with one of the most beautiful woman I had ever encountered.  We kissed a couple of time but I had so little interest in her mind, soul, or personality it never went further.  She was a dumb and an uninformed of the world around her as an empty tuna can.  I could not tolerate it.   I wonder what became of her?


9/19/2009 5:13:46 AM
As I looked into your bright, sexy eyes, the very windows to your soul.  I could not help but wonder, do I feel more like cotton, hemp, or silk rope tonight?


5/28/2009 9:33:23 PM
As a former U.S. Army Drill Sgt. I believe in exercise.  Last year I helped a delightful sub achieve her goal of 100 push-up and 200 squats.  I found it quite rewarding to chart her progress as well as provide the appropriate level of coaching, support, and disciple for her to reach her goal.

Last weekend she competed, and did quite well, in her first Triathlon.


4/23/2009 8:00:28 PM
I find that toys other accessories can add quite a bit of spice to an otherwise ho-hum sex-life.  However, they can be over-used.  What, in your opinion, are the most over-used toys or accessories.  While we are on the topic underused?

4/21/2009 10:10:23 PM
In support of Earth Day, I think all subs should only be allowed to take cold showers on Wed. 22-April. 


6/13/2008 7:44:11 PM
We finally meet on a Friday night.  Perhaps we start off with dinner in an out of the way restaurant downtown.  As we wait for our drinks I have you fill out a questionnaire on areas that you are interested in, have experience in, an one or two items that you fill are off limits.  The last line is for your code word- to be used only as a last resort.  If you say it everything stops- however you are also sent home.  When you are done, I fold it up and put it in my shirt pocket without so much as glancing at it.  Did it mean anything?

After dinner we may go out to a summer concert, a walk on the water front.  Just something a little social to get to know each other a bit more.   Late in the evening I finally inform you that it is time to go.  You have choice to leave know, or spend the rest of the weekend with me, under my control, supervision, training, and pleasure.  You decide to come.  You know it will be a long time before you have a better offer.

Once home, I have you strip down.  My place, is nice, clean, and you will come to know each of its rooms quite well over the next few days and night.  Silk cuffs are put on your wrists in ankles.   We start out with just some fun games.  A little bondage, a little spanking, a lot of flirting.  Around 1 o'clock I inform you that I will be going to bed.  I have other plans for you.

I have you drink several cups of strong tea.  I then take up to my room.  I have bar that hangs down from the ceiling- about 7-ft off the ground.   Your wrists are tied to it.  On each ear I place a truckers wake-up alarm.  If you head stops moving, or dips down like you are falling asleep an alarm will go off in your ear waking you up.   You will not be allowed to sleep tonight.  I find my new trainees learn better when they really have to concentrate.

I warn you not to wake me while you are watching over me tonight.  It is difficult but somehow you manage to stay away all night long.  The spanking I gave you at 4:30 AM for making noise seemed to fire you up a little.

Now it is time to get into the shower and shower me.  It will be a very long day!

I first explain to you that it will be your responsibly to set my cloths for the day out, wake me, and then shower me.  In the shower you will wash and shave me.  There will be a sever penalty for any nicks and cuts after the day or so.  I'll show you how to shave me once.  Of course you will make your body available to me, should I feel a little frisky in the morning.  However, as much as I push you, you are not allow me to cum. 

When I am done with my shower I'll step out and dry off while you take yours.  You will not be allowed to use hot water.  That is only for special days when you have been very good and feel you deserve a reward.  It will take a few times, but you will get used to it.  It will make you mentally stronger knowing you can take it.  You are also required to wash every bit of your body- I want you clean enough so I can touch, kiss, or taste any part of your body. 

By the time you get out I've dried off, dressed, and handed you your towel.  Your eyes to not meet mine as you take.  I know what you are thinking 'what have I gotten myself into??'.  I smile inwardly and don't do anything to relieve your anxiety just yet.  It is time for me to show you your breakfast duties.

But first I pick out your first outfit for the day.  I think a pretty, colorful skirt and top.  Perhaps semi-see through so I can admire your curves over breakfast.  A matching color and some ribbons in your hair too.  You look quite stunning and pleasing to look at. 

At breakfast I have you set the table on the patio since it is a nice sunny morning.  I like a simple breakfast.  Juice, cereal, some fruit.  I have you sit beside me so that I can rub your knees under the table as I scan through the newspaper.  Which you did not ever consider getting from the front porch.  As you bend over the table and lift your skirt I slip off my belt.  Since you are new to my expectations I take it easy on your soft and round bottom.  But I also know that if I don't take these little breaches of conduct seriously you will be slow to learn.  I start with 20 lashes with my belt.  Just enough to start to bring out a little color.

5/26/2008 8:19:07 PM
Looking for a study partner.  Interested?

4/2/2008 9:29:38 PM
While not quite a mainline Dom/sub item here is an item I would like to share has a possible ice-breaker, first meet.

We get together, perhaps earlier in the day for brunch or early lunch.  Some good conversation, a little flirting... Then I take you to one of the local malls before it gets too crowded.  I would take you from store to store and have you try one various outfits for me.  Sexy skirts, evening gowns, coresets, shoes, business attire, school girl outfits, etc. 

Just some good flirtations fun, while pushing your bounds a little in a,safe, public setting.   If I sense you are a little more daring I make take you to a few places dealing with outfits of a more erotic nature. 

For those in the PDX area, what places would you suggest taking a fresh sub to?

-Mr Lee

3/27/2008 9:56:26 PM
Sometimes a sub needs a little TLC .

You came home from work after a very hard week.  Then you got stuck in traffic for over an hour.  By the time you got home you were cold, tired, and needing a little TLC.  It is only fair, every once in a while.   After all, I make sure you expend a great deal of your energy and time taking care of me.

I greet you at the door with a hug.  Help you with your jacket.  Without saying a word I lead you into the bathroom.  There are candles on the counter and around the tub.  The orange/yellow light dancing off the mirrors and walls.  A smile crosses you lips as you see I have a hot soapy bubble waiting for you.

I undress you and slip you into the hot water.  It was a bit too hot at first, but you were in control of your senses and did not complain.  I left you for a few minutes to soak in its warmth.

By the time I return, the tension has left your body.  The hot water has reversed the flow of engergy from your body back into it.  I have a bottle of chilled wine- I like it a llittle cold and sweet from time to time as you well know.

I undress in front of you.  Then slip in behind you and pull you close.  Just that thin film of soapy water seperating our bodies.  I run my hands over you shoulders and down your arms.  I pour us each a glass of wine.  With my first sip, I reach around and kiss you on the lips.  Letting the cold wine flow between us.  I love how the flavor of the wine changes has iwarms up flowing back and forth between us.

Later I pull out a bar of soap and start going over your body.  Careful to get all of those dirty hard to reach spots.  Spending a lot of time on your silky legs.  You firm, pink nipples.  Rubbing you clit under the water with one hand- using an ice cube from wine bucket in the other.  The hot and cold flashes make you squiren as you start to moan.  You know this would be over in a heart-beat if you allowed yourself to cum without permission.   But you do feel my 'manhood' pressing up between us.   Almost like a wedge.

After a while I wisper in your ear to turn around and fuck me.  You don't need to be told twice.  You turn facing me, you legs slip around my waste and you lower yourself on me.  I love the way you feel as I am entering you body.  A thought crosses you mind about the first time we made love.  I called you a wet, luke-warm, fish after your poor style and bad habbit of just laying there.

After years of training you've leard to just about read my mind how I want it, and what I expect of you and your effort and motivation level.

You know I want a slow and sensual build up tonight.  You slid down on me all the way and start to use your pussy muscles to massage my shaft.  You gently rub your clit into me and rock your hips in and out.  You press your nipples firmlty into my cest. The only time they are not making contact with me is when you are bending over to kiss, bite, and nibble on my nipples. 

With full open moth kisses your lips make love to mine.  Our tounges dance together.  I suck the breath out of you to the point that you start to get dizzy.  We keep going.  Just when you think you are getting too dizzy from lack of air and the hot water, to the point where you started to see black spots, I stand up with you still impaled on me.

I step out of the bath and push you onto the floor underme.  I push the rug out of the way so you are pressed on the very cold, and hard stone tiled floor.  Just you think I am about cum, I pull out of you and slide up your body.  I stick my cock in your mogth and start to fuck it like it was a high school cheerleader.  When I am done I send you into the room.

I've picked out your evening outfit.  The blue collar, nipple clamps, clit clip, and that sexy blue dress.  Now my TLC time begins!

-Mr Lee

3/24/2008 8:00:57 PM
I recenlty read a profile of one of the ladies (a deliciously sounding little slut engine by her profile) that took me back some 10 years ago. I thought I would share some of it with you here. It turns out it was a very pivotal 3-day relationship I had while on a business trip back East. 

We decided to meet after talking on one of those chat lines. During drinks she confessed that she really need to have sore nipples in order to cum. However, the men in her life had so far only pinched or bit them. I asked if she had tied bondage and spankings - she had not- but she was willing.

When she went back to her room I drove to a nearby adult-book store I had seen the day before. I purchased a single pair of fuzzy handcuffs. Once we meet I started with a little back rub. Then very gently, started to spank her ass with my black leather belt. I worked her up to a light pink, the started on her back. Once I had a feel for her pain threshold, I started on her breasts and nipples. Then her abdomen, and finally her now very wet pussy. I would not work any area too long. However, I rotated a bit to keep everything bright pink- sometimes stepping up the tempo and force until she was gasping.

I worked her smooth body over for nearly two hours before I had her masturbate in front of me. Then I had her saturate my balls in her sweet-salty honey. I had her then put my ball sack into her mouth with an ice cube and slowly suck me off.

The second and third nights- much like the first only longer, and harder- and I had picked up a length of rope.  I don't always like to include spakings and pain with my subs/slaves. But since that day there are times when it does make something inside me click.

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