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Queer couple in Kingston, Ontario, seeks traditional leather boy / girl / boi / grrl for service relationship

About us:
We are a cisgendered male/female dominant couple in a committed but open relationship. We are part of an extended leather family comprised of cisgendered and transgendered men and women and others along the gender spectrum; our family is also represented along the whole Kinsey scale. Your sex, gender and sexual orientation aren't important, but you should be comfortable in a setting like this. If you are homophobic or transphobic, you will not be a good match for us.

We are professionals with post-graduate degrees. While you need not be similarly educated, if you are unable to hold your own in a conversation, or string a dozen words together on paper, you will not be a good match for us. Wordplay is as fun for us as painplay, and we are both sadists.

She is a unique femme who expects to be treated like the princess that she is. She can be capricious and cruel, but is usually quite caring. He is calm and confident in his own skin. We value discretion, honesty and integrity above all. And we find competence totally hot.

We are warm and fun to be with, casual home-bodies with a large and comfortable home on a beautiful country acreage. We are non-smokers (except for the occasional cigar), very light social drinkers and do not use recreational drugs. While we do participate in our local leather scene and the leather conference circuit, we find the most joy in the embrace of our leather family and in more intimate settings.

About you:
If your goal and your reward is to provide meaningful and practical service to your Sir or Ma'am, you may be a good match for us.

Your desire to improve your Sir or Ma'am's life will be expressed through acts of service that will meet this goal. What are your skills? What can you offer? Can you cook, serve and clean up a four-course dinner for eight? Can you black our boots and care for our leathers? Do you have a green thumb? Are you willing to learn? We are willing to train you to make the best use of your natural skills and to develop new ones to suit us. He trains people for a living; she's just used to people wanting to please her.

Please note that we are not looking to fill a "live-in" position, but anticipate calling on our servant one or two weekends per month, and perhaps for an evening during the week if they reside close enough to make that practical.

If you need or want constant attention, or if you fail at assigned tasks in the hopes of earning a spanking for being bad, please look elsewhere. Our servant will strive for excellence in everything they set their hand to. Please note, you do not have to be perfect; we certainly aren't! However, we want you to succeed, both for your own pride and satisfaction and ours. Few things bring a smile to our face quicker than a task completed with competence and grace.

You should not expect to be rewarded either with SM or with sex, although both might be asked of you as further acts of service. We have each practiced SM for more than 15 years, taught at national and international SM conferences and are considered creative and inspired players. And we're told we're pretty hot, too .

What do we offer in return for your service? Reasonable goals, clear direction, and correction and training if needed. A sense of purpose and a place at our feet.

Our expectations may sound high, but we would say rather that they are realistic; we see no reason to waste our time, or yours, trying to align mismatched desires.

If this interests you, please contact us. Tell us about yourself, and what you're looking for. References available upon request.

taskmistress10
 
 Age: 27
 Avenel, New Jersey