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Looking for a female sub/slave in a long term relationship. Of course all of this takes time, and I understand there's many new to the scene, so I'll be gentle.
If you ever want to shoot me a message, about BDSM, about Hong Kong, about me, or really about anything, just ask. I'm friendly =)
Kink summary:
Early in my teenage years I already felt something was lacking in vanilla relationships. So since the start of college, all of my relationships have had a BDSM component and I've never looked back. That gives me 8 years of experience.
I'm quite a dominant person in both my dating and professional life. Being so dominant in a long term relationship requires good communication, so I'm trying to be upfront and honest here. My passion in life has always been beauty and the chase of it, so I'm very lucky that I work in a field where I get to do that.
In a relationship, that chase for beauty never really stops. If you're a girl trying to come out of her shell, I'll make you feel beautiful both in and out of clothes. I'll teach you how to own and appreciate your sexuality, for there's nothing quite as sexy in a girl. I'll expand your mind to new knowledge and new worlds. And it'll be a hell of a ride, of which we will have many beautiful memories of. Hand me the keys to your mind, body and soul, and I'll make you bloom.
You don't have to be experienced, your enthusiasm and devotion is more important.
Kink wise, I love breast play, humiliation, public play, bondage and restraints, whips, remote vibrators, face fucks (still haven't found a good sub that can take it yet), and gradual personality changes that "ruin" a woman to a cock hungry bimbo. I'm not afraid to take the time and break you down piece by piece. The scary part of it is that you will probably help plan it and revel in your own gradual but complete loss of shame. I don't need a stick or a fist to destroy your mind. My words will enthrall you already.
What I'm asking requires time, effort, and energy, and I'm not here to just take from you. I'll put in all the work to earn your trust and love. I will respect your hard boundaries. I will give you all the boyfriend perks of cuddles, kisses, support, affection, and love. I will buy you the roses before I ask to spank you in bed.
I'm in no rush. I'm looking for someone that will take me seriously and deserves my all.
Interested in learning rope techniques, meeting more people in the local scene, and making new friends.
Outside Kink:
I grew up all over the world, and traveled to a fair bit of it. I love photography, cultural exchanges, and good conversation paired with alcohol.
My friends mean a lot to me, and so when the party goes forever, I go forever. When they need me, whether its vomit or shoulder to cry, I'm the first to answer.
I write a bit of poetry and non-fiction, some of which has been published. My life is quite fast paced with a lot of fun mixed in, to which I will try very hard to include you in.
I speak Cantonese, Mandarin, and English.
On the side note: I like people with a good heart, a sense of humor, and high functioning intelligence coupled with a hedonistic live and let live approach to life.
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Haven't been on here for a while, partly due to relationship changes, and partly due to changes in the website.
I'm now looking for something a bit more long term. Singles ONLY please. |
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Over the past few months, my relationship with my slave has been excellent. There are of course ups and downs in a relationship, and certain factors influence our capabilities to express ourselves in methods that can be understood.
Love binds me to my slave. Yet logically speaking, it sounds exceedingly difficult, even illogical, to consider that by being voracious in a Dom's expression of desire, to hurt, prod, and break down our subs/slaves, we are in fact, trying to express our love.
In my opinion, the capacity to understand the written word is necessary for any potential master/dom. People think in words usually, stories, memories, are expressed, and put together in our minds, by associations of objects, events, places, and people... things that, only words can describe in great detail. Thus, it is my belief that only in understanding the thought process of one own's mind as well as your partner (may it be a dom/owner/sub/slave), that BDSM relationships can create the dialog of power play.
Hopefully I can find someone to discuss more about the strengths of the written word. |
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Many have asked me why Financial Domination is so important to many Doms (Dommes)/Masters. As a Master, this is why:
1. Financial control is a very true test of slavery. It shows the utmost sign of true slave dedication that is unhesitant, and is at a level of trust that would by far exceed most relationships. Masters will use this to test slaves ability to endure true slavery. Masters will also use it to find the reasoning as to why slave desires to be a slave. And Finally, Master's want to gain from their Slaves. If this does not seem to be "okay" with you as a slave, then you're not really a slave. I'm sorry if I insult you, but a slave is exactly that, a slave. There is nothing more to them that they should have, and the only practical form of bond they have with the real world is their Master/Owner/Dom, not any materialistic connection or whatever.
2. It is up to Masters to set reasonable guidelines as to how to minimize slave's property, whilst fulfilling the duty of being a Master:
- These include certain exceptions to the use of finances. A master may be hit by a car, fallen off a cliff, when a slave survives the loss of his/her Master. Master's need to setup some form of protection for their slaves.
- Slaves have realistic shackles that limit them to approach slavery with reckless abandon. Some of these may be certain issues such as sick family members, alimony from previous relationship, or may be looking for slavery to only a part of their life, rather than the whole duration of it. Investing into your slave and letting them let go of their past and focus on their present desire to please you might yield better results.
- There is no such thing as a "no limit" slave. No master would tell their slave to shoot themselves and cut all of their limbs off and throw themselves into a slow cutting meat grinder so their Master can eat them for dinner. As such, slave relationships are focused on two apexes. Mutual desire, and consenting to lose the right to decide. As such, if these apexes break down, as desires are not mutually casts and through consensual non consent, the slave may leave. And since it was the Master's job to take care of the slave, a reasonable severance package (at tops... 5,000-10,000) so that they don't just starve and die on the streets after they leave or the master throws them out.
3. Focus. Slaves need to think about being slaves. Not about how their finances are doing (unless otherwise instructed).
4. Emphasis on non materialistic bonding and rapport. Without money, slave's look much more seriously at their Doms and Masters, as they are life support. The bonding intensifies extremely.
Hope this answers some questions. |
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My slave is coming along.
My time to spend on dominating her is little, but I have given her many assignments.
I hope she does well and can truly earn my love as a good slave.
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After building an empty profile for a year, I'm finally trying to use CM to find someone real. |
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| Age: 26 |
| Denver,
Colorado |
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