If you are interested in a relationship with me, READ THIS FIRST.

you need to be a single male under 30. Period. Single is not negotiable. The age range would be negotiable within a year or two, but no more than that.

you need to have a job, a car, and somewhere to live (This one shouldn't need to be said).

you should have a slave's heart. By this I mean that you shouldn't just want to submit during a scene or when you are horny. Understanding that there are times that I will play with you and other times that you will bring me a drink, sit at my feet, and we will watch cable for the evening is essential. It won't all be whips, chains, and getting off. In fact, getting off will be rare.

I give writing assignments. Probably once or twice a week. These are important both for my own reference and your own growth.

I do not play casually. This is a deeply emotional thing for me and it's not a game for me.

I don't have sex with my submissive. Period. No sex, no oral sex, no anal sex. This will not change at any point, and there is no wiggle room. I am happily married and I sleep with my husband. No one else.

I expect COMPLETE openness and honesty. You will get that from me, and I expect that from you. I want to hear all your thoughts and feelings on anything that we do together. I may not always agree with you, but I always want to know.

I will always respect your limits, but I will push your boundaries. I expect you to respect my limits as well, and not push and shove to get your way.

My hope is that the right submissive will be a part of my family. This means spending time at my house even when we have no play planned, interacting with my son, hanging out with my husband, and my close friends. I live my life out in the open, and I expect you to be a part of it.

Google 'The Nine Levels of Submission' and figure out where you are. There may be some discrepancy between where you are and where you want to be, but knowing where you fall is important. Prepare to talk to me about those expectations right off the bat.

If you aren't from Michigan or are in the U.P. or live somewhere that would make real time impossible, don't waste My time. I don't do online relationships or LDR's.

I give a standard written assignment to every prospective submissive.  When and if I give this assignment to you, keep that in mind; you are not the only one to ever do this for Me. So make a point of going above and beyond, of setting yourself apart. I am not interested in the bare minimum in this assignment or in your service. If you're looking to skate by and not give your all to this, you're talking to the wrong Dominant.