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I am a loving dominant. Tall, fit and healthy I believe that the ultimate goal is the achievement of bliss through release and the exchange of pleasure. In my everyday life I am a genuine alpha male and, among other things, a well published writer. I seek a relationship based on mutual respect, love, affection, humour and pleasure. Pain is the spice in the mixture which enhances the pleasure and it is the subtle and constantly changing blending of the two which should underpin the sexual drive, along with mental control. These things begin and end in the head. Ultimately, I would like a full on LTR with the right person but this is hard enough in the vanilla world, and even tougher here. True Ds requires a high level of communication and mutual commitment and I do believe a true Ds relationship should be one to one. I am sane and emotionally sorted. A natural alpha male, I am not a bully, never shout or lose my temper - after all, if you cannot be in control of yourself how can you control someone else? I am single, divorced, three grown up kids, well read and intelligent and live a full and interesting life...there is just one thing missing...