Profiles are a good start, but I am more than just an online page. I enjoy talking to people, and will reply to messages that are not spam, a sex proposition, or pictures of your penis. However, I am not interested in anything online or long distance.

I am married. I love him, and have a close and honest relationship with him. He is not a masochist, and understands my need to find someone who is. He will be introduced to anyone I choose to have a relationship with, but he will not be involved.

I returned to college after several years in the workplace to start a career. I like gaming of all kinds, especially diceless RP and collective storytelling. I like trying things that I'm scared of. I tend to be a bit of a homebody, and don't like to go out alone.

I am looking for someone who enjoys my company. I want to be able to go out to dinner and hang out with them outside of play. This is especially important, becuase I am not looking for sex.

Yes, orgasms sometimes happen during intense play, and kink is often a sexual experience for the parties involved. That being said, I do not want directly sexual activities.

I want to hurt people. I want someone that is looking to explore their limits. I want to develop the kind of trust where they can let go and just feel and experience the moment. Play for me is about both parties ultimately getting their needs met.

Gender and overall appearance matter less than personality and compatibility. I will send or exchange pictures only with people I intend to meet.

S.