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| I am one who has created a very nice "normal" life for myself. I have a very responsible and respected job and a nice vanilla life. However, I have a deviant, Dominant incrediblly sexual monster living inside. I have been in several D/s relationships over the past 20 plus years and this is the only way I can be truly sexually satisfyed. I have no need to control every aspect of your life, nor do I want to. I am also not looking for someone who is depedant or needs to be. I can have sex daily or several times a week, but my dominance is limited to that. In the rest of the relationship, I'm looking for a partner, a friend and a soul mate.
In the bedroom, I want you on your knees, humble, subserrvant, obedient. Ready to be trained, disciplined and used hard. I loose no respect for a woman who submits in the bedroom. Those who need to be abused, neglected and treated like dirt all the time, kept locked up in a cage (not that I'm opposed to the occasional cage) all the time, well I don't understand that.
Now, trust and honesty are key. I do not like safe words. It's a bit of an oxymoron to say "Yes Sir, I submit my body to you as my gift of submission, but oh, well if I say Rumpelstillskin, you have to stop." Huh? That's not submission at all it's nothing more that a kiinky sex game with rules...So how do you keep your partner ont he edge with our pushng her off? It's about the relationship. Trusting and getting to know her intimately. You can tell when your geting close to the edge. 60-93% of communication is non-verbal, so even when gagged, I good Master can tell his sub/slave is at the edge of her endurance.
So on honesty, I have just ended a long and arduous marriage and we have children. I'm open to another LTR, but you have to be willing to share me with my kids.
Finally, a word on pictures. Yes mutual attraction is necessary. I am far more fucused on attitude than appearance, but there must at least be a spark to get the fire started. So I have pictures and I will share them. I don't post them, because, well anything you put here is public and, while it hasn't happened to me, at least one poor mope I work with had his profile (from another of these sites) posted by the water cooler for all to see. I know, low blow, but it happened. So if your interested write me. we'll chat and we can exchange photos and see whare it goes.
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