Minx here.... I find it interesting that women who claim they are sub's and are looking for a Dominant do not answer direct questions pertaining to getting to know them and just what they are looking for. Just because you have made a list of limits & purposed fetishes really does not give one an insight of that person is all about. When you are perspective submissive and the Dominant is asking you specific questions to get to know you better, your wants, needs, etc.; that go continually ignored why should the Dominant take any more time with that person. I would imagine He may think He is wasting His time. So perspective submissive's take note... If you are truly interested in finding a Dominant and your are asked specific questions so that said Dominant may get to know you better (because any good Dominant will)...ANSWER THEM. Do not continue to avoid the questions and stir the direction to a sexual nature. If the Dominant is taking the time to get to know you then have some respect and either let them know that you are just interested in the sexual aspect of it not the mental emotional part so that they know where you are at. Besides if you are a submissive, looking to submit and you are unable to follow some simple directions or communicate answers to the questions then what is saying to the Dominant as well. Just some musings.... |