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MostlyVanilla

I have been on and off this site for a few years now, and I figured I'd give it one more shot. I've figured out a lot about myself, so I believe I really know what I want. I'm not sure if its out there - or on here - but, I'm willing to give it a shot. First and foremost, I am a chubby girl (on the smaller side of BBW) - so if you aren't into bigger girls, don't bother. I'm always striving to improve myself and consistently work towards getting to a healthier weight, but I'm still a good person and fun to be around. Second, I'm mostly vanilla. That's not to say that I don't desire kink - because I definitely do. I can be extremely submissive to the right man, but I'm certainly not submissive to just any Dom. I appreciate my vanilla life very much and place a lot of emphasis on my career and my family. I am single. I have no children. And I'm ultimately looking for a long-term relationship. I am open to meeting just friends, and even possibly casual play. But I need someone who can understand and respect my desire to maintain a mainly vanilla lifestyle, keeping one foot in the kink world. Earlier in my 20s, I was much more heavily into this lifestyle. I was actively involved in a local fetish community and had D/s relationships. During this time, I gathered quite a lot of experience - some good, some not so good. It really helped me hone in on my true likes and dislikes when it comes to fetish play. Some of my fetishes include: anal, fisting, light breath play, light bondage, some impact play, Daddy/little girl dynamic(to an extent), and having toys used on me. Hopefully there are some guys on here that fit with my personality. I welcome you to send me a message so we can start some conversation.
ladysamantha69
 
 Age: 30
 LA, California