you are just a spoiled bitch who thinks your shit dont stink and people show give you money or "tribute" hey if you wanna be a whore, feel free, but lets not mince words. you trade sexual services for money(even if no sex is involved its still erotic play) 

thats really a big one on here i come across alot. seriously makes me wonder why these women get into this. not that I want a domme, its just funny to read all the profiles and what people seem to think of themselves. 

I got into all of this a few years ago, I had some experiences that I found interesting and yet frustrating. The first experiences were really watching how my friend treated the women he dated. Not bad, just he was in charge, but it always seemed like a game they played, more than him being overbearing. It made some sense, and I knew that was what I wanted, unquestioned obedience(at least on some subjects) kinky sex, and control. Not in some negative way, again, its all sort of a game.

My friend would have women sleep with me, he is my friend after all, he would show me how to treat them and what he liked to do with them. All fine and good but, I have to say i failed to see the point in some of it, like putting her in a cage, or tying her up and leaving her there. So I knew there was a lot more to the lifestyle than what I was seeing, and was looking to expand my knowledge.

I dated, for a short time, a switch( I think she was anyway, she dommed her ex, and her current guy, so there you have it) we did thinks like choking, hair pulling, slapping, getting tied down. But I think she was more a domme and was less happy with that, but I just am not bowing down before a woman. Well as far as I know.

After that I started a short and fierce relationship with one of the most dynamic women I have ever met. She was a submissive, maybe a slave by this sites terminology. She was into hard anal, slapping choking and was willing to let me explore my darker side with her. It was enlightening and really the start of my understanding.

I am curious about this victorian household thing. Aside from my love of history, it seems like it might be what I want. Women "second class" to the men, a nice thumb sized cane for punishments, and me ruling with an iron fist. 

Reading what others are into has been enlightening as well. I was reading about a girl who wanted nothing more than to be dehumanized and turned into an object. That is sort of hot. I can see myself helping in with that.

I also have this thing, its a weird feeling i get when i think about this... I am turned on by beautiful women who want to either sacrifice that beauty to something, or to be made ugly in a sense. Let me clarify. The first time i noticed this was when watching the original nosferatu. i was turned on by the fact that mina was willing to be sucked dry and die in a horrible way. she just let it happen and went to her death looking forward to it. While i do not want something so extreme, I do like the idea of a woman looking forward to the pain, or humiliation. If you are familiar with dolcett, the ones i like the best are the ones where the women are stoked to be the one to get snuffed or what have you(again not that i am interested in that, i have just had some experience with the comics)