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Hetero Female Mistress, 34,  Chicago, Illinois
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MistrixMsE - Dominatrix

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 Femdom Dominatrix



 5' 8"

 108 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Transgender

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

Switch Men

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Canes and Crops (Expert)

 CBT (Expert)



 Electrical Play (Expert)

 Foot Worship (Expert)

 Knife Play (Expert)

 Medical Play (Expert)

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I am addressed as Mistrix or Maam. Period. Referring to me as Mistress will get your email deleted before its read. Crystal? The only personal stable positions open are for a latex fetishist cuckold. Read profile, then google me. Photos of your arse or penis will get you blocked. One word sentence emails are deleted. I hate small talk.

On a personal level I will consider the following (no live in!)

One (preferably masochistic) cuckold latex fetishist for extended ongoing potentially public service (hoods acceptable).

A quality filmvideo editor slavesub who is kink friendly with a mainstream *high quality* reel in the Chicago area. Send link and credits (confidential).

Heavy rubber fetishists
TRUE service slaves (without agenda, and with useful skills - not cooking?cleaning) may be considered as well.

Slaves with metal dungeon toy building skills (to my specs)

A tile man for a master bathroom.. as in you do this for a living or are retired from the field, union or ex-union - play time exchange offered, materials already purchased.

2 wood floors two small hallways refinished (random orbital needed, small room).

EXCEPTIONAL photographers (must have a magazine worthy fashion or latex portfolio online).

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Journal Entries:
3/1/2018 2:50:43 AM
Washington DC April 25-27 Berlin May 10-13 Amsterdam May 15-18 London May 19-20 Houston July 6-7 Atlanta July 8-9

2/13/2018 2:06:54 AM
No live ins, ever, period. I do not provide free room and board for random strangers nor do I ever wish to. Both of my homes are fully utilised without you underfoot.

1/8/2018 3:25:07 PM
NO I will not call you or cam with you because you demand it under threats of reporting me for being a scammer when I've never even interacted with you here. Fuck off. I'm not a dancing monkey, nor am I a stupid bitch that will respond to threats and intimidation tactics from fuckwits that want free phone sex. Call your mother for that shit you pathetic wastecase.

1/8/2018 10:45:51 AM
Missing the Netherlands and Britain terribly. I will return after visiting with my cancer team in New York next month.

5/30/2017 7:25:23 AM
I am in USA (Chicago/NYC) until late August. Email direct through email address provided on my website if attempting to reach me for anything time sensitive, I rarely check collarspace (only once in last 3 months).

9/20/2016 11:46:33 AM
For those who've recently asked what they can do to help with my Lung Cancer journey, please share my link to your social media. Its vanilla & can be shared anywhere on any network. Please refrain from including my kink moniker in posts though as a professional courtesy.

9/5/2016 2:23:30 AM
Currently only desirous of a LOCAL bodybuilder type pet who is interested in extreme body modification. I want to grow my own personal Dorian Yates-sized muscle/fuck beast. If you are completely single and willing to do the work I demand in the gym to become a physical specimen of masculine perfection, you may win the ultimare prize.

4/16/2016 7:28:52 AM
I have cancer, again. Surgery is set for June 3. Dont approach me wagging your dick for selfserving fantasist wank fodder for a while. Ive not the patience currently. Follow for updates. I wont be updating here regarding that subject.

11/14/2015 1:36:04 AM
If you claim to be local and real, expect to meet within 48 hours if i find you of any interest. If you cant/wont, dont expect to be considered further.

10/31/2015 6:04:32 PM
There will not be toilet play, strapon, body worship above the knee, or nudity on my part in any lifestyle scene. If this is what you are after, you arent fit for lifestyle service in my stable.

8/30/2015 6:32:08 PM
If your words and actions are inconsistent, my interest will quickly evaporate. Insincerity is not attractive.

8/29/2015 5:39:46 AM
I would never again involve myself personally with an active performer in the kink video scene or someone seeking to become talent. Even someone I'd known 20 years was a glorious disappointment in their judgement, and lack of adhering to mutually agreed upon boundaries. Thus telling me you've done video with another dominant when approaching me on a personal level will not impress me. Nor will bragging about your years of serving another dominant. All that sounds like to me is a pile of bad habits I'll have to break you of. It's easier to cleave what you want from the stone when the block hasn't been sullied & damaged by another sculptors chisel.

8/9/2015 3:08:12 PM
If you message me with a fantasists bs inquiry for 24/7 slavery, you'd better have 30k per year ready to hand me for room and board. I do not need a fucking dependant. I don't have a uterus any longer, what makes you think I want to babysit for free? Likewise, if you are not local to my primary location and applying for any position I indicate is open in my stable, I will expect you to be ready to fly in to interview within 3 weeks, at your own expense as well as your own hotel and ground transportation. There will be no fantasy chat or cam offered. Do not think inquiring to fill a spot in my stable will get you free wank naterial, you will be disappointed.

7/19/2015 10:59:19 PM
If you desire CFNM in personal relations, you ought make sure your nude body is in excellent shape and pleasing to the eye.

7/16/2015 1:00:27 AM
If you are married or in a vanilla relationship, you do not fit the requirements for a cuckold relationship with me. No I will not cater to your fantasies online or cam with you for free. I am not looking for online only distance play. If you are serious, you will make an effort to show me why I ought meet you.

7/13/2015 4:49:24 AM
The catsuit came. THE catsuit. Blue transparent from RubberEva, full vaginal and anal sheaths. Finally I'll be fully enclosed, and getting fucked. Full gummi while my massive stud rails my slippery rubber holes & pumps load after load in side me.

Sad commentary though, that not one quality, real cuckold has stepped forward to put forth any effort to impress with sincerity. Such a shame I won't have a bound blindfolded cuck kneeling at foot of bed to suck his cum out of my rubbery holes once he finishes me off.

6/23/2015 8:24:42 PM
I am largely retired from pro sessions. My available session schedule is limited to 1 day per week, on the weeks I am in the Chicago area and my requirements for scheduling with new players are significantly increased. I will continue to shoot video 2 days a month, through the end of this year. My current personal interests focus on skilled LOCAL service slaves/subs with compatible kink/play interests, so that we might both enjoy your rewards for proper service. Skills include tile man, restoration plaster (sand/structural), other construction). Chaste cuckoldry is also a personal interest, along with heavy medical, latex/rubber, and heavy corporal. Cuckoldry is a relationship, not an act. If you aren't clear as to the difference, read my journal quite thoroughly before broaching the subject. If you aren't financially/socially/occupationally in the same bracket as I or higher, we are likely not compatible in that manner. I have 3 residences, in 2 countries, table for work, and do not want a live in. I will not engage in wank fodder fantasy conversation here, nor cam/chat online to provide you free titilation. If you aren't sincere enough to meet during my first available week or two, do not approach me with supposed personal interest.

6/9/2015 9:13:09 AM
Happy birthday to me...

One of those curious things, of all the 'serious' wanna be subs, slaves and cucks here who i've refused to engage in wank fantasy BS with, and asked to introduce themselves to me as whole people.... not a one made it more than a few superficial emails or produced any conversation of substance.. instead going mute when I still wouldn't feed wank erotica. That means not a fucking one wanted to know anything real about me, not even something as superficial as my birthday... to even offer well wishes on. 

And that right there is why I do not engage in fantasy/kinky conversation here or anywhere with those ii don't own, or play with in real time. I detest people who are openly insincere to try to use strangers for their own sexual gratification.

5/29/2015 6:49:45 AM
All photos on my profile are of myself, and recent. Feel free to Google MistrixMsE if you wish to 'verify' my authenticity. I can be reached real time on many social media platforms.

5/18/2015 11:19:40 AM
Wanna be cucks: The more you go on about my stud, the quicker you are disqualified. You will not meet him unless I deem you compatible and your relationship with me is established. As a cuckold your relationship is with your cuckoldress NOT her cock du jour. Get your head out of your asses.

5/8/2015 3:25:03 PM
Wanted: Chicago area submissive/slave/cuckold tile man to do my small luxury master bath. Materials provided by me, of course. Play time offered in return if interests otherwise compatible. LOCAL ONLY.

3/9/2015 5:10:17 PM
A good cuck knows his place & doesn't try to steer the ship to feed his own titillation/sexual gratification.
Cuckoldry ought be for the cuckoldresses gratification... your want to clean up her pussy won't mean shit if she doesn't desire it. 
Prattering on about your fantasy version of being her cuckold is exactly backward. Ask her how she wishes to be served. 
You know what I find sexy in a cuck? A fetish for dressing me in rubber & fine dining, social skills so I can dine with him in public & home renovation skills (or ability to pay a pro). The latter is especially important for Chicago area hopeful cuckolds - my stud won't visit here until 2 more room renovations are finished. Ideally before my trip to Europe in May.

2/15/2015 10:38:39 PM
If you don't take seriously the opportunity to serve me, I won't take you seriously. The quality of your initial email & appropriateness of the photos you attach will make or break you when contacting me.

2/8/2015 3:18:40 PM
I don't respond to photo compliment platitudes. Nor will I give you permission to ask a question. I will answer questions that suit me. I'll ignore anything I find inappropriate. One and two sentence emails and demands for play are ignored. Read profile and journal in full.

2/2/2015 1:22:36 AM
Spectacularly hung new stud... yummy.

1/20/2015 11:22:31 PM
I am not interested in switches or dominants for personal/lifestyle play. If you identify as such, we are not compatible outside of strictly professional sessions. Google my name and contact me via my website if that is your interest. I do not entertain pro session inquiries via this site

12/22/2014 7:15:46 PM
Lovely sub helped with driving me about to get wheels and tires for my Lincoln today. Well appreciated.

11/13/2014 11:04:50 PM
Think of your first email to me as a letter inquiring about your dream job. Use your words & articulate! Form a quality introduction, after thoroughly reading my profile, journal, and if you are really committed, my twitter and website. Be thoughtful and professional in how you present yourself. Single sentence emails are not acceptable.

11/5/2014 10:41:27 PM
Feeling good as I head to indianapolis for the next couple days. Final US tour starts sunday, with my dear friend the amazong Julie Simone. What a great way to finish a long, interesting chapter. Looking forward to Memphis & seeing old music industry friends in Nashville. Louisville and St louis will be a nice close.

10/20/2014 2:16:02 PM
ONE MORE TIME I do not disrobe whilst I play, in personal, video or professional sessions. I do not permit skin to skin body worship above the knee. I engage in CHASTE cuckoldry. You will be locked. This is not up for discussion or debate.

8/23/2014 3:46:30 PM
Any horny bi, gay, bi curious, or just plain horny guys want a blow job tonight at embassy suites minneapolis/st Paul airport? I've got a cocksucker waiting for your load...

3/16/2014 4:03:14 AM

Yes, I will use you for my own desires, addict you to the pleasure in my face as I cause you pain, delight in the destruction of your ego, and bend you deftly to my will. Yes, I will consider you online.. but my attention will quickly lapse if RT is not soon achieved. No, you will never experience my Goddess pussy, but yes, you will forever covet it.. dream of it.. and ache to be near it. I am quite specific as to my needs.. wants.. demands... you must be able to fulfill at least two if you hope to earn a moment of my counsel & consideration. To retain my interest, you must follow through without hesitation. A man slave is only as valuable as his word and sincerity. Do read my profile & journal before you introduce yourself using your most gentlemanly tone... and remember that I value thorough and articulate written communication. Do not omit which of my stated needs & desires you hope to fill...

3/5/2014 4:17:41 PM

I can no easier 'switch' and become a submissive, than a car can 'switch' and become a kitten.

2/17/2014 10:49:54 PM

ABDL, Coprophila, Beastial interests are not compatible with my personal play/service needs or wants, nor are subs/slaves who wish to relocate/move into my home. I don't desire a roomie, nor a dependent.

2/5/2014 10:45:37 PM

I am a whip top with a serious rubber and medical fetish, and a love of chaste cuckoldry... I am very much into other things, but those 4 are at top of the list. looking for a physically fit heavy masochist who is desirous of wearing marks for personal play. I'm craving a heavy whip scene.

I like my cuck chaste. No, you won't dictate who's cock I fuck, or its color. This is not about the cock YOU want to suck, its about which one I want to suck. Don't get it confused.

1/3/2014 11:48:51 AM

Nothing like that first time you let your boy fuck your ass, instead of the other way 'round. So hot being slam fucked hard to an anal orgasm. Maybe tonight i'll let him stuff my pussy with a dildo while he cums in it.... mmmm. Wonder which one of you cucks is drooling imagining me pushing it out and dripping it into your gaping mouth?

Think I need that latex catsuit with the pussy & ass sheaths now so he can fuck me fully gummi'd

12/15/2013 3:31:24 AM

Tranistioning away from taking pro domme sessions with anyone who is not either owned by me, or in committed service to me, unless they have reference from a PERSONAL friend. After Jan 1, it will be much more difficult to session with me for the 'first' time. Its a matter of preferring to have a real relationship with those who I play with and there be a true give and take. Domination as a menu item with bucket list types eventually becomes less fulfilling. (by that i mean those curious, I always wanted to see what its like types that arent really naturally 'into' kink).

I have 3 book projects I am working on, one kink in nature (poetry and prose for perverts) and the others not. I have 4.5 businesses to attend to, art to create, leather to design, and a beautiful masochist to enjoy whenever I wish. I'm blessed with the ability to choose to be selective, and I am.

I'll continue to produce video content, and have a dvd project in the works, and see only those who are sincere in their desire to serve me, SPECIFICALLY. If you are one of those guys who wants to be owned by ANYONE.. I am not the dominant for you.

If you wish to casually interact with me, then follow me on twitter @mistrixmse and do so there. One sentence emails here will still get your message deleted.

6/25/2013 9:08:03 PM

All hail your current "Fetish Queen of the Universe" 2013. No, seriously... I have a tiara & a sash & everything. 

6/1/2013 5:42:57 AM

I don't cam verify... I don't fucking have to. I'm a well known public figure with an impeccable reputation, you... not so much. No free cam, so don't waste your time asking. If you don't actively serve me, there is *no* reason for me to cam with you. Why precisely do you think you should get special treatment & jump to the head of the line?

9/25/2012 9:09:56 PM

No pussy boy, I only fuck highly masochistic, hard bodied, attractive alpha subs. You are neither alpha, nor attractive... I'm betting you'd disappoint in the maso department as much as you'd fail in my bed. 

6/18/2012 11:38:01 AM

Worst part of being a real sadist.... Is the scarcity of truly masochistic, attractive, athletic, hard bodied, hung men with IQs high enough to keep me from wanting to euthanize them the first time I have to *talk* to them at length. Such is life.<br><br>I have come to the realization that only a studly & attractive complete masochist slave is the only pet with a chance of crossing over to personal slave with bedroom privileges. By masochist I mean extended hours of whips, canes, needles, blood and asphyxia. I'm close to done with even attempting vanillas, and  playing at pussy levels in personal relationships with those who have weaker constitutions is just  a brain damage scene. Time for someone to really step up and meet *my* needs. My sadist bone has a raging hard on and it rarely gets satisfied. The line forms at the left, just don't delude yourself.. If you don't fit the bill don't waste my time. Attractive, well built, high endurance, few if any limits in my hands, emotionally mature, your own home (I don't want a roomie) and financially stable required. I ain't your sugar momma.

6/9/2012 11:50:23 AM

Happy Birthday to *ME*. Work out, a salad & then a 10 hour scene w/fave pet.

5/18/2012 12:43:29 PM

DomCon LA 2012 entry
Having a blast already. The latex 10 domme photo shoot on the beach was a delight. Can't believe we all made it up and dressed at 8 am. Accosting surfers is such a blast. Pliable little things they are!

4/23/2012 12:58:13 PM

A little irritation with a profile i read last night. Taking pro-domme sessions, and being a lifestyle domme are NOT mutually exclusive. Having kept a 24/7 live in in a full time DS relationship for the past 7 years (though it has come to an end), most of it during my retirement from the pro scene, I get annoyed at this rampant idea that they two are not compatible.

I've 5 businesses, which keep my bloody busy. I travel pitching to investors. Thus, I spend 1/2 the month away from my home, my Disciplinarium & my personal slaves. While I am lucky to have some personal service subs/slaves in some of the cities I travel to, many of the pets who visit me for pro sessions on the road are married, and their time away is limited... thus it is hard for them to be of personal service. It does not mean I don't enjoy their company, however if they have but an hour or two to indulge, it's perfectly acceptable to me to focus on areas of mutual play interests. That said, those individuals are best suited for pro-sessions where they can be assured they'll get some of their needs filled in the process.

The same goes when home, some subs simply don't desire a committed service relationship. They need to scratch an itch when they can slip away but don't desire a lifestyle personal relationship as involved as would be required to serve personally. Some feel that too significant of an emotional attachment, as often develops in personal service is somehow cheating on their spouse (indeed, it can be, if not at least walking a fine line) and fell better in a strictly pro/paid session. There they can enjoy playing with a casual friend they trust, and know there are no expectations or commitments beyond the end of the hour or two.

4/22/2012 10:44:41 PM

Had such a great time with MsToxicGoddess in DC Friday... bottle 0f Moet, a double session with a new sub, and drinks n dinner at hotel bar thanks to my lovely new service sub j. Now, I've arrived at the lair of my dear friend MissAlice Skary, and cant wait to play with a boy I met at DomCon in Atlanta recently. Nice of him to travel in to see me here! 

3/16/2012 10:19:45 PM

Looking for a passable trans switch for occasional sessions at my dungeon. If well skilled, this is a paid position. If you should need training, pay will commence when your skills deem it.

12/1/2011 1:10:11 PM

I want a good cuck... leading to long term cuck scenario. One with class, who knows his place. Cheap wankers looking for a fuck show, may move along now.. this is much, much more. I travel to several cities regularly, and am seeking someone ongoing in those areas.

To paraphrase Mellencamp.... I need a cuckold who wont drive me crazy.. who understands that my pussy is far too good for him. No pigs please.. if you will be in my company regularly, be someone worthy of my presence if you plan to apply

Take me shopping for some new lingerie, dress & heels.. be our driver for a night out..  watch us from a nearby table... send us drinks.... return us to the guest suite you lovingly put together for me, where your ego will unravel...

If you really put forth the extra effort.. impress me somehow... you might be permitted a few hours in my closet to come to terms with your inadequacies while my stud does to me what you can't... There will be no touching by you, of myself or my stud. I don't care to sample microbes, including yours.

I am currently looking for a very special cuckold LONG TERM in Boston, NYC, Charlotte, Washington DC, Atlanta, Los Angeles, London, Amsterdam or Berlin. You may get to watch as I see fit, but in no way will you ever participate physically.

If you are only into BBC, forced bi or cleanup scenes, don't bother me. A proper inquiry includes your name, and non-kink bio about yourself & what you have to offer, as well as a clothed photo showing your face.

11/29/2011 12:20:26 AM

I do not accept chat requests from those who havent introduced themselves via email first.

11/2/2011 11:09:12 PM

Clarifying for those who misunderstand.. A personal, owned, collared slave does NOT get off easier/cheaper than a pro-session sub.

A pro-session sub plays based on their interests as well as mine, and their commitment of time/tribute is purely at their discretion. While a continued relationship of regular scenes & personal interaction is always desired, there is no expectation of exclusivity, or demand of regular service.

A personal slave serves a year under consideration at minimum. There are specific requirements on a monthly or weekly or daily basis. A number of extended periods of service are required. During those periods my happiness is your one & only priority. You will refrain from offering yourself to anyone else during term of your consideration. You are expected to contribute emotionally, personally, fulfilling my NON-SEXUAL needs. Not a free ride slavery scene. I'm not your sugar momma.

I do not collar lightly. You must serve as a personal slave for a year+ before collar is an option. As a collared slave YOU and your resources become MINE. You are to serve at my whim & pleasure, and serve only me unless I personally choose to share you with a friend.

10/18/2011 11:53:03 PM

I am growing my leather family in DC, Philly, Boston, NYC, Los Angeles and Atlanta. I am selecting only the most compatible & dedicated to be this closely intertwined in my world. A compatible cuck, a domestic/personal servant, and an attractive masochistic female slave for video use. If you care to apply, inquire with respect, and a lack of top from the bottom-ness.

9/11/2011 9:58:35 PM

Interviewing service slaves for the Disciplinarium in NW Indiana (& several locations other locations I regularly visit). Construction & related backgrounds of particular interest. Not tit for tat trade... this is LIFESTYLE service. I will reward you as the quality of your service dictates.

To be considered you must have a face photo on profile, or include with letter of interest. Mention availability & your primary skills, those you are at professional/expert skill level and ability. If you say you have plumbing skills, but don't own a single wrench...  you very well may have the skill, but not the ability... If you don't have a car or a job, you cant do my grocery shopping.. etc

SERVICE opportunities (submissive pets only) in Chicago, Las Vegas, Los Angeles, Atlanta &/or New York:
*Cosmetic Dentist
*Dr to prescribe HGH off-label
*Footslaves with good taste in shoes (massage skils a plus)
*Shopping slaves for in person shopping trips
*Fabulous Fetish & Fashion Photographers (love that alliteration) 

*Carpenter to build barrister bookcases for head Mistrix's office, & a confessional for the bar, must be union/retired & have or provide your own tools/materials
*Construction background slaves roofers, plaster, mason for glass block windows (materials provided)
*Grocery shopping slave: slave to do my shopping for me bi-weekly, to exacting standards. May require trips to multiple stores/shops.

Los Angeles:
*Driver(s) available day, night or both during my trip, Nov 12th-16th
*Slave experienced in pony cart building to build a pony cart for the S&M ranch.
*Slave to expand the dungeon at the ranch (add a 3rd room)
*Attractive, fit masochistic slave girl age 20-26 for video use, non-sex. Must show face, have ID & sign a release.

Worldwide Travel Slaves:
Austin, Atlanta, Boston, Denver, Houston, L.A., Las Vegas, Miami, Minneapolis, Nashville, NYC, Philadelphia, Phoenix, Pittsburgh, San Francisco, Seattle, Tampa, Washington DC, Toronto, Montreal, Vancouver, London, Amsterdam, Antwerp, Berlin, Milan, Paris
Gift air miles, or airline gift card for my airfare or hotel to visit your city. Serve as my personal driver, valet, tour guide, dinner companion, or abuse slave in whatever capacity I desire during my trip. Expect to spend several hours serving me in some capacity.

These are the only opportunities to serve me without tribute currently. If you feel you bring something else SUBSTANTIAL & EXCEPTIONAL to the table, feel free to inquire, but do not be surprised if I tell you pro-sessions are all I will offer you.

**While I am adding members to my leather family in L.A., NYC, Atlanta & Philadelphia as well) I won't offer those positions to one who has not served me several times RT at minimum, in either personal service or pro-sessions. I wont relocate you. No live ins, don't ask.**

9/4/2011 10:17:54 PM

If you wish, dream, or fantasize about serving me, a polite introduction (which does not include photos of your dick) is the first step. Tell me about yourself, your (non-kink) interests and abilities, how often you can serve, any limits on your availability, what you do for a living, educational background, if you are married/single/in relationship, and how you can be an asset to my life. I don't chase subs/slaves. Express your interest respectfully, and I'll consider it. How long I consider it, is up to how well you present yourself. If you have special NON-SEXUAL skills, articulate them.

8/7/2011 12:13:19 PM

Special wishlist just for all of you who beg to be my cuck.. there ya go.. get started!

When I see male slaves call themselves experts at queening, it is met by audible laughter. Doh! Word of advice? Don't be THAT guy.. and NO CHAT REQUESTS UNLESS PRECEEDED BY A MESSAGE OF INTRODUCTION. Text chat only.

7/25/2011 11:23:13 PM

Most recent photos from July 2011 are both marked across the frame with ©2011
Photos of me with slavegirl in swing & at my feet are from June 2011

6/28/2011 12:43:43 AM

Pay Pigs are always welcome in person or online.

6/20/2011 11:25:41 AM

Confirmed dates: Los Angeles S&M ranch July 13-18

Flint July 21
Minneapolis MN july 24
Iron Range MN july 26-27
Madison WI july 31
Cleveland Aug 8
Pittsburgh Aug 9-10
Columbus Aug 11
Indy Aug 12

Booking inquiries:
Deposit is required.

6/11/2011 11:43:14 AM

Awesome gift for my birthday.. a chiro adjustment Mistrix sorely needed. Perfect.

6/8/2011 10:22:16 PM


5/29/2011 10:00:39 PM

I am expanding my leather family, to include a collared service oriented slave member in Los Angeles, Philadelphia and Atlanta each to serve at my leisure, long term. I may consider a pet in San Francisco or an additional in Chicago also. The ideal candidate also has an affinity for, or willingness to engage in pain play.

You will NOT be eclipsing my alpha. You must accept your inevitable lower status in my pack to be considered, this does not mean you will not benefit from my full commitment as your owner, Mistrix, and protector.

I do NOT collar lightly. I hope to have someone in place by end of the summer in these areas, should a compatible pet make him or herself known to me, and offer me their neck. If we have not, played, or spent time together at some point, you are NOT going to wear my collar. If this is your situation, introduce yourself to me respectfully at an event, or schedule a session in private.

5/29/2011 9:13:06 PM

Confirmed tour dates through October added to calendars at and

Dates CONFIRMED are open to booking & deposits.

I will consider a few very select slaves to accompany me to Dom Con Atlanta in October. Only one will be chosen. This will be a very lifestyle opportunity.... 4.5 days in service to Mistrix 24/7. If interested in being considered, message me with a proper letter with offer of service. Know I will evaluate you very thoroughly.

If we have not met, spent time together, or played, you are NOT going to be considered.

5/28/2011 5:08:41 PM

I am back at the Disciplinarium until the 5th. Book sessions now!I then leave for Raleigh the 6 & 7th, and Atlanta the 8-12th. I celebrate my birthday in Atlanta this year!

Service slave opportunities at the Disciplinarium:
Need fence line poles for 4 ft chain link fence & the fence installed, a second slave will be provided. Caps/top guides & 10 ft rolling gate needed. Chain link has been delivered.

5/25/2011 7:07:20 PM

Service opportunity's in Tarzana CA at the ranch:

We could use a slave with lawnmower etc to prepare the ranch property for summer pony play, a small pony cart built, and the pony track prepared. Some bamboo privacy fencing must be installed as well.

A slave with landscaping (tree/shrub pruning) skills would be a benefit here at the Tarzana ranch twice a month, and a cover needs to be made for the jacuzzi.

5/24/2011 9:11:07 PM

Lovely service boy came & spent time in Mistrix's service, and served the other Mistresses also. Thank you slave j

5/23/2011 6:24:33 PM

Last nights photo of Nurses Mistrix Ms E & Mistress Mika

5/23/2011 3:15:59 AM

I tell you, some of the 'slaves' on this site make me want to rent a woodchipper... seriously fucktards... dont bother inquiring if you aren't going to follow through, I WILL blacklist every fucking one who books and no shows... you wont do it twice to any other legit dommes.. thats for sure....especially if you book for video.

Best stick with the pop-up hooker with a whip 'dommes' if you wanna play games, cuz this bitch will out you for it. TRUST ME sweethearts.... it isnt worth all the publicity I'll give you if you are a domme yanker dumbcunt.

Better hope your girlfriend/boss/wife doesn't google your phone number for shits & giggles if you are going to act like a waster wad of cocksnot.

Thank you to my fabulous playmate from Monday night the 24th.. you certainly improved my opinion of collarme denizens.. we must do it another time!

5/19/2011 8:05:03 PM

I will be at the Sanctuary LAX party Saturday.. you may say hello should you see me, respectfully.

5/15/2011 11:51:52 PM

Larger discount than usual for video slaves in L.A. this trip 1 opening remains for slaves to shoot video clips with me at 40% discounted tribute. I am a few days behind on content production & would like to catch up he 17th-20th.
Must sign release, hoods/masks ok. Limits respected.<br><br>$150/hr again only for 1 more interested slave. You'll get a code for download of your clips as well. If your fantasies include exhibitionism, this is the opportunity to indulge it & enjoy a discount as well.

5/14/2011 10:47:46 PM

Yes I will be attending Dom Con & some of the events. I may make time for casual nibbles & tea with fans, subs, slaves & supplicants. IF I have it to make.

5/12/2011 11:43:40 AM

Mistrix Returns To L.A. May 17-27
Sessions in Tarzana May 17-27
(5 dommes available for doubles with advance notice - NOT commercial dungeon/on call')
Sessions at Sanctuary LAX May 18-21 (no doubles)

I am seeking two slaves to add to my leather family/stable in CA. I will NOT offer these positions to a slave who has not served me in person or in video & shown themselves worthy. I am NOT giving free sessions to audition slaves as it were.

You MUST have something to offer personally, intellectually, financially or have great resources of particular use to me. No waste case broke slaves with no skills (mental, physical, or social) looking for free play!

5/2/2011 1:19:31 PM

Special double domme rates in Philly... save $100 hr off of our normal tributes with myself & the lovely Ms Thora Nang. Email missespantys@ (remove the space) to schedule.<br><br>Taking sessions May 2-5.

4/22/2011 11:07:27 PM

Flint April 26
Philadelphia May 2-5
Los Angeles May 17-2
Raleigh NC June 6 & 7
Atlanta June 8-12
All other dates @ Disciplinarium NWI (near Chicago) Email to book

4/18/2011 11:37:43 PM


300+ clips for sale in 100+ categories. Get your perv on... fem dom, fetish, male slaves, female slaves....

2/14/2011 9:52:08 PM

Cock photos attached to your emails to me are both presumptuous and rude. I have NO interest in gazing at your tallywacker. Trust me when I say, I've seen MUCH better examples.

A gentleman slave/sub does NOT step forward with a pleading email begging to serve.. stapled to photos of his worthless impersonation of a cock. That's like whipping out your cock on the subway in front of a mother & her kid. Rude, unacceptable, and certainly NOT something you are doing for the Domme's benefit.

If you get off on randomly sending photos of your cock to women who have not expressed ANY interest in seeing it... with NO invitation whatsoever.... dont f'n do it to me, lest you be blocked and banished.

if you've erred and made the mistake already... I'd suggest you start with an apology...

2/3/2011 5:08:52 PM

Taken down by the flu... hoping to re-open over the weekend.

Please note the following info before calling/emailing to schedule. After numerous garbled VMs WAY outside business hours, and unintelligible email inquiry's I am posting a not so gentle reminder about proper etiquette.

Before calling or emailing about a session you MUST read booking & rules pages at thoroughly. When the new site design is loaded, an online slave/sub application will be required.

I prefer you contact via email FIRST at the email provided, properly, with the info requested on the booking page instructions at my website. ESPECIALLY if you are just checking availability but are not ready to BOOK.

Do not email/call me to ask when I will be in your area without first checking
the calendar on my website.

Phone call hours are 11 am-9 pm CST. 5 minute limit. Unblock your phone before calling. I wont communicate with blocked callers. Do not call repeatedly over & over in rapid succession. Leave a message on your first attempt to call, do not leave another message for at least 24 hours.

If you call me before or after that, you are back burnered immediately.
Disturbing me or waking me at other hours *just pisses me off*.

When leaving a voice mail message do NOT try to use a 'sexy voice' or hushed tones. I generally CANT UNDERSTAND messages left like that. Include your NAME, general interest, CITY, phone number, and repeat your number once. If you can receive calls only at a specific time of day, mention it. DO NOT *INSTRUCT* me to call in a one hour window on a certain day (rude).

Deposit is required to schedule for:
first time clients, BS, RS, extended sessions
~and~ ANYONE who has previously canceled a first appointment, late canceled, or no showed a previous appointment

PAYPAL is not accepted for deposits. Amazon gift card or Southwest Air gift card only. Southwest gift cards can take 12-14 hours to forward through, Amazon cards take up to an hour.

10/15/2010 9:22:36 AM

Hit someone with my new bone handle whip last night that I got at DomCon. I love!

Giving many many lashes on the 23rd with another new whip. It was video'd in clips that are now for sale at

10/14/2010 12:27:10 PM
So refreshed, and so many new toys after DomCon!

Come out & see...

10/11/2010 1:24:17 PM
You must email my gmail address below to book. Collar me doesn't work from BB. If your profile says dominant, it goes to spam.

New Travel Announced - dates listed are confirmed:

Madison WI - Oct 17
Minneapolis MN - Oct 18
Duluth MN - Oct 19
Cleveland OH - Oct 24
Pittsburgh PA - Oct 25 & 26
Philadelphia PA - Oct 26 & 28
Columbus OH - Oct 29
Indianapolis - Oct 30
Los Angeles CA - Nov
New York NY - Nov

All other dates I am at the Disciplinarium in Gary, IN

Email   missespantys @ (remove  spaces) to book

Needles, electrical, bondage, cbt, foot &  smoke fetishes, mummification, ball busting, whips, floggers, canes, paddles, strap on training, sissification, and much  much more.

Roman & golden will be  available at all stops.

8/10/2010 12:33:57 AM
Looking for a new slave/switch *GIRL* or passable 24/7 TS for around the Disciplinarium in Gary, IN. Being willing to appear on camera is a plus.

Not a live in position (though that might be offered after 1 year of service). I am both lifestyle & pro-domme. This position will reflect that.

Slave will be paid for her time in sessions with tributing clients, and submit to my training for my pleasure as I see fit...

Send letter of application and introduction to my directly via the email address on my website

Height/weight should be proportionate, but by no means must you be a skinny minnie!

7/24/2010 2:24:05 AM
Oh yeah... its MISTRIX not Mistress MF'rs....

For the 50,000th time NO TEXTS!
I have them TURNED OFF at the PHONE CO. END at My REQUEST.

6/21/2010 12:23:34 PM
I don't take kindly to male 'Doms' messaging to hit on me, flirt, or inanely blather. Unless you have a real, business oriented purpose for contacting me - that in no way includes me submitting, or being involved in illegal activity, or a non-platonic overtone - then DON'T EMAIL ME.

5/26/2010 1:40:13 PM
I am BOTH a Pro-Domme and a LIFESTYLE domme. The difference? When I choose a slave who suits me & my needs/interests, and they have the endurance to serve me, they may be offered a stable position or used for private play. I usually find these slaves at events or they come to session & I decide to keep them around. That is LIFESTYLE play.... As a pro-domme I mainly focus on the slave or subs interests/needs. They pay me because they have an idea of what they want to explore & I'm happy to oblige, even if it isn't a 'favorite' activity, provided it doesn't cross my limits. They pay me for the priviledge of having me focus on their interests/preferences in a safe supportive environment. Sometimes I find slaves in pro sessions that I eventually keep.. If we mesh well & I enjoy them & they are willing to be molded as I see fit that is where they might cross over. The two are not mutually exclusive.

5/24/2010 12:41:10 PM
15 shopping days left til Mistrix's birthday! If you'd like to spoil Mistrix:

5/24/2010 10:20:04 AM
Have I mentioned how much I detest the pratterings of horny 'dominant' or 'switch' males who feel they must engage in self-elevation by blathering about how much they 'know' while asking for phone or messenger contact info? If you approach me, kneel and come humble worm! I loathe your brain numbing bullshit. No, you can not educate me on ANY subject. Do not attempt to sound intellectual or superior, the fact that you need to TRY proves that you are not. Your self importance does not impress me.

4/24/2010 8:34:57 PM
Collarme emails will be answered on mondays, weds, & thurs from now on. To book an appointment you must email direct (& read rules/info at website). I am no longer looking for a maid. I am doing a trial with one I hope will work out long term.

4/23/2010 8:58:21 AM
If your a waster, a wanker, a dead beat, looking for a sex partner, or are a male dom trying to find a domme female to conquer, don't bother wasting my time.

4/22/2010 4:53:34 PM
I accept distance slaves, but I require actual training. I prefer those who can commit to making a minimum one in person session/year. I am primarily a R/T domme with a private professional space in NW Indiana near Chicago, and I do travel nationwide. If you are simply looking to be my paypiggie we can work that out as well. Please be clear as to what your interests are.

4/22/2010 9:52:13 AM
Policys for live in person domination sessions: You must book via EMAIL. Not on collarme, direct twitter message etc. You may contact me here for email address & to check availability, but you must send booking email as instructed on my website. You MUST read the booking information and RULES at before setting your appointment. Its a free & very informational website. Because of wasters (no show new toilets) all brown & roman shower clients are required to pay a deposit for their first session, no less than 24 hrs before session. It can be paid IN PERSON or online and is deducted from session tribute. If you do not wish to pay deposit, do not bother me asking for a shower session. I have to turn down existing scat & puke clients to accomodate new ones, because B/S & R/S can only be done once a day.

4/20/2010 9:16:47 PM
If you offer ownership to me and I find out you're offering yourself to other mistresses you will be taxed & spent! I do not take posession lightly! Don't offer it lightly.

4/14/2010 10:53:37 AM
Reminder: I do not book sessions via emails. Email me at missespantys (remove the space) To schedule, and review the rules/booking info on my website

4/14/2010 7:34:18 AM
Wow. All these playtoys begging to be played with... Yet only 3 responded to distance slave roll call at yesterday. Disappointing!

4/12/2010 7:49:01 PM
Slipping in the ben wa balls I was just sent as a gift. Taking a night off ;) Send me something that turns you on imagining me using...

4/12/2010 10:33:51 AM
If you wish distance training, follow my twitter. That is the first step. Failure at this juncture is not an option.

4/12/2010 10:31:59 AM
Permission to ask a question is granted. Speak.

4/11/2010 1:24:45 PM
If you have an avi of any of my scenes from Poison Candy or any of my fetish films, email it to me via my website! I'll send a special photo thank you ;) Email address is all over the site!

4/11/2010 10:08:11 AM
I am strictly a top. Don't bother with the old 'you have to try bottoming to be a good top' line. Seriously, it is a time waster if nothing else. Too busy to dignify you with a reply to 'inquirys' like that. Expect a ka'block if you do!

4/8/2010 9:40:32 AM
1/2 hour sessions $20 off Friday April 9 to Tues April 13 Book from website

4/5/2010 4:11:22 PM
April 15th sale: 20% off any session at Gary, IN location

3/20/2010 12:24:28 AM
Don't message me asking me to chat on Yahoo Messenger or AIM. I won't install that cr@ppy software. I only have google chat & am available there only when I am logged into my email from the web. That is very rarely, unless I am scheduled for a tributed chat domination session.

3/16/2010 3:02:11 PM
Anyone interested in using or having their property use my cock sluts, send me a message. Mouths and asses available. These little pricks need to suck some real cocks & earn their keep!

3/15/2010 1:00:58 PM
Looking for a sissy shoe fairy for online training - if you do very well, offline. To apply, send me a polite letter of introduction & either message me here (I only log in here once a week) Or at: (On there daily) or via email from my site: (I reply several times a day)

1/26/2010 1:33:47 PM
If you attempted to visit my website this morning while it was down, it is all better and back up. If you dont know the url, just google my name "Mistrix Ms E" in quotes.

1/25/2010 4:03:32 PM
New photo added of my new SWITCH Miss Jerzee. 5 ft 5, 115 lbs, size 4, natural redhead. Available for scenes at my Gary, IN play space 7 days a week.

2 Domme, sub, Domme/sub, or voyeur sessions. Add her to your scene in any role you wish...

1/22/2010 1:35:05 PM
New photo strip from a fab humiliation, worship & strapon session. Enjoy.

1/22/2010 4:49:06 AM
Be sure to add me on twitter at

1/4/2010 2:36:42 PM
Lots of new pics up. Enjoy, subbies!

1/4/2010 6:43:36 AM
First pic up! Naughty nurse. More to come.

1/3/2010 6:27:02 PM
Pics coming soon!

1/3/2010 5:57:50 PM
I have amazing specials from Jan. 3-10 in advance of some renovations. Contact me for details!

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