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I feel submitting to a woman is one of the greatest experiences in life. Looking dreamily into the eyes of a lady who as taken me to subspace. I love to be pushed to the edge of pain and pleasure, where the two blur. To kneel before a woman place myself in her hands, where her pleasure matters most.

Well, thats all very nice, but why should you give me a chance? I have a great sense of humor. I can carry on an intelligent conversation that is not session related. I have some very different interests. Among them, beekeeping. I have a great imagination. And more than anything else, I'm a nice guy. I'm not insecure. I'm not in therapy or needing therapy. I admire women. I would like to find someone special who wants to have a friend as well as a play toy.

I'm not in to being degraded. I'm into submitting. The difference is that I do so with respect for you, but seeking respect in return. I won't pressure you. I won't make demands upon you.
And after reading a few of the profiles, while I don't want to be disrespectful, I'm not a wallet with balls. I also have a brain. I am not going to give you wads of money to tell me I'm a loser. I'm not and for gods sake, have some respect for yourself and your subs. Thats not to say I'm not generous ith those who become friends and with whom I develop a long term friendship with. I'm tall, fit and reasonably good looking.

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5/27/2017 1:51:18 PM
I'm finding that most women I encounter, who have a flair towards the dark arts, tend to be on the submissive side.  The women I run into, flirt with and hint they have an interest in BDSM all seem to want to be dominated.  But the reality of being dominated and their dreams can be a world apart.  Most want to be restrained and ravished.  Surrendering to a lovng, controlling partner who intuitively know what they want.  Nice in theory, but in practice, there are few men that will give them what they want.  Their fantasies divirge quickly .  I really recommend they take it slowly.  I've swtiched a few times and its fun.  As a sub, I prefer to please a woman.  I can try to get into their head as to what they want and fulfill their fantasy.  Afterall, if a Domme commanded me to make love to her, however she wished, wouldn't it be the same thing.  She surrenders control as her decision.  So I can still staisfy my fantisies to a degree.  Funny how the paradigm shifts.  Enjoy your Memorial Day.

3/25/2017 5:39:08 AM
I still can't edit my profile.  But they say change comes from within!  I'm probably too opinionated.  I think that one of the barriers to people meeting and developing meaningful relationships here, is intimidation.  A profile that you want to come across as stern, may be interpreted as scary.  When you put yourself out for others to see, do you want to be seen only as a fierce, man destroying Valkyrie?  Let some of your personality shine through.  You're human too.  You have a sense of humor.  You have a life outside of the dark fringes of the BDSM community.  Show you're a real person.  Its just my opinion.  I'm not one to tell you who to be.  Be true to yourself.

10/25/2016 6:48:41 PM
I appear to have a couple of typos in my profile and I can't edit my profile.  Please over look the obvious.

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Thornslust
 
 Age: 37
 Toronto, Canada