Seeking a submissive
Although my handle/nickname may come across "extreme "
I also like to spank, paddle, slipper and use a hair brush on the buttocks.
I was raised in a rather buttoned-hole...stiff collar.... high starch smart service family.
Where sex was never mentioned, so I became rather a non-sexual person.
I discovered the SM scene in Germany when I was serving in the army....
A mix of vanilla and kinky fun would be ideal.
I am very understanding , educated, would consider to wine and dine on the first meeting with-out play.
Or just meet for a coffee or afternoon tea somewhere !
I would be happy to socialize with you on the BDSM scene.
Attend low key local munches
Or just play in private.... or what ..... ever suits you..
Please note- I have had requests for 24/7 slavery !!
This is very demanding for both dominant/submissive and from experience, it just does not work long term.
Would you be willing to wear a collar 24/7 ?
Even to work ?
Ok.....
For the person who contacted me who mentioned a collar was worn to work for her-Master for a long period of time .
I must admit I am very impressed .... so well done !!!!!
Thank you for your time sending me the message .....
I am so pleased for you.
I stand corrected....lol
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Although I am interested in a 24/7 relationship .....
I am also interested in a relationship that involves BDSM play Not to put any genuine person off....
Please read the.. "story of O " may be of interest to you.
I like the idea of "submission" for what ever length of time, so if 24/7 suits you let me know your thoughts ?
Also have you tried "objectification" long term role-playing games.........with consistent actions........?
My assertiveness is based on common sense.. My Philosophy
Never hurt more than necessary and "create experiences you both want to create"
My preference is hand warm up or light paddle or cane,.....mm
With most increasing and varied intensity while I use appropriate tools.
Continuing until we both receive the pleasure we seek !
Have Fun !!!!!
6/24/2014 6:29:10 AM
Due to my active BDSM social life and event calender.....
I will not reply to any more male.....messages......
1/7/2014 3:01:54 PM
Due to recent media coverage on live-in slaves......captives
I will not respond to any requests.....
I just, feel people on this site do not understand the real meaning of a bdsm slave !
Test me .......if you wish ?
Have fun......
I am...........lol
10/20/2013 9:20:11 AM
Just signed in from a long absence
Same old faces.......lol
2/2/2013 7:56:28 AM
If you read my profile and do not understand it please send me a message.
5/8/2011 5:47:17 AM
I dont come on to this site all that often..
I only do when I am bored....
Thank "goodness " I am not bored all that often...
Have Fun
3/29/2009 9:07:12 AM
Why is there so much resistance to temptation on the internet ?
12/10/2008 2:52:54 PM
I find it amusing reading profiles of female-subs which include the term door-mat ! As if you are going to go, from a profile on COLLARME.COM to a door-mat ? The BDSM scene /life-style is all about giving and taking ! Obviously very nervous about taking steps to this great life-style of trust and passion .
