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MmeWinter

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DISCLAIMER: Gentlemen (and I use this term lightly). I am here for my pleasure much more than yours. As such, a few rules:

* I do not chat unless I know you. If your initial contact is a chat request, I will decline and block you.
* If you message me without obviously having read my profile, I will not respond.
* If you e-mail me and I do not reply, it means I am not interested.
* If I reply to you nicely, and tell you that I am not interested, you slamming me with e-mails attempting to change my mind will not work.
* I am looking for masculine, heterosexual, single men. No "sissy bois," no bi-s, no CD/TV/TS/TG. Deal with it.
* If you contact me, and hope to receive a response from me, you should:
  -- Write in complete sentences
  -- Observe proper English (Capital "I" when referring to yourself, lowercase "you" when referring to me!!! All of that lowercase "i" and capital "You" is trite and trivial, and not worth much if you ask me.)
  -- Tell me directly how you match my interests (if we have no interests in common, why are you bothering me?)
  -- Tell me directly what about my profile interested you (even if it's just the fact that I've got great tits!)
  -- If you have not posted a picture on your profile, send me one with your first e-mail (after all, I was generous enough to provide you with one...and, if you don't have a picture in this age of Internet networking sites, you're not doing it right!)

If you've gotten through all that, here's the good stuff......


Let's get the physical out of the way. I'm nearly 40, but look about a decade younger, fair, soft skin, dark hair, 5'1" (and 1/4", but who's counting?), and "fat" (though I prefer curvaceous and voluptuous). With the "fat" comes luscious, large breasts and an ample ass, which I love to have worshiped.

I possess a healthy sense of irony, a sharp wit, a sarcastic bent, an independent nature, and I am naturally dominant.

I'm a local, born and raised New Orleanian, and I love my home town. I love the music, the food, the culture, the soul, and the smell of the river on a foggy night in Jackson Square. If you've never been you just don't know. And I will not move for anyone, so don't ask.

I describe myself as a sensualist, rather than a sadist, but that does not preclude mild to moderate pain and some kinky shit.

I am seeking an intelligent (please be smart...stupid people bore me to tears), attractive (this is in the eye of the beholder, but I tend to prefer tall, dark, and handsome--think Alan Alda as Hawkeye Pierce or Vince Vaughn in Clay Pigeons), funny, single man for BDSM encounters. You should be masculine, and I appreciate a strong-minded, independent man...though this may seem counter intuitive to a submissive nature, I believe that  a submissive must be secure in who they are before they can truly give themselves to anyone else. For me, there's nothing quite as exhilarating as a strong man handing over his power to me, willingly.

I see BDSM as a power exchange...mental, emotional, and physical power. I don't want a "slave." I want a strong, smart man who wants to give in to me, rather than someone who needs to.

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6/7/2009 9:44:11 PM
I crave a handsome man, standing before me, tied by his hands to the back of a chair, in a leaning position. His legs spread and secured with a bar and ankle cuffs. Blindfolded, he can only hear me, smell the scent of my perfume...and then the sulfur from a lit match. He doesn't know it, but I have just lit two votive candles...the knowledge hits him with the first drops of hot wax on the bare skin of his lean back. I begin to form patterns on his back, every now and then caressing his naked buttocks before dispensing a firm, open-handed slap...

5/31/2009 2:13:03 PM
A word of advice. If you are interested in getting to know me, your initial e-mail should consist of more than "hello" or "are you real" or "tell me about yourself." Tell me...if I put the effort into writing a coherent, introspective introduction for you to read, why shouldn't you put a little bit of effort into your reply? Sure, it might not be easy...but then again, is anything worthwhile ever easy?

5/31/2009 1:46:57 PM
I have a pet peeve! (Gee, imagine that!) I understand that in the vernacular of the "lifestyle," it is a little "i" for submissives when addressing a Dominant. However, this particular Domme is a former English major, and thus appreciates correct grammar and punctuation. So, if you are inclined to contact me, pay attention to your writing style. And for the love of all that is good and holy, use a big "I" when referring to yourself.

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subgirl226
 
 Age: 30
 Any, Alabama