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I am polyamorous. I am in a life-long committed relationship with a woman who is my best friend, and a man who is married. Together we form a tight knit pack. These two will go to hell and back for me, and I them. I am, how ever, searching for a primary of my own. I'm looking for a dominant male, disease and hard drug free, who is not intimidated by a submissive with a strong personality, but embraces her and helps her grow. I am heavily active in advocating and educating the BDSM community. If attending kink events, sharing, or being with a woman who holds her own is an issue, I'm afraid we won't work out, but thank you for reading this far. Not interested in any one more than 30 minutes from Richmond, Va. Do not mistake me for being naive because of my age, a doormat because I'm a submissive, or desperate because I am searching. I give the same amount of respect I receive. Please be able to carry on an articulate conversation about more than sex and bdsm if you are going to message me with the intent of exploring the possibility of a relationship. A calamity of contradictions. I am an age player, but my favorite indulgence is a nice cigar and a double of Jameson, neat. I'm an insatiable slut, but I don't allow most men to even enter my bedroom. Service oriented submissive that is extremely selfish. Clingy, but I need my space. A romani princess that loves the , but follows minimalistic ideals. Founder and assistant leader of the local TNG group, which caters to adults under the age of 35 who are interested and active in the fetish and kink community. That being said, I prefer older men. Ages 30-40 are my happy spot, but not a hard set line. I will do all manner of depraved, dirty, slutty, and shameful things to be your "good girl".

7/15/2013 10:19:14 PM Just some lessons I've learned from this 'lifestyle' : If you're having fun- you're doing it wrong. If you're mixing sex with bdsm- you're doing it wrong. If you don't use the word 'true'- you're doing it wrong. If you identify as more than one 'thing'- you're doing it wrong. If you don't remind the world how domly or submissive you are on atleast an hourly basis- you're doing it wrong. If you don't share pics and intimate details of every play session on - or atleast with 10 friends- you're doing it wrong. If it takes you more than two months to earn a collar- you're doing it wrong. If you skip your local munch to go and learn new skills or go to a play party- you're doing it wrong. If you pick your own relationships and friends- you're doing it wrong. If you don't support every douchebag comment made by someone popular- you're doing it wrong. If you have a social life outside of your scene friends- you're doing it wrong. If you have outside responsibilities and can't drop everything at the command of a random stranger at a moment's notice- you're doing it wrong. If you take everything light heartedly- you're doing it wrong. Conversely- if you have an intelligent observation to make and dare to share it- you're also doing it wrong. There are many more I could add here... And probably will. Moral of the story- no matter what you do- or don't- someone wil tell you you're doing it wrong. My advice- if it feels good- do it!