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Friendly, intelligent, honest single male switch - with eclectic vanilla and kink interests - seeks a switchable, Dominant or submissive woman interested in exploring either the possibility of creating a friendship that includes kinky play or a very special life partner type of relationship. The former might or might not include sex while the later should. (wink)
I am a true switch - someone who genuinely enjoys - and is comfortable with - both sides of the power exchange equation. Needless to say, if you are strictly Dominant or submissive, I will honor that.
I enjoy many different kinds of play and have been told that I am a highly sensual person - as well as someone who is a lot of fun to play with - from both sides of the flogger.
A compatible woman would - among many other things - understand that our biggest sex organ is not between our legs but between our ears.
Furthermore, regardless of her orientation, she would undoubtedly want both of us to approach each other as equals, able to communicate what we both want and need, knowing that each of our respective needs are equally important in creating the particular kind of emotionally and intellectually rich and fulfilling friendship or relationship that we both seek.
Having done that, we will both be in a position to create a way of exchanging power that is completely unique to us - that satisfies each of us deeply - whether that be for a few hours or a lifetime.
At the present time, I am primarily looking to create friendships but remain open - and ultimately seek to create - an incredible, passionate, multi-dimensional relationship of singular love and emotional intimacy. I am open to both a monogamous as well as a polyamorous relationship - depending upon my partner's preferences in this area.
Needless to say, a full blown relationship requires a great degree of vanilla compatibility - both in shared interests, and even more importantly - in shared values.
The problem lies in finding everything - the kink and vanilla compatibility - in the same person. Nevertheless, I remain committed to that possibility and have no intention of settling for something less in terms of a relationship.
As for the here and now, my preference would be to take things slowly and get to know each other over time. If you would like to meet early on to I've got a number of those) but if that is how things evolve, I would welcome that. One can never have too many friends and I greatly value all of my friendships.
As far as relationships go, I don't believe in forcing things. As Byron Katie says:
"When you argue with reality you lose -
but only 100% of the time". (lol)
I think there is a tremendous amount of wisdom in that statement. (smile) My belief is that whatever happens was meant to happen.
I think it is incredibly beautiful when two people really connect on a level that is beyond the superficial - whether that be some kind of friendship or a passionate relationship.
I can honestly say that I am at the far end of the bell curve with respect to two related personality traits. I have a strong desire for emotionally intimate friendships and relationships - as well as the emotional courage required to create those with compatible souls. Both of those are necessary for true emotional intimacy.
If you choose to communicate with me, I will not bring any preconceived ideas as to where our communication should ultimately lead. In fact, I will value whatever level of human connection the two of us are able to create.
On the other hand, please also know that, if we are deeply compatible, and you are emotionally courageous, there are no limits as to where such communication could lead us.
If the above sounds refreshing, and the idea of exploring the possibility of a friendship or a relationship with a funny, creative, emotionally supportive, sensual, articulate and trustworthy man is appealing to you, why not drop me a line?
Lastly, the internet is full of BS artists. Anyone can describe themselves however they wish. For whatever it is worth, I have chosen my words - both those that I have used to describe myself as well as what I am looking for - very carefully. They are both sincere and truthful.
By all means be skeptical about the veracity of that last statement. That is only natural. (smile) However, if I might make a suggestion, allow your heart at the same time to remain open to the possibility that all of my words could be true - because in fact they are.
I will answer all replies. Good luck in your search. Best to everyone.
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