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| I'm looking for something new in a relationship. I'm tired of vanilla and looking to spice things up. That being said, I'm looking for something more than just strictly sex. I'm looking for someone I can be equals with, not necessarily controlling every aspect of their lives. Someone who challenges me and is independent. However, behind closed doors, is submissive and allows me to control the pace, lets me tease her, and begs for more before I give it to her. Basically, controlling every sensual aspect.
I do have a picture but for now on request.
I find a dom/sub relationship is way more intense in some ways than a "vanilla" relationship. Most of what's needed in a sub is to let go of their control and trust their partner. It's one of the hardest things a person can do. Trust is such a fragile thing and a must in that kind of relationship. Pain and punishment comes from a loving nature and not simply due to inflicting pain without reason. Pushing boundaries but, understanding when to pull back. Some people think it's all about what the guy wants and that is further from the truth.
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