11/21/12 Pondering exactly how much submissive men really wish for a *real* self-actualized independently-thinking woman.  I have recently become very frustrated with men who make assumptions about people in general within and outside of the lifestyle.  I am a very unique individual.  I have no "circles" in particular that I run in, and never have...I choose those that I interact with on an individualized basis and the variety of those I consider friends is very eclectic.  I have been this way my entire life. Never getting wrapped up in cliques.  Those that have accepted their darkest secrets and wish to openly and honestly explore those have found that I am one who can see many angles of most all scenarios.  This comes from years of self exploration, reading, learning, and living.  Life can get messy sometimes. Challenging times serve to improve upon lessons learned and elevate me to come out the other side better and stronger.  Two Ani DiFranco songs that I have been appreciating greatly lately are "In or Out" and "32 Flavors". I am excited for recent lessons learned and looking forward to opening further a door just recently opened.

My evolution in kink and all things BDSM have brought me to a place where I thoroughly respect and adore male submission to Me.  I have been continually learning what this means both to me and the submissive boy.  This go around, I will be keeping a few cards very close to my chest. To my friends...thank you for the contribution you have made in My development. Don't be strangers ;)