Any guy who wants to be part of my world has to understand that I control it. I don't need a man. I can and do get along just fine on my own. I don't need anyone to take care of me. He must also understand that if he wants to have sex with me, he has to earn it. I don't follow the "3 date rule" or any other arbitrary rule. I won't have sex with someone just because they want to. If/when I'm in a relationship with someone, we have sex when I decide it's time, and not before that. |